Big Brother or is it bother

We have created a society of whinners and blame asessers. Why when I was young did I go play beside a river with out audlt supervision? How did I know that if I was not invited into some ones pool I did ot go? Where are the parents of this generation? Why are they sitting on their asses while their children do not have the sense of what is danger? Do not give me this crap about both having to work because I know of too many single parents who do great jobs with thier children while working to make ends meet so sorry you parents taht are both working that has asses as children you are to blame for the stupidity of your children no one else.

In conversation with a near by principle I found out he is putting forth a suggestion that all cars must come to a full stop when they see a child that might be crossing or thinking of crossing a street. What are we teaching them in school? First I have to put up a fence that I did not want because some child under thier parents supervision might wander off and drown and who's fault would that be? I have to worry that a child does not understand where it is safe to cross or when / I was taught that you make sure the car stops then you cross. Red light Green light did not matter if I put one foot on the street without looking I was yanked back and scolded.

Last year a young women or girl was killed by a speeding driver on a street near by, flowers were placed memorials read and written all very touching. Everyone blamed the driver even though the driver had right of way Did she look, at most at the green light if that. On the very same area I have moving at normal speed had to apply my breaksbecause they step from the curb with thier ear phons in or talking on their cells without a glance to me or the light they just expect me to stop no mattter what.

Now I have a suggestion for the government that any child caught not minding the laws of road have the parent taken down to the station given a good horse whipping and put into jail for a weekend and the child sent to a uunvenile hall with no nintendo, pc, mps or dvds. Then send the whole damm family for training in being a responsible citizens The second offence would be a repeat of the first punishment though I would horse whip the parents on th Frinday and the following monday morning to make sure they retain the pain for a while. I would also dye the whole family to warn us all that they are stupid perhaps a deep purple or maybe stripes. After that a third offence well that is easy lock up the family together in a small room without any form of media for a year.I am sure that if they are forced to communicate with each other for more than five minutes they will kill each other. Correcting the failure of natural selection and soving the many problems of the future of the race.

Rant is over but not forgotten I am tired of being big brother to fools

Well that is over with or is it.

The idea was for ling to find out more aboutme because she needs to be emotionally close to her Master. So I answered all the questions now a real task for my ling . Before we started the questions I told you to write what you know of me. Of course ling whined and complained about it but it was done.

Now my pet you must write what you know of me now what have you learnt from your questions. In the blog you will explain why you might have changed your ideas about me how you feel emotionally and all the diferences you have found in your thoughts on me.

It is Tuesday , I am entering hospital on Thurs morning at 8:30 I would prefer to see your blog by Wed night . Later than that and I do not know how soon I will be able to read it. When your blog is done you are allowed to ask one question. This should be stimulated by the questions you have asked or a burning question that did not fit in but that you deperately need to know. Remember I said ask the question I did not say I will answer it but it will stimulate thought and discussion and then perhaps you will answer it.

TEN Finally!!!

You said, "I do not believe that love sworks you have commitment you have sharing and i can see that you have loyalty and I see that but love all I see is are words written about it but nothing that cannot be described in other words that describe actions, usually under the heading of love, much better."
Okay this answer didn't make much sense to me.....BUT what i think i got from it was that You can't 'see' love, so it doesn't exist or You don't give it much power in Your life.
I believe that humans try desperately to be in love to express love to do everything for love yet truly they have not ever been in love few have. There are great stories and poems about it. Love is something you experience once in a lifetime if you are lucky but only once and not all will. Most relations are based on contentment or infatuation not love. They all start due to needs of individuals that are fulfill by what others want to give. AN emotional payment you could say. There is an old song that says you cannot pay for love. On to the questions now.

Isn't there many ways people express love in an action?

They express a need or want through action if you wish to put these actions under an umbrella word such as love so be it.

Do You feel You have ever really been in love?
Yes

"To say that I am beating someone ass because I love them no it is because I enjoy it." Haven't You ever given a sub something they wanted more than You did?
Yes I have

Why or Why not?
Because U enjoyed the power I had by giving it

Do You feel love hasn't entered Your BDSM life because of vanilla commitments?

No it has entered
What means more from You...Love or Commitment?
Commitment
What means more to You...love or commitment?
commitment if I must use the word

"Again not love but honor relates to it " Isn't there love in honor?
There does not have to be
i mean to truly honor someone don't you need to love them?
No

Did You learn anything about Yourself during this challenge?
Not really my dear except you base a lot of things on this word love I hope it is as strong as a word as you feel it to be for you.

nine

You told me how this came to be but You didn't answer my question. "A cold uncaring individual someone without emotions" How does that make You feel....inside?
My I thought I did it does not affect me what others think of me

"You might well love something else as it fits your needs better." What happens to what You once loved?
That depends on circumstance I do not confuse the word love with commitment
Do You believe it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all?
I do not think that any experience is bad so experience as much as you can.

Where is Your romance?
In fantasies and books

"You might well love something else as it fits your needs better." Do You truly think love works that way?
I do not beleive that love sworks you have commitment you have sharing and i can see that you have loyalty and I see that but love all I see is are words written about it but nothing that cannot be described in other words that describe actions, usually under the heading of love, much better.

