My , My we do rush around

I am sitting with a cup of tea yes I know very old fashion . It is not a mocka coca gino it is just tea. Very hot water pour over leaves of a plant. You have to wait for tea as it is not a science it is taste. The leaves are of the same weight but not every cup of tea is the same. There are recipes for tea but there is always a variation of the taste. Many of the marketed ideas on what we should drink or for that matter have or put as important in our lives. Perfection was once a matter of one's own taste now it is so dependent on what we are told is perfection or as a neighbor has just said to me you gotta get this, every one else has one.

Now as I sit here with my tea , I had a flash back to child hood. On this the seventh day of Christmas I would ask myself you would be the last. No morbid minds now, who would be the last to turn off their Christmas lights. Now if I listen to the advertisements well Christmas ended already Boxing Day was on the 22 of December as that was the day the boxing day sale started at Best Buys. My horticulture group did email, telling me I was late ordering my spring flowers.

So what happened to the rest of Christmas. The song did have 12 days in it did it not? Have we now force all that is Christmas into one or two days? Why do we rush to these periods with such Joy and fear then not allow ourselves to enjoy them. No we must prepare for the next event we must buy what they tell us to we must!!!!!!!! we should just enjoy the preparation and the event not rush through it because there is another behind that one. Imagine if a Marketer was a Dom. It would be untying the bondage knots before the ropes had chance to leave the slightest of marks that they were there. Now where is the fun in that.

Well back to my tea and the hunt for a new slave?

Murder most foul

Yes I must atone for my sins. Over the past two weeks I am responsible for the demise of five turkeys , four hams, three fish, two trays of deserts and a chocolate fountain. Unlike other years when I refrained from the feast and tried to exercise restraint I went ,pardon the expression , whole hog and ate like a pig!

Now I must atone for my sins and with out a slave to beat and whip I guess I will have to think of the dungeon for my self for a while back to walking, sit ups and rowing and tortures of that nature. SO much easier to be a sub and have some one whip your ass into shape I feel .

So if there is a turkey left standing out there well I can not think of eating another whole turkey, However I do not mind sharing a drumstick with someone as there ae two you know. After all it is Christmas and sharing is what it is all about is it not?

A Merry Christmas

Well the day is almost here again so I wish to say to you all a Merry Christmas and season greetings to you all. As yoo can see we here have donned our gay apparel.




And the belle is hung from our tree.



Every one play safe, well have fun and try to play safe and remember RED is a Christmas colour

Perfections welcome relief

I am at best a mistake in the life. We all are in my opinion. Some times we were an oops in our parents dreams . Some times we just ducked in time but we are here. When you think of sperm and egg meeting and all the possible ending from then to now we were more of an oops than sure thing. Different we all are how talk walk list . We come i so many shapes and sizes . Yes we follow a plan two eyes two legs hands and body but not all look alike.

So how can we have ideals of perfection when in our own way we are perfect. Yes I like to see naked women. Yes I like the ones that most have lifted to the pedestal of perfection female form. After seeing ten or fifteen of them it is like looking at a blank page.

I love to see and be with real women such as this on in the picture acting silly with her panties on her head, pretty but far more unique and interesting The picture is from a site and there is a link on my page you should check it out give the eyes a little rest from hard bodies and same looks . The site which uses everyday women in nudes very refreshing, well I like it .

What is the role of the Dominant

AN interesting blog from little one has spurred me on to write on my feelings and what I think the role of the Dominant is.

First the gift of servitude is a gift and should be relished and coveted like a fine wine. I give very little to the slave where as they give everything to me .

Well not quite I tend to think of myself as an instrument of pleasure for the slave rather than they are one for me. They are the ones that fly in subspace. They are the ones brought to orgasm by my fingers paddle or whip. It is mostly their fantasies or the proper use of them by me that cause the slave pleasure. The side affects are servitude , obedience and trust. I find the trust is built on well I do my job of torturing them to orgasm in of course the fashion that they have expressed.

Now this is spoken from some one who has been about to keep vanilla life separate from the lifestyle. I tend not to want to know a lot about the slaves vanilla life. I do not like to waste our time dealing with matters that concerns anything but the pleasures of the lifestyle.

Now with all that said it is very hard to keep vanilla issues out of it as they affect the lifestyle greatly so as the relation grows so does the affect of the vanilla issues.

My rules

Well they have been simplified over the years they are as follows:


Inside
you are naked at all unless I tell you to put clothes on.

you must ask permission to enter or leave any room I am in.

you ask permission to speak or question.

you must be clean and properly coiffed.

you must wear your collar at all times when in the house.

Outside

no underwear is permit

the clothing you wear must make you easily accessible to me.

you must wear your chain collar.



Simple I would say. All offenses are punishable. So simple rules a simple uniform I do not ask much do I? Of course eye contact , where you stand and how what position you have been given for what times are always in effect.

Uniforms for slaves

I had a coffee today with an old friend. Subjects came and went when she said something about how most of the time my slaves are naked. Oh that is so true . I have often thought of uniforms and have made a few drawn a few but really and truly I just like them naked.

When we go they get to wear one of their outfits that they pride themselves in . Bits of fluff or a corset. Body stockings and all have been worn but when they are home with me or at my friends , bare ass naked is the uniform sometimes with a bit of red on the bare ass just to liven up the outfit.

I truly believe that slaves should not have the right to any clothes as all of mine have found out. I enjoy both the female and male forms. I enjoy the embarrassment that they go through being naked in front of me . How vulnerable it makes them feel how easy it is to use them and being naked allows ridicule so easily.

SO when my slaves are dressed it is a reward for them. It is a hindrance for me. Removing pants or a skirt to slap an ass is just not right I prefer to grab hair and slap away. SO for me the best outfit is one they leave in the car before entering bare ass naked. Oh do be nice and keep the house with out too many drafts and at a decent temperature you want the nipples erect not blue and falling off

Punishments when and why

All Dominants punish for one reason or another. some use the idea that the slave has done something wrong to give sessions . Others store up wrongs until they have had enough and then explode into a punishment phase where every thing is scrutinized.

I list punishments and why they are given. I have a punishment stick that is only used in punishments. Punishment time is done at a specific time of the week never with a session. they are done coldly after an explanation as to why the slave is being punished. They are given time to explain their actions if they have good reason the punishment can be lessened. The are not allowed any bondage to help them during the punishment nor are they allowed to touch the punished area until it is over.

After the punishment is over they must reflect on it so corner time is allocated for it.

When do I punish.

For being late , breaking of my personal rules , rudeness , lack of proper attire, cleanliness and breaking of house rules or protocols. Mostly not for making the wrong decision but why you made the wrong decision. I never punish a slave in front of others unless they are part of my stable for offenses against me or my rules. Rudeness to my friends or offenses that are directed towards my friends are punished immediately in front of all to witness if I deem it to be right for the offense.

Why simple the slave needs to know there is consequence for actions that I do not approve of. IT is measure as to the offense and the slave knows in advance so there is no second guessing or talk on the subject. The slave must give an explanation on why that holds the key to the severity and quantify of the stroke.

An idea of it would be for lateness one stroke per 5 minutes late. I never have a limit as per quantity so if you are an hour late I promise you will not sit easily afterwards. You will think about it all week long till punishment day though.

