Ownership

Ownership what really is it? I usually equate it to how much control I have oven the slave. Do I control all the time time she has? Is it that I control the way she thinks? Does my control affect her vanilla life? How dependent is she on me or my contact?

So when I have all the time she can give and more. To me this means that even when she functions in her job and her vanilla family life she still is under my control. Such as she must email me four times a day. she must ask permission to have lunch or meet anyone that is not family. Any decision that affects my time she must consult me on

I do not like doormats it is like toilet paper you use it because it is there You rarely look at it nor know how much you really used. I like free thinkers , I never punish for thinking or expressing views that are not mine. I usually have a library night to make sure they develop their minds . They must be well read and interesting in conversation doormats are great for wiping your feet on but not good for the mind so control of the mind does not mean ownership to me.

Yes my control with affect their vanilla life hopefully for the better. The affect deals more with scheduling. Taking care of their health such as exercising, going to the doctors keeping their bodies and minds in top shape for when I wish to use them.

Mostly ownership comes when they depend more om me then themselves. When they openly trust, when they feel my presence provides all the good things in life they need then I own them. when i tell them to do something and there is no hesitation as they know no harm will come to them, then I own them. SO I would have to say that when i have the maximum control over a slave then I own them. For me it has little to do with contracts or ceremonies it has to do with commitment. I ask them to be my property when I have the commitment.

That is my penny worth of thought on this subject