Is it really love if You can just turn it on and off?

I think my answer above covers this question

This is cynicism, "why should I if you know the ending of a book and the story line why would you read it ." Do You think it keeps You from opening Yourself to love?

No

For fun...."If You could change that judgment what would it be too?" It is a hypothetical and for fun!!!!
Sorry I do not understand the question

How does love relate to Your BDSM world?

AH that word again. Possesion relates to it ownership, pleasure seeking and pleasure giving relates to it I can think of many words that relate to it. To say that I am beating someone ass because I love them no it is because I enjoy it. Just as I enjoy it when I get a compliment on my subs behavior that make me feel good because I have taught them well. So truly it does not related to it at all. Again not love but honour relates to it

Alarm clocks

Funny how things work now a days. You still have to go through the motion of turning on alarm clocks lets say . Yes! In this day and age the idea of it. Where are our inventors why have they not solved this complicated problem we can go to the moon but not have an alarm clock that sets itself.

Sounds like a task for a sub does it not? well not for ling nope she forgot making her late not sending the morning email not blogging being an hour behind and late for a lunch with another Master . Hmmmm how good does that make me look. I wonder if I should put in a wake up call so that miss ling will set her alarm every night.

Now what type of wake up call should it be. First ling will insert the intruder. Then blog on the steps she needs to take to set her alarm when this is done she will email an apology to the Master she made wait cc to me of course. Is that it noooo then we will practice setting the alarm ling will set it for five minutes and wait till it rings then she will do it again and again until she grasps the idea that subs are not allowed to make Masters wait. ling will do this for half an hour. Then she can take out the intruder. AH but it is not over. ling will masterbate 5 times a day for five minutes each time for 5 days. When during the day is up to miss ling but of course she will have to use her alarm to make sure it is 5 minutes and NO orgasms.

I am sure this will be a wake up call ling will remember ling this might seem sevre but you represent me when you sit with another Master being late is not acceptable. Make sure the Master you made wait has a copy of this punishment.

Do enjoy the week
PS did yo notice the three number 5 s. Wll yes I am close but not quite a devil am I not.

8

You do judge people but You aren't swayed by Your judgements....How is that possible?
Every one judges people everyone is swayed by the actions of others I merely reserve judgement past the initial impression.

"A cold uncaring individual someone without emotions" How does that make You feel....inside?
This judgement as you call it was related to me by a manager that worked for me he said that if I every took over the store he worked in as I came in the front door he would leave by the back. Another said and this is a translation of a Quebecois saying " if he opens his mouth does a light go on" meaning that I did not smile I was like a fridge. As my job was mostly turning companies around I usually had to chop some heads So this allowed me to do my job with out the hassle of emotion.
If You could change that judegement what would it be too?

I would not as it is a useful tool to see reaction of others

"Too much changes over the years to be able to say that one has always loved the other or will." What You once loved You may not love later?

You might well love something else as it fits your needs better.

"Only mothers are capable of not seeing the faults and irks of their children their concept of reality when it comes to their children is often clouded by this emotion." But not a Fathers?
I can speak only for myself but yes it is different Mothers want to hold on as long as possible I tend to want them to be free so that they can have a life there onw life. That cannot be done coddled in mother's arms. They must take their chances like all fledglings must do when they atttempt flight on their own.
Do You think logic and reason should even play a part of love?

Love is not the protecter we all think it is. It does not stop the storms of life nor does it make decisions easier. It clouds judgement so love is part of life so is logic and reason part of life. Love plays a part of reason and logic not the other way.
Do You think Your cynicsm keeps You from enjoying some parts of life?

No honour does.
Are You afraid to open Yourself to real love?
Real what is real love making fairytale decisions or facing the harsh realities of life. I donot open myself as you say why should I if you know the ending of a book and the story line why would you read it .

The 7

Do You really feel You don't judge people?

I do judge people I just take a while to decide on most.

How do You feel about people who judge others?

Too many take their first impression or are swayed by others formulating their opinions based on others whims.
If someone where to judge You at a first meeting what judgments do You think people would place on You?

A cold uncaring individual someone without emotions

"After youth and our riches are gone what else do we have." What about Love?
An emotion best left between mother and child. Too much changes over the years to be able to say that one has always loved the other or will. Only mothers are capable of not seeing the faults and irks of their children their concept of reality when it comes to their children is often clouded by this emotion.

How do You describe the perfect love?

It was once desribed to me as death the end of thought and reason. It is a word needed to express a caring without the cold logic involved. Fulfillment of needs would be the best descrition for it though I think what you look for is flowery description of animal lust and a continuation of the species. So how about this enjoyment of another not directly related to you both mentally and physically.

"just a feeling that it is right to do so" Do You believe in intuition?
Yes I do but it can easily be tainted by circumstance and surronding

How much would You place on an initial feeling or Your intuition?