A life lesson

First Contact
Words can have a multitude of meanings. Words need the visual also unless one is Agatha Christie and can drone on long enough that no one can mistake what she is saying. I never negotiate with a slave over the internet and any contracts made with them is done in person so that I can see the visual and hear the gasps of reaction from them .

Communication
I never use blogs to tell them anything they have not already discussed with me. More of a reporting of issues and solution at the same time rather than a probing of issues for all to see. SO if I am unhappy my slaves know al ong time before it would ever appear in a blog I demand this of my slaves in return.

SO you will read of situations , play sessions and related items and matters or questions of protocol perhaps before hand but punishments and disagreements are between my slave and my self and will be settled well before they ever appear here .

This is how I handle communications on punishment and problems between Dominant and slave. This is my rule it is not written down for all to follow in the lifestyle . All have different ideas , concepts and protocols so what others do is up to them. All that said breaking this rule with me though is rather serious. It breaks a trust and we base everything we do in this lifestyle on trust.

Next punishments when and why

Trust

It is against my nature not to trust. To accept one at their word and not to try to see what they are really like. Yes a Dominant that has the naive idea that every one is honest

I was contacted on Alt by a young women .She said in her country they do not practice bdsm She offered slavery with only one limit it being that I was the only one to use her. I ask for pictures and when she sent them back the next day the hairs stood up on my neck.Her face and two pictures of her nude. She stated she was from Ghana hmmm. I must say very cute nice body but just something was wrong . I asked her to chat and did she have a web cam I thought that way I would see if it was her. She could not .I asked for a small tasks to prove the photos were of her. Write the number 3154 on her right ass cheek and take another picture.

As I did not feel she understood what she was getting into I also explained in the email how I use women that wish to be slaves. I asked her to write to me and tell me how she thinks it would feel to be beaten by the paddle in the picture with me. I also asked her how she expected to get from Ghana to Canada.

I did not think that it was a great request to make of a future slave but she seemed to take offense. I do not know if it was for the questions , the pictures asked of her , my picture or she figured out the paddle would hurt like hell.

So who ever the girl is in the photos may I say nice body and if it was you Maud well, perhaps choose a site for another service might be better for you.

Plans for the future

It has been four years since heart attacks and operations has sideline some of my activities in the lifestyle. The one thing that stands out is that during that time I owned a slave during the Christmas period. This year I feel that I will not only not have a slave but my involvement in the lifestyle will wane even more than it has in the past few years.

I do believe that I have a few more trainings left in me so naked red haired women can apply but I will not start until at least the New year maybe not until spring. LOL I love naked red haired women braving the last chill of winter brings out goose bumps all over , no not on me on them silly.

Why not until spring well I have heard rumors that when Doms get old and feels despair at the the loss of others need for them . They are magically transported to an ancient castle that appears on the 19 th of December. There they make toys for the naughty girls and boys. Of course there are naked slaves about to test the toys out on and keep the toy makers happy. Mine of course will be red heads , hey this is my fantasy and yes Doms have fantasies too you know. SO I figure if i get to go then I doubt i will be back before January and hopefully not till April.

Well okay just my way of using my mind to get through another winter here. Bah humbug

Hibernation a strange feeling

Strange time it is. There is a rush and heaviness about it. Gathering of food having to find a place certainly carrying a lot of baggage that you hope leaves you when you wake.

There is happiness , sadness and fear when you wake. The first is because you made it through.The second, well not all that was there is there when you wake. The third caused by the rush to the next hibernation.

So now I have woken fully, sad at the loss of somethings happy to be here and wanting to enjoy the rush of living again. Any naked little subs out there that are in need of direction drop me a line.

Oh and yes I have months of evil thoughts to work on.

Joy of toys

I put a lot of importance on the making of toys. I usually only make them for my self and a few friends. I do not do pretty. How good looking something is is not really important as the is the functionality of it.

sort of bugs me when some one picks up a toy and flings it around with no concept of what is should do, feel like or how it should be used.

I have friends who i give my toys to and they try it out examine it and ask about it. That is great as they will get the maximum out of the toy and give me feedback that I can use to improve the toy.

Then there is Lash Larue my name for Dominants that are too scared to ask a question . Showing that they might not know something so they blunder through. Now Lash Larue was a comic book hero who could do everything with his whip. How ever some of us live in reality and know that what is done in comics is not always possible in real life. So when i see a supposed Dominant grab a whip and start flaying it without concern as to who is around. Better one that picks up a device and immediately applies it as they think it should be to their sub, just irks me.

All this to say I do not sell toys for sale I make them for my pleasure for my slaves pleasure and for my Dominant friends who appreciate that I make things to cause pain not be mounted on a wall for viewing pleasure. Now should yo wish a custom crafted piece and you are willing to devote the time to talking and explaining what you wish it to do I know of a few who will make it for you.I can you refer them to you. The only way you can ask for something from me is to be my slave. My friends never ask i just do it for them.

Thank you for the interest.

New twist to old game

Twister yes we have all perverted it into naked twister what fun but chatting to an old friend he had come up with a twist to it.

He uses two spinners. one defines colour of dot and what foot or hand is to be used.The other is for what area of the body of the sub and choice of item to be used on the body.

Many variation of this game are possible but the one he used is as follows. The sub of course is doing the twisting so one the first spinner is finished and subs are in place the second spinner is twirled. Now for the fun as the Doms must participate they get the item that is need and attempt to strike their sub on the area designated. Should the sub fall or the Dom not able to get to the desired location that team looses and the sub ia removes . I think this would be an excellent team sport for the sub Olympics. Oh if the judges do not believe that the stroke carried enough force then one of two options can be dictated by the judges, have the Dom redo the stroke of have a judge redo the stroke.

I think this game has merit feel free to use it or any part of it and due let us know the results. A side note this game nor the spinners is available at the toy store you do have to make the extra spinner

Greeting positions

They are like protocols for me they must be learned and adhered to by my slave. A position is used to reflect mood , a silent communication and to display themselves for my pleasure.

Greeting position I have three one standing, one kneeling and one laying o the floor. When I enter the domicile they decide which to use. These are used whether with clothes or naked.

Standing greeting . Hands by the side palms open toward me, legs open shoulders with apart, head sightly lowered eyes directed at me with a smile. I enjoy this position it reflects a bit of spunk in them along with the idea they happy to see me. I prefer them to be naked but sometimes it is just not possible.

Kneeling position . Knees apart hands on head eyes directed towards the my shoes a quiet look about them. When the slave needs their Masters attention or knows I am a little upset with them over their behavior of small infractions of my protocols.

Laying on the floor. Spread eagle face down arms outstretched and palms up toward me. Well this means they have really fouled up and know they are going to get a punishment .

They must use the positions to show they have thought about the time they have been away from me and assess it before I do. I find it helps out in communications and right thinking or decision making when I am not there to do it for them.


Next post punishment positions

Toys

toys are so important to us . I make most of mine I like then to be nasty they do not have to look good i am not into fashion . What i need from a toy is that after it's use the sub is dripping and the toy is still intactNo to much to ask if a toy does not do this for me it is soon out of the bag and on it's way for recycling or garbage.