Depends on the situation and timming. If I must make a decision quickly a lot more then if I can take time to reflect and ponder. At that point I would have to take in surrondings to see what affect or influence they had on me at the time

Perhaps I am late

Sir a Dom friend of mine suggested that ling's lack of blogging was a punishment offence. I don't think so as she has just returned from vacation. How ever ling does need to get back into submissive mode again so a task I think would be good.

I will say that I have no pictures yet of her positions hmmmm well a nasty task then. Since the vacation went so well time to contemplate things again so lets re-introduce the intruder for meditation purposes only. SO insert the intruder then think of why you should get the web cam going and how you can get those pictures and when. Wait make sure you have the right answers for these questions ling so keep the intruder in for half an hour. Then you can blog your answers to the task above. Once the blogging is over then you may remove you friend the intruder.
Now I know it has been a while but do remember that the intruder goes in your ass ling no where else. Just to keep you focused ling no orgasm until the questions have been asked and the tasks above done.

enjoy the day

great laugh at someone expense

I was talking with a switch friend of mine . Right now the person is in Dominant side with a newbie sub. Newbie to the point where all is new to her. The sub saw a movie a few years agao about a Domme and her female sub and expects the hollywood version of a lifestyle relationship. She is demanding a lot of lets say time from my switch friend. My friend just wants to Dom her not be her best friend not get emotional involved with her.


Hmmm that sounds familar. I have had a few subs like that recently and I spoke to a Domme friend of mine and she said men are from mars and women from venus. All women want emotion . Well I have given this a great deal of thought and I do not totally agree with the men from Mars and women from Venus stuff. After hearing from my switch friend and having Dommed her I think that Dominants are from Mars subs are from Venus and switches well since we are pratical perfect in every way must be the only humans in the lifestyle but we commute a lot that could be why we get cranky at newbies sometimes!

Here is smiling at you Switch.

The six

Do You give trust upfront or is it something that is earned?

ANs: I mostly give it upfront I do not like to judge someone be fore I know them. There is an initial period when I make up my mind if I wish to know this person at all but mostly up front.

What if someone lies to You to protect You?

Ans: No such thing the only thing that can protect me is honesty so I can make my own decisions I accept no lies for what reason

Why do You place So much on honor?

Ans:
After youth and our riches are gone what else do we have. I think that if honour was given the same status as our wants we would not have the hopeless dispair that causes wars, starvation and sickness.

Where do You draw the line on second chances?

ans:

That is a feeling I cannot tell you a limit or hard if statement just a feeling that it is right to do so

Your answer on luck surprises me. How much do You think luck plays a role in Your life?

Ans:

Luck or the word I prefer is chance plays a large role sometime and totally depends on the circumstance , time and place so this question I cannot answer with a percentage or frequency merely that it does and totally depends on the butterflies wings.

"both have value the must be used at the right time." When would be the right time for each...in Your eyes?

Ans: when confronted by a tiger at a hundred yards I would back away facing the danger until I knew I could reach safety then I would run for it. Otherwise I would look for weapons and prepare for the onslaufght keeping my eyes on the tiger . I would then stalk and plan my attack waiting for the best time for me . After all the Tiger might not want to face his fears that day.

There you go ling six down I hope you are learning more about me

5 down six to come

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"If you think on the fear you react to the fear not the tiger." How are those ideas different?

Ans: You would react to what you fear as the first bite of the tiger if that is what you fear the most and not the paw swipe that is comming at you

What about the idea of fight or flight?

Ams: both have value the must be used at the right time.

"Fear did not give you a chance of surival it was luck so you got away with it" You believe in luck?
Ans:

luck , chance are always a part of any conflict, struggle and relations So I do beleive that through proper traing in anything there is a better chance but a good percentage with everything has to so with the right place at the right time.

Do You believe in second chances?
Ans: that depends on what? A relations yes there sre so many reasons why relations can sour and not all are the fault of the individuals. On honour and honesty I have a hard time giving trust once it has been rejected. Not being honourable or being dis-honest with me is the best way to loose trust from me, it will take a long time and a lot of groveling before I would think of trusting again

"Patience ling you must learn patience." Is patience really a virtue?

Ans: Timming is a virtue, patience is part of timing so it is part of a virtue

4 of 6 my pet only 4

"Now if you are suddenly jumped by a tiger do you think you will have time to think how horrible this will be or will you just do your best to surve the attack." Yes, but if you thought about the fear then you could prepare yourself for an attack like that. Without prior thought do You believe Your odds are better to survive or worse?

Ans: If you think on the fear you react to the fear not the tiger. If you allow your instincts to take over then your chances are better . Knowlege on how a tiger kills would help you more thatn the fear.

Is there a difference for You between a fear You know You have to face and one that surprises You? The one that isn't a surprise, don't You think thinking about it will helpreparere You?

Ans There can be not all is known to everyone we still have to face it when we are surprised by it though I feel our instincts handle it quiker .

Ans: Fear must be understood to conquer it no the reason must be. Eliminate the reason for fear which in many cases is a need to worry almost and most fears will dissapaite.