Luckily I have the ability to do this many do not no space no tools no ability. A Chris contacted me and asked to be linked :BDSMBondageToys. I looked over the sight seems to be interesting I do not know about the quality but the prices seem okay you might want to take a look and leave a comment let me know what you think.

Yes i will be back to blogging now about every second day sorry to have been away things that i just has to deal with you know how they are

Healing

I have returned from a Mennonite area a people of simple means and wants. They do something I have not been able to do since I was fifteen. Have trust in faith. Accept a deity or follow instructions blindly because of a god. I am some what jealous of those that can that can though away responsibility for them selves and what they do because of what a god, never seen, said to do. It must be nice just to follow rules and not think nor worry how you affect others just as long as you please the god of your choice.Too many have used the excuse I was told to for me to accept this dangerous lack of individual responsibility.

Years ago the young lady that named me CLoud was of native American stock and she gave me a strong sense of individuality and the understanding of cause and effect. A form of the butterfly syndrome. All things affect all other things. This is to say that I sit here after a few years of not feeling on top of the game anymore with health issues listening to music rather than preaching.

Though listening to the healing music of drum and pipe of Native Americans is not curing my aches and ailments it makes my spirit feel better. Is that not what religion should do? Not cause dislike for others and invite to war. So for a little while I have peace until I forget how easy it is to lift one's spirits.

The vunerable ruler

We are such beasts of control strength and leadership. We stand barking orders and inflicting our will on all that submit. Yet should one that submits tell us it is not perfect we view them in error how dare they think of other things. Yes you are right I have come back from seeing King Lear and I am amazed on how I worry that I am that character. One that does not use all the recourses to make good decisions. It is simple to say this is my way or this is how I do it. Those words I learn from a barman . If they do not like the drink just tell them that is how it is made here and they will not be able to say anything.

Perhaps in the day of slaves bought and sold against their will it might be worth something but in days of consensual agreement it is a steppingstone to failure in my belief. SO then the Dom is vulnerable to the critique of others in his position but the one that carries most weight for me is the slave. So their thoughts on a session or of the lifestyle are paramount to me to see how I should bring them along in a journey. Failure in the realm of missing their expectations looses you a good slave. Communication is so important to me that they can speak their mind at anytime. The only punishment would come from rudeness , being derogatory or impolite. The last would be for speaking of things that should be only spoken between Master and slave.

We are so vulnerable when we fail expectations that we some times run for the shelter of I am the Master. We stop what we think is in error without seeking what the problem is. Like little boys fallen out of favor we dig our toes into the dirt repeating under red faces that we are right they will see. Al it would take to bypass the indignation of being human would be to listen and understand what the sub is saying or doing . After all some times a stern look is too much and other times a beating too little!

Ownership

Ownership what really is it? I usually equate it to how much control I have oven the slave. Do I control all the time time she has? Is it that I control the way she thinks? Does my control affect her vanilla life? How dependent is she on me or my contact?

So when I have all the time she can give and more. To me this means that even when she functions in her job and her vanilla family life she still is under my control. Such as she must email me four times a day. she must ask permission to have lunch or meet anyone that is not family. Any decision that affects my time she must consult me on

I do not like doormats it is like toilet paper you use it because it is there You rarely look at it nor know how much you really used. I like free thinkers , I never punish for thinking or expressing views that are not mine. I usually have a library night to make sure they develop their minds . They must be well read and interesting in conversation doormats are great for wiping your feet on but not good for the mind so control of the mind does not mean ownership to me.

Yes my control with affect their vanilla life hopefully for the better. The affect deals more with scheduling. Taking care of their health such as exercising, going to the doctors keeping their bodies and minds in top shape for when I wish to use them.

Mostly ownership comes when they depend more om me then themselves. When they openly trust, when they feel my presence provides all the good things in life they need then I own them. when i tell them to do something and there is no hesitation as they know no harm will come to them, then I own them. SO I would have to say that when i have the maximum control over a slave then I own them. For me it has little to do with contracts or ceremonies it has to do with commitment. I ask them to be my property when I have the commitment.

That is my penny worth of thought on this subject

Tasks , ruless and protocols

Yes there is a difference.

Tasks are one time things that need not be repeated on a regular bases. A task can be assigned as a punishment. Writing of lines is a punishment task though I never use it unless coupled with a strange way of writing such as placing the pen or pencil in the ass or vagina and have them write their name a few times rather fun to watch . A task can be to write a story wear a thong backwards for an hour or go shopping. It can be pleasurable it is just not some thing that repeats without instruction from the DOm . It is usually a physical thing making something or going somewhere.

Rules cover off when the Dom is there or not. Every morning you take a shower if you miss your shower because you are running late well you broke a rule. I have a rule on underwear. A slave is not allowed to wear any if they think there is the slightess possibility of seeing me . Slaves are not allowed to be late. Slaves must be naked in their houses when possible those are rules. Rules guide actions

Protocols guide interaction. How does a slave address another Dom , when do they. How and when do they greet their Dom. Asking permission to enter or leave the room or presence of their Dom. Protocols covering speech ,parties when we are out and when slave is alone with me. When I have a stable then they have protocols when they are together

I give task with deadlines, I have rules that are set in place to keep everything as black and white as it can be. Any infraction to the tasks ,the rule or protocols and punishments follow.

Yes there are rules and protocols governing that also. I of course use punishment tasks for minor infractions.

I sat in my garden most of the day relaxing when I was astonish how many questions arose in me about the garden. In the Spring I have few weeds out , seeds and plants in. The only question is where do I put what.

Now the question of what do I keep ? What should be trimmed? How much or little ? Should I remove an entire bed and re-think the area or grass it over? Should I just leave everything and see what survives?

Very much like relationships, I have always taken the way of trimming a bit and molding with a lot of just letting it grow. OH course there have been a few stubborn ones that would not respond to the trimming and some I had to rip out and start fresh with. I feel if you remove a few of the most objectionable things and let it grow it takes on it's own shape and character. That is the way I like my gardens and relations a little bit of forming, a little surprise and a lot of growth.

Now the big questions when will be the first frost? When will it snow? When should I bring in the indoor plants? Never seems to end oh when is spring?

English or Western

Friends came back from a work shop talking about canning methods.One being English which was described as wind up and hit with all you have .The western being one with build up if I can say soft slaps with the cane then a stroke of awareness. Well I never liked titles and seldom hold to them. I would say that I have used both methods along with many variation.

The English method I only use for punishment. That is where I do not want the sub to get on top of pain and use it to enjoy themselves. I want them to remember every time they sit or move that they did some thing wrong. And just how painful it is to break rules.

The Western method I use only well into a play session. The slower smacks of the cane building up to a crescendo of smacks of the same strength and speed as a punishment. The difference the sub has time to get on top of the pain and uses it to further enjoy the session and finally to orgasm.

I just find it fascinating that the English and Americans put their titles of ownership to a method of chastisement most probably used well before the British stopped dyeing their bodies blue and the Americans were a gleam in the eyes of there English / European parents. really it is just beating someone's ass with a stick or form of a stick. I know in Africa there was a whip made of rhino hide said to the worse burning pain of any whip but I do not remember hearing of an African way of whipping. milla help me out here is there an Australian method of caning? Do you have to hop twice before you hit or does the sub still do the hopping.

So I would like to name a method after myself called the Cloud style which is HIT the dam ass and watch the sub body language. Oh and to honour the land where I live and is darker early each day, called the Darklight style. which is take you sub out on a winter's night with their ass exposed rub their ass with snow wait five to ten minutes and beat their ass. There I feel so good knowing that I have title to methods that some one has done before but now some one will look and say oh he is using the Cloud method. Oh and just in case you think well I will use water instead of snow well that is only a variation so I claim that too.

Okay I will stop there but will ask a question has anyone put their name or claimed "walking" for their country? Is there an English walk, or an American waddle, an Australasian hop or Canadian slide? What about running...................

SImply CLoud

Recently I was accused of being untruthful and misleading. Why because I have two profiles on a popular Alternative personnels site. Because I am a switch I have two distinct profiles , two distinct blogs and emails. I have always said I am a switch as I enjoy both sides but I have lied, this is a switch really.





It has a function to be in the on or off position it tells the light or device to be on or off nothing more than that. If anything I am not the device that causes the change in function but the end result. A very poor name selection for my kind of life styler, would you not say?



While dressing up is part of the lifestyle I cannot see myself in this gear though I know of someone really into trains, nor do I have as much worry about switching and that poor man does. I simply do it when the needs arises. My need and that of the people I am with causes the change. When I enter into a relation with someone as a Dom or slave I do so to the extreme as I enjoy extremes. As a Dom I am a protocol Dom love to inflict sweet tortures watching slaves and subs dance with excitement. As a slave I love to be force to be pushed to extremes of humiliation and pain. SO I fulfill needs. Through out the world as we know it, there are species that will change sexes as needed. That is all I am.

The same persons said I should write as a switch . How ever second line I should change style I would like to see how comprehensive that would be. Any one know any famous switch writers beside the Marquis. Some call switches as Doms that like pain or slaves that are sadists. I would say to those purists who cannot accept that I am both to look around. especially those who believe in a natural oder.

Everyone since the beginning of time has been a switch. We take orders we give orders. There are those that tell us what to do and those who do what we tell them to do. Armies are based on it. Countries are based on it. Families are based on it. So why are switches looked upon as the oddity in the lifestyle. Could it be like humanity that 1% pulls the wool over the 99% eyes. It could be that many switches do not wish to open them selves to comments of " oh undecided" "non purist""he is different" comments. The same type of comments that have flown off of many a dictators lips Using fear mongering to distort the reality in to their universe. Well this one is mine. Yes the one on top of the three, in my eyes the best one!



Notice how the first universe with binary stars and the ring looks so much fuller than the other two, hmm hint more is merrier. So anyone out there can limit themselves to one part of the lifestyle their choice just do not try to tell me I am untruthful because I explore my universe in two ships , do not tell me I am the oddity I feel I fit the natural order of humanity please we are human are we not!!

Now to come up with a new title or name for what I am,? Suggestions?

Sitting under a tree

Today I sat under a tree. I did so without thought as I used to as a boy. I sat there without great thought. Just bent my knees and sort of fell into place with my back against it. I did not check to see if any animals had left me presents of the squishy kind. Nor did I worry if this tree had been used as a urinal for some dog. The tree never voice objection to the urination why should I. The birds did not plop the squirrels did not drop their nuts on me.

There were no bells or whistles to answer nor emails to respond to I just sat. The problems of the world were not contemplated nor solved the question of deity and devils were not debated.

Some ants used me as a bridge. The grass was pricklier than I remembered and the ground damp, from the rain but I just sat. No thoughts of naked slaves hanging from trees nor sexual service being given. No new tortures thought about. I just sat.

You see even an evil mind such as I, can take time off and enjoy one of the last days of summer, well at least for a few minutes now can we talk about naked slaves hanging from .......

The ultimate set of rules

In a recent string of emails I have realized how many people in the community are looking for an ABC type of relation. The thread came from a questions on the levels of submission. I was surprised that so many Doms and subs want a relation of such little exploration. They want rules on how to deal with things if x does this y has to do that. I hate to tell you no such book of rules exists in the lifestyle nor every will. Just look at history every time there is a new conquer or ruler there is a new set of rules a new vision

Surely all the fantasies and desires that have driven us to the lifestyle were not so dominated by what others think. Each person has a concept of what they want, need and are will to provide. So why should I want my slave to conform to the levels of submission do they get a badge ? Is it like scouts? They get the purple tawse badge or something.

My slaves do not have to love me they do not have to give all their possessions to me, they do have to follow my rules not Master yahoo fictional rules based on the stories of Gore. When they do not they must face my punishments not those dictated by others or fictional writers. I will tell you, my past slaves will agree to this that unlike fictional the reality of my punishments hurt.

Most of us who write or offer information up we do so to inform those seeking of possibilities not of finalities. the best rule , the only rule you should follow is communicate. Do not restrict thought or ideas listen to them and you will grow. So please take what ever I say and anyone else as information , guide lines for a journey that you are creating It is not mine . Unless of course you are my slave then well you better like my rules!

Can you serve two masters

Why can't I have two Doms? When a sub asks this of me I think about and old movie,Cool Hand Luke with Paul Newman. Paul is a prisoner in the south. He is being punished by having to did a ditch. As he gets close to the specification given him by one of the guards another approaches. He tell Paul that he is getting dirty in his yard and to put it back in the hole. Paul tries to tell him that the yard boss told him to do it but to no avail so he returns the earth to the hole. Just as the hole is almost filled the yard boss comes along and guess what.

Mastering some one brings on many deep emotions ones that may not be seen by the sub or others but it is there well after the slave has moved on.Because of distance or timing I have had to give up slaves yet I always have worries when I do. Mainly cause I am no longer there to protect or at least guide.

Ling was one she was upset at me when I gave her away to Sir Michael. Had he come from the same training as I perhaps it would have worked. He could give her the things I could not but he could also give her things that I could and being he was there and I here, I felt it was just better to give her journey one direction. She wanted to have both of us, the comfort of the old Master and the vitality of the New. The lifestyle is an ordered place for me , I do believe at least my early training was based on chivalry honour and the idea that it was a two way street. Some one served you you served some one . It was a house based on med evil times. SO there was only one master with other Dominants in the house but he was in charge. In that house all slaves served their Dom but also were in service and controlled by the Master. This only works it the other Doms can accept the Master's way.

Now a days I find many things have changed. Doms do not want to think that they serve or give homage to some one else. They do not want to think that their slaves do not see them as the ultimate power in the Universe.

Which way is best I do not know and will ponder some more and watch how the world unfolds.

Bordum

I hate those days of sitting around. Not that I cannot do something it is that it does not excite me to do it. I was just making a flogger and got board with it. I was going to lay out in the sun but no sun. Chatting on line well not during the day .

just a boring day in this Doms life. Ho hum no slave to tease and torment so I gues it is time for a good book.

Those that submit to bullies could they be

I have often been on the other side of the argument about bulling. I believe it is not up to every one else to stop the bulling it is up to the one bullied. but that will be for another blog I think.

I will relate a story about child hood. I had a friend a very nice guy but he just was shy and best described as wanting to fit in. He was bullied constantly. Even by his best friend , me or was he just a submissive in the making. My form of bulling with him was not a violent form as others more mental. We started by playing poker then it progressed to strip poker. Then of course when your naked and want your clothes back well you will do almost anything at fourteen. At fourteen you also have a very inquisitive mind evil for short that is.