"believe that because of fear most people do not take the right actions to confront what gives them fear. So people make the wrong decisions sometimes they get away with it." Can You explain what You mean by "get away with it?"
Ans: In fear when the tiger junps at you and you go into a fetal position. The force of the tiger knocks you down a hill into river and you float away to safety. It ewas fear that put you into the position that same reaction on flat land would have had different results. Fear did not give you a chance of surival it was luck so you got away with it


Do You believe in war at all? Why?

Ans: I am sorry but I have counted and answered three questions. You have ask six questions three over the limit. I will not allow them in your questions of 4 since they cannot be based on the answers that I have provided today. Patience ling you must learn patience. Best hold onto those questions, perhaps after I get thos pictures on time I might just allow them to be asked privately but until them I must refrain.

A comment

Anonymous said...On lings blog

How does it make you feel to know your Master kneels before another in complete submission. If they own him do they also own you?

Well everyone is own by some one or something. I base my lifestyle on a feudal system so it is simple I am served and I serve. ling is only owned by me no one else. I have never knelt in complete submission and I have never been owned never collared. I would have to say that the individual might be drawing on their personal experience or has limited knowledge of what a switch is or does I would prefer to understand their concepts more to understand why such a question, though it does intrigue me. Why anonymous why is there no name if they are asking a question do they expect an answer to be given to no-name. The language of the questions makes it sound as if submission is a bad thing something to be looked down on. Sadly anonymous I do not agree with that idea yes I think it is a gift whether aI receive or give it. Drop me a line should you wish to discuss it further it sounds like an interesting topic I love to talk about switching.

And now there be three

Fear is defined as: A feeling of agitation and anxiety caused by the presence or imminence of danger. A state or condition marked by this feeling.
Worry is defined as: To feel uneasy or concerned about something; be troubled.

You use fear and worry interchangeably..Don't You think You can fear something without worrying about it?

Some thing may scare me at the point when I confront it but to me fear is something that lingers on something a person thinks about circumstance. If you think about being eaten alive by a tiger you can generate some pretty horific images. How teeth tear through the flesh and scrae along the bone the feeling of the squirting of blood as a major artery is severed the smeel of the contents of your stomach as your intestines are ripped from your body. Now if you are suddenly jumped by a tiger do you think you will have time to think how horrible this will be or will you just do your best to surve the attack. So no if you fear you will worry.

You stated, "If it does come the worrying about what it can do to you might well be the reason you do not conquer your fear and move on." I suppose there are cases where this statement might be true, but don't You think fear can also push us to conquer something? Do You think most people succumb to their fears?

Fear makes us lash out it makes us react sometimes too quickly so no I do not beleive that fear is a help in conquering. I beleive that because of fear most people do not take the right actions to confront what gives them fear. So people make the wrong decisions sometimes they get away with it. Most of the time they are fodder for the tiger.

You stated, "If I were to fear something globally it would be politicians who with no true training in dealing on a world theather make decision based on their feelings rather than what is best. Examples of failed politicians would be any who caused a war to start through agression." How do You feel about the war in Iraq?

I beleive that many a man, woman and child will not be able to contribute to the world because of two unhonourable men wanting to win a pissing contest. Lives should not be wasted in such a fashion. As for the reasons for this war they were not justified it is not that Husien attacked. It has killed the budget for the USA for years to come and left a whole where some control was before and made mothers cry. It might not have been perfect but it was better than what is now. Worse of all it has produced a deep seeded hatred that will not disapate for decades. In the lifestyle the big stick works in the world too many say that they have a big stick to make stong arm politics workable. SO how do I feel about the war very sad indeed not much of a butterfly is it.

Two questions from ling

1) You stated, "A lack of knowledge of what is to come, is one meaning. All fear this as it does for some produce anxious feelings." All fear this except for You? Why is that?

Perhaps a better statement is that I do not worry about it. Imight be scared when it comes but I will not think of it until it is here. What is the sense of worring , if it never arrives then all that pain you caused yourself is worth nothing. If it does come then worring about what it can do to you might well be the reason you do not conquer your fear and move on.

2) You stated, "Globally I cannot fear anything until it is brought down to a personal level." How personal does it need to get? Something like war isnÂ’t personal persay, but it does affect You. What about disease or environmental issues? Again not really personalÂ….would it take one of Your family being affected by it for You to fear it?

I do not fear wars or disease they are only the consequence of others actions . If I were to fear something globally it would be politicians who with no true training in dealing on a world theather make decision based on their feelings rather than what is best. Examples of failed politicians would be any who caused a war to start through agression.

If war was brought to my door then I would fight to survive as most would I think. If I fear the outcome of that struggle then would I have not lost already. As for disease well you know that I have had many things happen to me that is part of life so from a unique vision of experience. I would have to say that disease is an outcome of life it happens if I were to take time away from my health to worry about what could happen I would be wasting my time on this planet and that could be a fear of mine, wasting time.

So how personel does it have to be well for war I would not go off to another land to fight an aggressinve action but would defend my land. As for disease it is not something I fear.

Enviromental issues , In the first answer I talked about change and how it can be affected byt the butterfly. Things happen we can try to do what we thinkis right but we do not know if it is or not. Should we worry and fear that we have made the wrong decisions or should we like the butterfly do what comes naturally to us. SO I might not like weather but I do not fear it nor change that I also might not like.

Ah the challenge

What are Your greatest fears? (related to You personally and the world)

The first question from ling. Fear is a word which usually will cause discomfort. So what are fears would be the first part of the question. A lack of knowledge of what is to come, is one meaning. All fear this as it does for some produce anxious feelings. So what causes uneasy feeling in me ? Certainly not what is inevitable. If I can not do anything about it they how can I fear what will be? The fear of not being able to stop pain specifically to my family that was caused by a failure of mine.

A glorious end for me would be to fight a polar bear with sword and shield knowing that I will loose is not a problem seeing how long I could last would be of great honour to me. I would when my time is more defined on this world activly seek out a Polar bear.. In the same situation should I seek out this bear knowingly putting my family at risk this is my fear.

Fear for the world? I do not fear for the world it progresses as to each flap of the butterflies' wing how can I fear a butterfly? The world has many things wrong with and many things that are great. That is the two sides of balance no matter what you call them they must exist and balance themselves. SO must old and new. I do not fear change even if it means destruction of what we know as life as something will replace it. Globally I cannot fear anything until it is brought down to a personal level. One of the bad things of the world is that there is no perfection in anything , a great thing is that nature continually tries to find it.

My greatest hope for the world is that butterflies will always be able to effect a change.

My My My a ranting princess

Well I have read it on alt there is a blog. I have read it once in a while but not a favorite of mine. Well she is ranting about Dommes not allowed to get angry or be bitchy. She wants to be able to through a temper tantrum but sill hold the respect of her subs and others. Hmmm childish a bit maybe, too emotional oh yah. To me it sounds like she should be a switch and at this moment, but in my mind that would be insulting to switches subs and yes to Dommes,. Should be treated like a brat throwing a tantrum.

With all the whining and complaining it sounds as if she needs a reason to cry and complain. A good old ass warming until she has reason . As for her subs who have written how much they agree with her makes me wonder if this relation is not all cyber or are they brain dead. But all and all she is right about one thing she does sound like a princess does she not?

If a Dominant is not in control of the themselves how can they control any one or thing would be the question I have for her. I realize that the question would just cause her to whine and complain some more so I will ask this . If she thinks that Alt is run by submissives telling their Dominants what to do why does the princess not find another castle to play in? Perhaps a fantasy one where everything is jussst perrrrfect for little girls

And now the News( a Rant )

So in Montreal it seems the lifestyle was on radio in the past couple of days. A talk show hosted by a professional A Dr Pelltier. Part of the community is so happy they think that we are on our way to acceptance. Like the 70 s when gay was a news item the lifestyle is becoming the news of the day. It is in TV shows or alluded to in dialogue on the radio. Will it be well I believe in Santa but there are some gifts he cannot provide.

It would be lovely we could have out own village and there it would be permissible to have slaves in skimpy clothes. We would all wear leather and that other material. A constant call "slave or sub" would ring out. Slaves hanging from balconies and subs tied to lamp posts so that the vanillas could drive through and point with their mouths open aghast as to what is going on. I can see religious folk taken children to see so they know what happens it they touch them selves. All would be happy would they not .

Is it going to happen don' t think so. We might not be raided as often, more might come out but we are still the monsters of perversions and deviant to the core. We spawn the serial killers and repast it could not be the repress emotions that have always been in the vanilla society. As long as it stays mostly in the closet the vanillas will accept our existence but once . They will bring the lifestyle out to increase TV show ratings or radio programs but I doubt I will see it in the streets in my lifetime.

These views are the views of a dark deviant being and not of this station please send all comment to the attention of Cloud care of the Darklight stable we now return to our regular programming.

Oops sorry I forgot this was supposed to be a rant on family and things oh well next same time same channel

Plans A rant

I have a friend that is a Dom he says he does not like to plan a session in case it does not go the way it should . I can understand that to a point he must plan something in his head he has some idea of what he will do just does not want to give out the specifics.

I like some plans I like to know I have the car so I can make plan to see people , go shopping all that sort of thing. My wife(a Vanilla) does not know the meaning of plans. Anything involving her family is not planned until the last second just in case . They seem to want to thwart anyone's plans so tthat they are the center of the uninverse and when you get a day to have sanity reign then all of a sudden they want o plan out your day.

These people have family worked into a deity. Needless to say now I am pissed off. So I gave her the car today and when she said you can drive me in after lunch with my mother and then drive our son I said no. You want the car it is yours you want your son driven to work drive him. I would love to take a family that I know and bend them over a couch. Then administer my plan. Oh well I will be off soon and this teaches me a valuable lesson advice for anyone in the lifestyle do not marry vanilla unless you want countless headaches. Wait and find one of your own much better that way I probably would not have had a heart attack. I might even smile more often.