Bob got to sit on tacks, dress in his mother's underwear and was urinated on. His organ was extremely large it was different from the norm so I teased him about it. My first time of penis bondage was with him as I tied it to his ankles and made him waddle around. The best was when I told Roots a friend that was a girl about Bob. After that his bulling took on a new avenue. He was stripped in lane ways, shown off to Root's girlfriends and yes we spanked him an awful lot. Yes I also loss at these games but I would struggle against the bonds or try to get out of what ever I had to do he did not.It came to a point where we dispensed with the poker and just would tell him to do things. He would be reluctant to do so but against two of us he did not last long and ended up naked now having to pay a higher price than before.

He could have not come to play with us he could have said no but never di no matter what was asked of him. Some will say this is not bulling it was a way of exploring sexuality or he desperately wished to belong some where . Well to me sitting here years afterwards I am pondering a few questions does not a sub wish to belong to some one are they not exploring dark sexuality? Are Doms just bullies?

Well I have always had the conviction that there are those that lead and those that follow. Neither are perfect but we use the tools we have to do what we feel is right for us. That said my last question that I am pondering is are not all leaders bullies? Whether you are a team captain, a leader in business , or Prime Minister. They use what ever tools they have that work for them to push us to their thinking.

So I have not made up my mind as to whether bulling is just leaders learning what tools to use or maybe a bully wishes to be a dictator and a team captain an elected minister, I do not know but I did enjoy putting Bobby through hell for my enjoyment.
Was I Domming or bulling or was he just submitting. Oops did I slip another questions in littleone

An invitation

A sub ask me if I was going to attend this week's activities. I find it taxing at times attending these events for one major reason. They dress the lifestyle they act but they do not live it at all. Oops watch out grand pa is about to rant . No not really . I enjoy the sight of of women in their latex and fancy leathers but that is not my view of the lifestyle. It is fun and really should just be called a fetish dress up ball.

Most there are dressed to be seen not to participate. After conversation with many oh they have great fantasies and sex must be wild in their bedrooms. Just not for me I just enjoy a naked women serving her Master. I enjoy the trust she puts in her Master and the care that he gives to see she is cared for and protected.

At this time in my life the vanilla side is pulling me down and I have not the time to enjoy the lifestyle as I once did with minion. Unfortunately that relation has put a damper on many other wanna bees as they do not live up to my demands. SO to take time and sit with those who try to impress visually but have no heart for this style of living , well I just feel it is a waste of time.

Friends of mine have journey of to a camp where the crack of a whip is not sound effects and the fet-wear carries more of statement of who they are rather than who they pretend to be. More than that slaves will be mostly naked which is a good thing . Perspiration on latex and leather can take away the shine of it. They will come with their whips and crosses and torture devices. Not much in the way of teckno music more the singing of slave sounds and paddles flying. Between all that there will be love and trust and caring the other part of the lifestyle that few seem to part take in sadly enough .
No a rant merely a quiet statement of why I prefer to sit and read a book on the structure of Samurai life rather enduring the conversations of the wanna bees.

A reason for coporral punishment, Paris Hilton

I have never seen a women or person more deserving of a trip to the wood shed than Paris Hilton. Yes she spent 23 days lounging around a jail hospital, yes grandpa is not leaving her 60 million dollars oh how sad. SO sad if she has to make a living as a porn star , I have seen her video and really not worth it far better on the internet for free perhaps in a peep show you ten cents for fifteen minutes.

I should offer a service to these rich grand fathers to help their grand kids lead good and contributing lives as maids, char persons, toilet cleaners after all the shit they cause they should know how to clean it up. So what do you think a week of boot camp with me for $15,000.I will provide them with a vocation all the nasty pictures and videos, rhey will appreciate pillows, blankets, bathing and will never want to touch a cold can of beans nor disappoint grand pa again.

Oh gand-pa Hilton I feel sorry for you that your name will not be linked to quality and great service so I can offer you a two for one sale and promise that Miss Hilton will acquire a new feeling of respect for the family name I will just carve the name Hilton on to my paddles I am sure she will get the hint.

Rant is over but the offer still stands!

Another favored postion of mine

A simple one , hands tied to ankles spreader bar between the ankles. A bar or rope around the hip area and attached to the ceiling.
I like it for it puts all the bits open to you . The rope or bar around the hips keep the legs straight. The spreader bar between the ankles allows view of breast and the red face of the sub. This position is good for flower arrangements, candles and with the use of a butt plug with a hook you can hand all sorts of things. Decorations such as nipple clamps , clothes pegs and weights can be applied to almost any part of the body.

the position is excellent for punishment and play. Versatile, fun and humiliating for the sub if you use them as a conversation piece for a party or side table for a few good friends. SO much can be done and they can hold drinks , plates floggers and rods. Should the party go quiet introduce a vibrator and see the fun.

Anal Ring Toss a game or understanding the mysteries of Uranus

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Ebbs and tides


There was a time when few events happen in the lifestyle. Public venues were closed to such things except the seediest bars in the dankest part of town. A friend of a friend of a friend would hint that if you went after midnight and said esclavin a door would open for you . That is how the lifestyle was when I first entered it . A seedy street you would not choose to walk on in the sunlight. Now a private club was so much better as at least you knew who ran it and you had to be invited no invitation no entry. still no a private party . A private party well you new where they lived you knew them. It was a great honor to be invited. House protocols were learned in advance the best leathers you had the best toys were brought.

These people were truly the pioneers in the lifestyle. They open their houses to like minded individuals. They trusted others not for a dollar in profit but from profiting from friendship and knowledge passed on through friendships.

Sadly we seem to have forgotten about the origins and look to events and public clubs for our thrills and hopes. I would question some one offering me advice on my session who I had just seen five minutes ago yelling at the coat check girl. Sadly like the song Puff the magic Dragon we have put away the Dragons of the early part of the lifestyle and replace them with the shinny new bling. Too bad there is still a lot of magic in the old ways.

Is the Magic all gone

Well all things must end and so did the walk about. I did not meet nor found any evidence of dragons tigers or bears. Sadly humanity has taken most of the magic out of this world. Not all hopes were dashed though in the darkest recess I found hope. Two young fairies had watched as all their had been sold they were left behind . Such sadness in them I felt that I was determined to find a home for them. I had a discussion about the virtues of gargoyles with another person in the garden center it was after that I felt a need to buy them and place them in a garden. I could not see them falling into the hands of some one who did not know the difference between a gargoyle and a devil and a fairy and a angel. I knew that being with me and the gargoyles was better than that for them. I also knew of a garden where they might be at home.

Not any garden they would not do well with my gargoyles as gargoyles tend to sit and sleep a lot. No they needed a special place when I murmured under my breath a secret garden I thought I felt their wings flutter just a tad. I placed them on my table for a night of sleep and I am sure that the kitchen was slightly different when I arose. I knew they could not stay inside for much longer. SO this day I went to place them , I knew they would take care of both the secret garden and the owners for me and would find others of their species. As if on a fairy wind my steps quickened and I was pushed along to a friends doorstep.