The rant is over you can make plans for the rest of the day now I am. Oh by the way the next rant will be on family and deities

Vanilla emergency

ling has had an emergency and had to fly off to deal with it. The challenge will be put on hold until she is able to return. I know her strength will allow her to cope with her vanilla world as it does with the tasks I put before her. I expect her to take the time she needs and follows the trilogy.

With that I will say I know you are strong ling I have faith in you .

Questions and challenges for a sub

I have always said to you that I would answer any questio honestly but i will not freely offer it to you. you have the olny means at hand for you to know of me and how I think is that not the way to understanding emotions or non emotions. Does it not give you opportunity to understand my emotions for you.

When you ask a question it should develop 10 other questions . Formulate your questions well and we might well have a discussion going. Some of your questions were excellent but they stopped dead in their tracks.
So now I will give you a task in front of all that read here, blog about what you know of me. then formulate one question for me on your blog.I will answer it on mine and then you must ask 2 questions on the answers that I give you. The following day it will be three questions then four. When you reach 10 then you start with a new question and we repeat the process. SO I offer a challenge to you ling. Can you complete this task? Do you really wish to know me?

If yo think I will make it difficult for you yes I will but you have the readers to comment and say if I have not answered your question and I can think of 2 (Sir and littleone) that will most defintely call me on any untruths or that I did not answer the question.

Do you accept the challenge?

A listening aid for ling

A major stumbling block for ling has been that she needs to know more about me. I understand that and that some sub's need to have an emotional bond with their Doms or Masters. So months ago I told ling to ask questions of me and I would answer. One question a day (it used to be 2) to let her explore and find out what she deemed .Important.

I have answered the questions with honesty and speed . I feel slighted though. As ling seems to ask the question but not dwell on the answer. At least that is what I think , my reason for this is simple. I have noticed that I am getting the same questions as I did months ago and even the same wording . So is my sub actually taking an interested part in these questions or is she blowing away a task because she has little interest in it. I have in the past re-answered the question thinking that she just forgot the answer and I would mention that it was the same question as before. So to help with your concentration miss ling by tomorrow you will look through all your emails which surely you have kept for reference from Me. you will look for the answer to the last question that I have to yet answered and you will blog about it.

The procedure you will take to find it is to insert your intruder wait 30 minutes then begin to look for the answer in your old emails from Me . you may take the intruder out after you have blogged about the answer. Should you not find the answer because you deleted it then you are to blog about why you are asking the question if the information of such little use to you. The faster you answer the easier the punishment!. And no the intruder is not the punishment it is an aid for your memory.

Preaching

I was on a discussion group when a post was made. It professed that the lifestyle was better than the vanilla one for battered women because we had rules and discussed things before hand. Some how I do not think the author of this post truly understands what battered means. Yes the lifestyle tend to talk and discuss more of what they want but do they touch on anything else. I know that a few of my subs have come from relations that I would have to say were abusive at best. They might have talked a lot before have but once in the control of a monster you are manipulated no matter what was said monsters have a way about them. They take the trust you have given and turn it against you.
The ones that have come from these relations started out as being happy in relations that they thought were healthy. So just to have a reality check we are not perfect we have monsters lurking about as do the vanillas and we must always look our for ourselves .

My MY

Well my little ling seems to want to think a lot does she not. Instead of following what I have asked of her she likes to get rid of tasks she does not like to perform. The first time was a story she did not want to write the second time meditation she did not want to do.

Poor little subbie does not quite understand it is not just the fun of what the sub likes to do. Yes that is fun but all too easy she has to learn that she has to do what she does not like almost better than what she likes. I think ling must learn not to think about what I tell her to do. I have said she can disagree but she will still have to do it what is asked.

Starting in 6 days time ling will have to wear the intruder for 10 minutes each day. ling will also have to meditate for 10 minutes a day. ling has to blog about her meditation with the intruder and in six days will have to blog each day about her meditation and her wearing of the intruder. Each blog must be 100 words or more and must truly reflect her thoughts on both . Do enjoy a new routine ling I am sure you are smiling about this one.

"sub cause pain to Dom" Headline News

ling, has caused the need for me to meditate or for another word think deeply on things. I shall not provide details on the subject it self , instead it is the reason the following events happened.

I either need to sit quietly in a room and empty my head with silence. Not possible all the time as there is life in the neighborhood that is not under my control and of course the young adults refered to as children in my house. The other way is to do something mundane and repetitive. Well brainstorm I have been given the okay from Doctor that must be obeyed to exercise again. Lightly of course and of course I listened to what the doctor told me to do.

What is lightly to an old warrior, a brisk light row through the north ailantic well as long as there is no storms that could be light don't you think. So off to the long boat I went (my rowing machine that is) so off I went to meditate. At first the rowing was a little soft to meditate with so I increased the rep count per minute. To do that I put on some Gregorian chants with a drum beat in much like the Romans galleys of old and set in for a good row
Well it took 15 minutes and I was out in to the north ailantic with waves smashing into the bow and my fellow Vikings pulling hard, the muscles bulging with the fight against the sea.. I could not let my comrades down by quitting when the bell sounded at the 20 minute mark noooo way. SO onward I pushed knowing what place I should hold as being the last to quit.

Well I finished my rowing fantasy and felt great , nice to see my old Viking friends again and time to think that was great. Friends dropped over after wards and it was then I noticed something when I laugh my stomach hurt. When they left I prepared supper my hands cramped I went up to watch a period of hockey saw the opening puck drop then woke up too see they were in the second minute of the second period and I had missed 7 goals. Then I moved I do not know why I moved I was comfortable there but I moved . My head hurt my back, legs , arms. Toes, stomach , the only two things that did not hurt was my buttocks and my nose. My nipples also were numb they had been since I did weights in the morning oops do not tell morning star.

SO I did a lot of thinking and came to the conclusion that it is lings's fault for giving me pain. I think everyone will agree with me it is not that a 52 year old tried to act as a 29 year old again. After all I lilstened to my doctor I did a light row no storms in the alantic. I did listen for the bell but I though it was just Swen was letting the air pass between his teeth or Igamar had trouble again with his stomach he is getting old now and bear meat just does not sit well with him . Naw it had to be my subs fault couldn't be mine could it (evil smile)

For the next time I intend to do what most vailla men do when they want to think deep thoughts watch a football game in a chair with a beer. Not true but I thought it was funny and sometimes we just need to laugh rather than think

Protocols

Any one who has been my sub knows that I like protocols , why ? It is simple everyone knows what they must do at what time and where and how. They are and easy tool that a Dom and sub know what should be happening a plan you could say, so that no one is offended if followed. When it is not followed then you can worry about someone are they okay because they have not contacted me at the right time. They also provide the answer to many what if questions when the Dom is not around.

For my protocols I use a very basic idea of politeness and courtesy. Respect must be shown to all Doms as you would show to a parent or one that is older. That I must know what my sub is doing during the day who she is seeing is the same as wanting to know where your child is when they are not at home with you. House rules a little more defined are part of this protocol .

So much easier for all if subs have rules and protocols that I think I will again start using a contract in the future so that the sub knows exactly what is expected of them and what they should expect of me both in the mental and physically sides. I think it only fair.

Well it is Friday

ling should be in the midst of cooking and serving right now . Running around trying her best to serve make everyone there impressed with her training. Excited to beyond comprehension waiting to orgasm after a long week of denial. Then she must mastubate in front of the party before cumming. What thoughts must be going through her head what sweet tortures Sir Garrick is dealing out in my absence. I will make an interesting read indeed tomorrow.

I have been told that I might not be sympathetic to my subs in the way that I ask about what they need . It will be interesting when I ask ling if her needs were satisfied if I understood what she needed. Yes I am a switch being one I understand the thrill embarrassment and utter joy she feels from a good session. I know the feeling of need and I know when the session does not live up to anticipation. SO ling I hope it was all you could ask for and more my pet I wished I could have been there in solid form not just a shadow or what might have been perceived as a blur in your vision as you orgasm.

Sleep well ling

a tag that I sort of liked

Early morning reading of Master and butterfly's blog I stumbled across this tag. Usually I quietly run from tags and surveys but I left a comment and it was fun. So if you want to go ahead if you do not I fully understand as I normally feel that way too.


If you read this, if your eyes are passing over this right now, please post a comment with a COMPLETELY MADE UP AND FICTIONAL memory of you and me.

It can be anything you want BUT IT HAS TO BE FAKE.

When you’re finished, post this little paragraph on your blog and be surprised (or mortified) about what people don’t ACTUALLY remember about you.

Come on…I dare ya! ;)

It is funny

I have run a little experiment with ling. I wanted to find out how well subs take to pressure and deadlines. Over the past little while I have been a kind Dom and allow her to masturbate for 3 days 3 times a day. Now she is in orgasm denial until Friday. She seems to be doing a lot better since the denial has started. Exercises are up to the level she should be at. Other tasks are now completed on time. Sir Garrick will have one horny little sub on his hands come Friday. I hope his bondage ropes will be able to contain the orgasm.

That said I was thinking of giving ling an option that she can masturbate on Friday at the party in-front of everyone or wait another week to release herself. The idea of her waiting another week hmm we would probably feel the shock waves when it did go off . Then again masturbating in front of a group of on lookers hmmm might feel the shock waves from that too. So what should I do humiliation in front of others and relief or increase the enjoyment and make her wait? A third option I can let Sir Garrick decide based on how well she does at he party. That is interesting oh choice and decisions that Doms have to make it can be very frustrating and tiring can it not ling?

The image

A movie made many years ago in the seventies I believe. It cover some taboo subjects such as females urinating on screen and the lifestyle. I did not like the way the male Dom wanabe was portrayed but I found that for a film of the seventies it was quite enlightened. Based on a story called the training of Ann I felt it was a good depictation of the lifestyle view as much as would be accepted by the general population. I have been told that unlike the film the story of O where the ending suggested that Sir Stephen would go through some trials of his own to prove his love for O. Suggesting that there would be a switch of roles.