Yes little one has two new fairies to guard her secret garden and care for the magic of that place. I hope they have found happiness. I like my gargoyles need more rest before I re-enter the magical world again but soon, I know where the fairies are so if I need help in healing I know the place to go.

Butterflies can't fly they just fall

A poem written many years by anonymous, a very old and prolific witter through out the ages. The witter speaks from the view of a little girl. In it she describe her young life with her two brothers. One she has named a bear and one a dragon. One for his flatulence and the other for his acid tongue. She feels that they tease her for their pleasure and wants to run away but of course cannot not . So she imagines a world filled only with butterflies, having tea and crumpets and wearing frilly white gowns. The butterfly to her is a wonderful being with out a care, no direction nor rules it just flits around doing what it feels and all is right in the world.. After a few years of growth she finds work as a maid then starts to realize that life cannot be made up of only white gowns, tea and crumpets that it must and mostly contains dragons and bears along with many other scary things.

The realization that her fantasy could have never come true, makes her coin the phrase Butterflies can't fly they just fall. Her expectations of life are dashed as she returns to cleaning a small dark room.

After many years of trying to understand how butterflies fly I feel that the woman is right. Butterflies are for fantasies and dreams , dragons fly and breathe fire , bears walk and growl. Butterflies take a while but in the end they just fall

I am off for a short walk about to find out if lions ,tigers and bears do exist so back soon. Perhaps I might even discover dragons that fly and breathe fire, well I can dream too.

The ultimate torture

Family gathering or should I say tolerating in laws. First they are in law as you would not really have anything to do with them otherwise. Supposedly intelligent people they rehash the same child hood happenings with the excitement of tell of a brand new tale of epic proportions. Reliving the past is not a highlight for me once it is done yes you can revisit now and the but do not make it the bases for every conversation and telephone call. do you really think that it is of any interest to anyone but those who were there. God boring, read please get some interests that does not revolve about things that occurred what was of little importance back years ago think of the future and stop living in veils of the past. My medical conditions will not be the death of me it will be in laws boring conversation and laugh track which they must carry with them hidden in every one's pockets so they do not laugh out of time with their siblings.

It will never end but this rant will after this offer any one into physiological torture of subbies let me know I will take them with me to the next family gathering for no one does it better than my in laws.

A position

A friend describe a position or use for a slave as a flower pot or candle holder to me and I am so interested that I had to share. The slave is placed near a wall on his or her back, head pointing away from the wall but close enough that their bottom is half way up the wall. The arms are out stretched then attached to the ankle that are in turn tied to a spreader bar. This of course give you access to all that they hold special and puts the anus at the top . Which now can be used for cut flowers , a candle or a carrot or two (just for you little one) the balls or pussy lay open to all sorts of torture.

My friend likes to hang a small tray off his slaves scrotum by clamps using it as a beverage holder or a place where She can leave her keys also making the slave into an excellent accent piece. As for women I could see their pussies being used as an ice dispenser,(though the quality of ice might be suspect a little hot at first)vibrator holder and of course more carrots just in case a goat or horse should pass by there would e a snack handy. I could sit here all day thinking of things to be stuffed and things to do with a table like that but the sun dawns and I must make myself ready for the day. I hope this is a happy thought for you all. Just one more thought the face of the slave would be in excellent position for some relaxing face sitting you could bring a book and read by candle light!

The sub mind is the essience of the lyfestyle

I read a short story by little one, she wrote it from a Dominant point of view and did quite well better than most Dominants could. I know she has no nasty bone in her body has always shunned the idea of doming some one yet has captured the wicked part of a Dominant. Zeroing on what the sub wants most to be exposed and fears the most to enjoy the attention given , to force enjoyment from the darkest of fantasies from the sub or slave mind.

I think that most subs have a greater understanding of the needs and wants of submission, than do dominants . She also showed somewhat of the expectation of what or how a Dominant should be. I do not know if it would be so easy for a Dom to exchange their perspective and capture the mindset of submissive so easily. A first attempt by her and I would have to say a hats off to her a very tidy evil mind this way comes.

Evil or wicked

I have been told I have an evil mind. I took the test and supposedly I am 98% wicked or evil.What would define me as evil. I think it would not be something I can say or give explanation for best I think to ask the subs and slaves involved. It is their perception of me and it is they that have bestowed the title of evil in reference to my ideas. So only the slave can tell what their perception of what is wicked or evil. That said of course I do enjoy the title .

A recuring theme or no do not hit me there

Well the young man that so wished for total loss of control seems to have had a change of heart. It would seem as if another person wishing to live a fantasy found out the reality of it. In recent munch with a Domme (Lady Kate) I witnessed a young man have his words used against him in what must have been frustrating experience. Newbies should take it to heart that it is protection for them that an experienced dominant does this to make sure that they must be exact in their wants and must think before talking.

A young man approached me a few weeks ago through Korina a switch when it comes to women but traditionalist when it is about men . She does not dom men but saw in the young man a great desire and danger to be totally under control of another. I was suppose to help him find a Domme . His demands were to total release of power. When I chatted with him he was a novice and did not fully understand just what those words meant. After a few not so nasty chats and listing of rules for him there has be a sudden interruption in dialogs between us. He had this fantasy on how he would come over and be put in a cage at my house live as my dog .I told him if he was giving up control tome then I would decide what would happen from now on. I did in the chats inform him that he would loose all his body hair no facial hair would be allowed and his hair if I decided to leave any on his head would be styled the way I wanted. He was given a list of when to shower what time to get up at and when and how to pee. He first stumbled at being naked at all times in his apartment as his friends just dropped in on him I said they would get used to him that way. I instructed the boy to put a large breed dog cage in his bed room and that was to be his bed from now on. He was not allowed to touch himself but on Saturdays he would visit a Domme friend of mine and be milked until he filled up a container or she was satisfied that he was quite emptied. I sent him on his way to purchase a trio of dildos and the cage. Well for some reason he has not yet chatted or emailed me so I guess he might be a bit overwhelmed I hope he understands.

SO next time a Dom asks "What are your limits" perhaps some reflection would be better than "I am totally in your power do what you want with me" I have an evil mind so define your choice of words well and express that you are trying to find the closets thing to your fantasy rather than make your fantasy reality. I wish you well young man

As for more experienced slaves that wish to say that to me well I am always open to being evil and would love to hear from those that truly think they can give of themselves with no limits, no retention of any control. Hmmm yes a very evil mind.

Polar bears and protocols

Nice to see Mistress Jade is back to health. As for comments left on my last blog well CLoud issued no challenges. As a matter of protocol for a switch if you divide the two personalities, then what one does or writes in one persona does not bear on the other. That would be like doing something as a Klingon and having it reflected or having to account for it in your SCA life. Those remain separate and so in a switch does the personalities especially that I write under two different handles.

As for challenges the last I issued I believed was setting a record of 103 toothpicks holding the ass cheeks of a slave apart and that was sometime ago. Now as for me accepting a challenge well I rarely do as a Dom it allows the sub or slave to have too much control. They usually set it so that the punishment for loosing is what they want or they can gloat over being able to sneak by the dragon without being burnt and if they do get burnt well they wanted to play with the fire any way and probably would enjoy it.

Polar bears, I have seen a movie bout an Inuit boy that finds a cub and raises it to adolescence. Quite true but I might have used the wrong words in that I meant no man walks with or can tame a fully grown polar bear . Your father and the boy in the film became a surrogate mother for the cub. A feat no less awesome as even a cub can playfully cause damage. The reason for my choice of a polar bear was that I felt it was a a majestic way to end a life force that would otherwise die a slow death at the hands of modern medicine. I felt that from what I have heard from the Inuit stories about polar bears and seen in Churchill, is that they are fierce hunters and do not back down from man. In that way I would be assured of a honourable death most probably a very short and violent one.

Why not another human? Well most humans are without honour , they do to keep with their word and fear their own death too much to fight with honour. Those who do have honour in my eyes I call friend . I would not ask this of them it would put them in harms way of my sword and of the civil authorities. The lifestyle has too bad of a name already I would not wish to bring more bad news to it.

As for littleone ,you also know that CLoud is not one that bows to many. I would not bow to a lion , tiger or bear doing so would give them an advantage they need not, I might be strange but not a fool . I will die doing battle with them but so might they. What better a spirit to walk through to the next level than with the spirit of a lion , tiger or bear at my side. So as an my old Master taught only bow if it will be returned. As for dragons well my middle name has a reference to a dragon killer care to guess on that one? your prize will be a nice new handle for that belt your Sir ask ,e to turn into a toy for you !

p.s. these are my thoughts long distant plans nothing that will happen tomorrow. So littleone do not worry you will not have to track through the woods and leave flowers at a pile of bear crap in my memory. Of course you prancing naked through the woods with a flower in a certain area well I might just fight a bear to see that. How many flowers can you put into a sub anyway ?

Polar bears

A majestic animal, with simple rules how easy it must be to live like one no moral choices as to whether you should kill no option for these creatures life dictates that needs out way wants or feelings. A simple , cruel by our standards maybe, life based on survival. I had chosen the polar bear for I have never seen a man tame one and walk with them. They have always fought against man. As I did not want to wait till the animal was in the mood I chose what to me is a natural warrior.

Though now, littleone I will not soon be off to slap a black nose of one. I see we have done enough to destroy it's habitat, I would not want to take one more from the life force of the north I will leave them in peace. I will soon find another animal that my battle will be futile against and let you know later of who I will offer my soul to. Perhaps a dragon should I find one hanging around.

Answers

littleone said... rather philosophical Cloud...... what's going on?? there is always something going on when You write about this theme......

Very close to the same time you and I decided to write what we needed to for ourselves not for others. I have many times repressed a blog or two for the reason that maybe the ones that stopped by might not like it. That is a reason.

Another would be a story related to me many years ago of a Japanese warrior sitting in the middle of the aftermath of a battle with comrades and enemies strewn about him , his concentration was not on his wounds but that a lotus blossom had survived the carnage. The question on that story was to stimulate thought. Is the warrior trying to escape the horror of the battle (symbolizing his life that life was always a battle but that it was not always a victory) Wondering whether war or peaceful growth was the right way and of course perhaps he just liked the flower.

Another would be a deep question of honour. One that is complicated by the fast pace life we are thrown into and the demands made upon us when we are young, too young to understand the difference between needs and wants. Decisions, demands on personal time or not having enough of it. Perhaps the increasing lack of rules or at least the lack of adherence to the rules that are.

Another would be a question as to what honour is? Is there one definition? One last one could be there are many different ways to be honourable and not just one? OOps one last one a quest for knowledge or a stimulation to gain access to others thoughts on the matter?

Multiple choice is a good thing to start dialog easier to read than an essay but if you wish to leave an essay I will not grade it unless it is poorly written or is boring and to all slaves that wish to be graded however remember I like the use of corporal punishment so just enter the office with your pants down.

With honour but whos

Many different societies in this world have different views of what honour is, more specifically what an honourable death for a warrior is. Some such as the Japanese of old believed that ritual suicide was an honourable way to end their life through knife or sword and by ones had. There was usually a second around so that when the first cut was made the warrior did not have time o cry out in pain the second would finish the warrior by decapitation. Some very strong willed warriors would stipulate that the second wait for the second and third cuts so the warrior would show to all present what he was made of (excuse the pun) Most samurai preferred death in battle or duel.

The Norse and some Germanic tribes believed that a warrior had to die in battle for the most honourable death but as long as they died with weapon in had that was good also. A reason for the weapon in hand was to show the warrior was still fighting or at least still free to carry a weapon . As the case was to take weapons away from defeated warriors so they could not fight again.

The rules of honour seem to change by race what would be honourable to a warrior depends on how they have lived their lives. In Buddhism they are taught you must be a warrior at all times one of the teaching is the way of the warrior but not the death it is not touched upon.
SO is it better to face a dragon for final battle or have you name in song about the foes you conquered and killed. Is honour more in what you did not destroy, the times you did not have to raise weapons, should a warrior say his death was a good one by the battles he did not have to fight. Should a Warrior be remember for the skill of his sword or how he saved a butterfly.

The saddest thing

A young man has contacted me. he wishes to give over control to me of his life, he has in the past tried to do so without success. he sounds as if he would be a wonderful little dog resting in his cage quietly till called upon to perform. his needs or should I say his wants are along a fantasy line and I fear he knows not what he is asking for. I have offered to guide him but I do not have all the time he thinks he needs.

Sadly that in the lifestyle these poor males through everything at you offering time their money, total servitude yet if this had been a girl would I have treated her differently. I do like torturing men it is fun you have and immediate response when some thing is arousing o them as well as when it scares them. They are embarrassed so easily they so wish to be good yet fail so easily. females tend at least this is my opinion glide through most tasks , they are sough after for their bodies their beauty it would have been more interesting to get the same offer from a female than that little boy .

SO I have decided to take some control over him make him feel what it is to loose control of his life and we will see. What is the saddest thing any sub that wishes to give control away and cannot find some one to take it from them.

Simple etiquette

Do not talk with food in your mouth. I wiash to look at you not the hamburger being crushed between your teeth. You would think humans would have a a certain standard but we do not . Blowing your nose at the dining table without an excuse me. A rant no just things that I have noticed in the young submissive. They seem to want o impress a Dom with their bodies.

submission does not come from the body , it is in the mind, the id you could say some say from the heart . It is not from the body. It is honestly opening your self up to trusting another the deepest form of trust that one can give. Simply how fast your hand recoils when in contact with a pin prick and why and you can see how much trust you need. A submissive must control that reflex and the fight or flight reflex. For that you need strength as a person to overcome the minds response to pain. Yes my slaves must be intelligent and possess inner personal strength. So it would go to figure that you must show some evidence of self control in how you present yourself.

The one way I see this is through etiquette for me. Does not have to be the Queens but it has to come through that you have some thought on the idea of it.

Common courtesy

I must be getting old now a days I seem to rant more than write. what is the rant today well simple. I realize there is not book written on the lifestyle as per rules but common courtesy is easy to apply. If you walk by some one and they say hello you tip your hat or reply in like manner. If you are caring on a long conversation with some one you do not simply turn and leave with any acknowledgment. So why is this done on the net.

I was recently communicating with a sub who simply stopper not even a not interested. I know there are monsters out there and those that I wish not association with but a simple email saying Not interested thank you for your time would suffice. If some one continues to try then a non reply but lets be civil till the monster starts to show.

minion always said I should run a boot camp to get subs off on the right foot. Thinking back now the first sessions would be on coutesy. All of my past slaves know that foul language and discourtesy are pet peeves of mine and dealt with accordingly. If we all had common courtesy it would be far more pleasant.

Emotions from Mars

Early morning and the sun fights to conquer the night sky. That is what a man would write about a sunrise is it not, my definition anyway. I have always been told that I am distant or cold by women . I do not show emotions well at least to the level that some women need to see in men. Why must we show that to women. I have never heard a women say the reason I went out with him is because he cries well. I do not see gaggles of women on the streets corners looking for weeping men. If they did look with out the veils of Venus in front of them perhaps they would see the emotions of those from Mars

First I do believe in men from Mars and women from Venus, emotions is one of the primary differences to me. To the horror of the women in my house I watched Rocky Balboa last night . Before they fell asleep or left the room, I had to listen to their smirks on the dialog and the writing of the movie I was very happy when the last filed out of the room to watch Pride and prejudice a movie I also enjoy but not for the same reasons as they .

Rocky, I identified with, a man who had great success and great failure in his life. Perhaps if those women who ridicule movies of this nature looked deeper into character they might discover a lot more about the emotion of men. We have great emotions they sometimes are a burden that we not so freely pass on or express well. Perhaps if the women who have trouble understanding their men's emotions they should study this film intensely and not say oh this is stupid but ask why these words are said in this context. If they do they should remember not to look at the man next to them and say but this is not real life. In Pride and Prejudice Mr Darcy so eloquently speaks words that hide his feeling and conceal the good he has done. The words because of their eloquence are gobbled up by those wishing to have gentleman. They do not realize nor delved into the times being portrayed. A man in those times did not speak poorly of the monsters in life he gave them a common courtesy it was expected. Yet his emotions were strong and misunderstood at the beginning.

My advice to those from Venus, understand that the planet name is from the God of War and that is what we do, we fight , we fight in our words , our actions and our thoughts. Our emotions are not those of Venus we do not describe a flowers beauty in our poems more we describe it's fight to be beautiful. If you cannot understand it then accept it don't change it politely leave the room as we do when you want to hug a pillow and run through a box of tissues watching a romantic tragedy.

As for those males that have found their female side I have only one explanation in youth they took the wrong shuttle back from earth.

Figging

A most delightful name for such a small thing. A piece of ginger root pealed soaked in a bit of water and left in the fridge for use later on. Sounds like the start of a good recipe does it not. a recipe that helps correct behavior.

I have never met a slave sub or bottom that professes a love of figging. You do here oh I love a good spanking or the clamps produce such a feeling yes those I have heard or in a good session please don't stop. Figging those are not the statements I seem to remember. More like a statement that has been quoted in lillteones blog get that m------f---ing out . The pleads and cries are sincere but the dancing that goes on, a wiggle a jump as they prance all about.

I have used this when subs fidget too much or for a punishment that I can sit back and watch rather than have to participate in. Usually there is a task involve like scrubbing a floor ,oh the wiggle that produces or preparing a meal . So much fun to watch them peel potatoes in that condition. Sometime a good old caning taking my time and refusing to deliver the stroke until the sub remains still for a while.

I have experimented with bondage fixing them so tight they cannot move. little one said once how she likes to have her feet free to dance a bit after a stroke from her SIr as it allows her to dissipate the stroke. So locking those ankles together oh what fun I thought one of my leather belt would burst under the pressure of a subs legs trying to open so she could expel the intruder. minion who loved to dom young ladies in this way would smile as they pleaded for release only to take it out and reintroduce a fresh piece. Do not throw out the old piece just let it soak some more and presto back to it's nasty potential.

Do remember it goes in the anus eh otherwise you just might not catch up to them the second time. A caution to all Dom/mes that are first time users wash your hands after insertion after all it might cause you some discomfort should you leave the residue on your fingers. LOL a little painful joke for subbies.

Discussion and different views

I always enjoy comment and expression of points of view. This was on my last blog please take the time to read the comment fully as I have only chosen the bits that I would like to further in discussion


Even in literature, as the most quoted book is Story of O, O is struggling... and going through her tasks because of her love for her Master... nothing else... And love is for you a vanilla emotion?

Thank you searabbit for your comment and I hope you do not mind if I discuss some of it here.
O enter the Chateaux because of here emotions with a man not quite her Master. He paid a debt to Sir Stephen with her. He used her emotions to get what he wanted which was Jacqueline, I believe her name to be. She did not do it for Sir Stephen as she was not in love with him yet. I do believe that a slave has emotions being raise to a high level that they confuse as love but until they are slaves and have been with their true Master can they say they are in love with their Master.


SO my opinion is that a slave must first be a slave like the story of O and do things because she is a slave not because she is in infatuated or her sexuality is stimulated. Thus the reason I said I wanted a sub with out emotions or love a true slave along the lines that I believe in.

The second part of your thought love as it is so freely used by every lifestyle for me is a cheapened word it does not hold the respect that I have for a slave that serves because they are a slave so I will leave it in the vanilla situations and its meaning. It is not something that is high on my list for a slave. For me it would be like judging a work horse by how full its tail was and not how strong it's legs were or how straight it's back was.

Does such person exist yes they do I have met them and they have been my sub but trimming and vanilla situations have kept us apart not allowed us to be true Master and slave. If I believed in an after life I would say that our time would come until then I will do my best to find a slave that does fit my needs and I hers I do love torturing and torments subs brings out the best in me you could say

The last bit of your comment about just being a dom I disagree. A few blogs ago I listed the definition of a slave from the dictionary, i clearly ask for just that it truly is the bases of most fantasies being taken and forced to enjoy what he is willing to give out. That word describing unlimited emotions and feelings, love is not in it until the slave is with her Master for a while.

These of course are my thoughts, needs, wishes and wants I encourage all to think and define their own. As for you searabbit I have not seen you in a long a time and the munch misses your warm presence . I hope to see your attractive personality and physical presence soon .

Yes it is fun to watch but perhaps I am just old

The Sunday munch group have decide to put a play party on for March. I am interested and I am not. I am interested because I have never been to Victoria's secret garden.. I enjoy watching other play I find you pick up some of the best knowledge by watching . I enjoy meeting new people and hear their views of the lifestyle. For those reasons I will probably go. I hope it will be new and exciting for me this is where the shoe drops . I have not grown in a while nothing new has come to me sort of in a doldrum. The sailors fear when the sail caught no wind the ship then did not move just sat there at the mercy of the present current and it there was not one then there you sat. I do not like being with out control. I need the wind to use to drive me on.

In the past few years I have had a few slaves but they did not last with me either vanilla situations were too much or due to distance were better off with some one closer to home. Most of those decisions came from me to release them or push them away so they could grow. Unfortunately in doing so I have not grown as a Master , perhaps a better human but not as a Dom .

I have a web site that I am putting my thoughts on the lifestyle and what I consider to be important . I was quite proliferative until while I had slaves but I have stopped being so writers block perhaps, or lack of wind to push the sails. When the Roman galleys ran into the doldrums they had their slaves the row the ships through . I would guess that is what is missing, after all what is a Master without a slave but a man with a whip in his hand