Oh did I say the word switch oh I love that word. In the movie the Image the Domme is actually a switch . This is hinted at through out the film. At the munch today I found that more and more are switches than I first thought. I had great fun at poke fun at the purist pointing out how switches can play with who ever and are not confined by the concept of roles. I am happy to see that Master and butterfly had started to enjoy this in their relationship. I have nothing against Dominants and submissives that never switch all the more power to them. It is just nice to see that I am not the only one. As my friend Sir says a switch is someone that has not made up their mind yet. That may well be but hell it is fun being indecisive.

I love questions

morningstar has been a friend of mine for years through when I subbed and Dommed for quite a few years. We have agreed on many points and disagreed on many others. she has always made me think about things I have said with her insight into the lifestyle with questions and thoughts. she is more of a purist when it comes to remaining in one role where I am switch , one of the subjects that we have opposing views on. Of course if you do not hear from me in a few days I am having coffee with moringstar today and I will let you draw your own conclusions (LOL)

SO for my friend here is my response to your question.


From morningstar:

Cloud...... i have a question for You... I love questions

describe the pain .. the intensity.. the simple feel of a flogger.. from a whip.. from a cane.. from a tawse for me please??

For me a simple flogger is like a strong massage , a whip has much more of a bite to it a cane well a cane is nasty at best. I feel the stroke when it lands and it continues well in to the next stroke. It is a sting it has the deep burning sensation and if done right feels like it has cut you to the bone. There is always an after feeling and the welts and abrasions left are quick to open I can feel a good caning for days afterwards. The tawse I have not felt therefore I do not use it on others but I love the warmth of a leather strap how it builds I miss it when it stops. Sanding something that not many do which is causing abrasions with a fine sand paper then applying alcohol or vinegar can cause a nasty pain that cannot not be soothed easily. The pain endures for quite sometime if you like you sub to dance around or squirm a lot I wool say this is one of the better ways just be prepared it cannot not be stopped once it starts you have to wait till it subsides and those minutes seem like hours.

Now describe how each of those toys feels to me... the pain.. the intensity .. all of it..

I could not tell you what you feel, only that I would know what type of sting it has and when I should use it. Perhaps it would help in the judgment of a new Dom as to what strength to use with each toy


Now tell me how a Dominant who perhaps is NOT a masochist can truly KNOW what the pain feels like for me??
Well they cannot but I seem to remember a certain sub saying that she wished she could use a whip on a Dom so that they could understand what it is like when it wraps and how it destroys the mood . This theory just takes it a little farther

AND as for being a Dom for a day?? how can any sub honestly know the feelings / the responsibilities for a Dom ?? i have no desire to know what it feels like to HIT someone...... i did it once.. i made the person wince and i thought i was going to be sick to my stomach......

I can understand that but to be a Dom you do not have to cause pain. Bondage does not have to be painful it can just be restraining and what better way to tickle someone if they are restrained! Again did you not try to do some bondage and found out how much concentration you must have to be successful. I think at least for me I gain a great amount of respect and understanding when I fail at things for those that do it effortlessly.

sorry but i just don't see how this theory (that many hold) of "walking in the other's shoes" (so to speak) can bring a whole lot of benefit...

Well what brought this to mind was an idea that someone who knew nothing about the lifestyle could look at a site and have enough knowledge to become someone's Dom. I found it ridiculous and dangerous for someone to think that they could give what the sub needs by reading and not experiencing any part of the lifestyle. We know that some sites go very extreme and some are only fantasy so for me the benefit would be that this new Dom did not think that he could pick up any instrument of pain and wail away. Nor should he think that the sub is a doormat as depicted in some site to be used and abused with no regard to her needs, wants or limits. For me this type of education would be the same as saying I am going to run the Boston marathon tomorrow, with out having at leasted walk the distance first.

To bodybuilder my best time for a marathon would be the 1975 Montreal marathon, as soon as I finished it I will post my time.

I hate running

I hated running but I played lacrosse and there is no book that tells you how to run or build stamina like running. Just look at a marathoners face , they might be happy in what place they finish but damn it hurts after a while.

A blog by butterfly has brought this thought to the fore front for me. Through out the ages Masters have always had an apprentice. Knights had squires trades men had their helpers it was the one true way of learning the only way. Then books of learning were developed and those that taught gave knowledge but not the practical of lets say cutting a piece of wood and what it takes to make a smooth straight cut. Nor can you develop the idea of fear and courage if you do not experience it first hand as the squires did.

So now I am about to say that the purist of the lifestyle are not as knowledgeable as to the effect of some things in the lifestyle. I fully agree with butterfly and will say that anyone who wishes to be a master should experience what it is to be a sub. I feel the eyebrows raising already, but that is okay I know that there are masters and subs that will agree fully .

My arguement is if you do not know how the whip feels how can you wield it. How can you break a board with your hand if you have not punched bags and bags of sand you do not know first hand what it feels like to do that for hours. It is nice to have fantasies and have these great ideas but if you do not know the e damage of lets say isolation of a slave as punishment can cause on the mental state of the human then you should not play with it. If I tell a child that if they touch the flame it will burn they will still try. We have all played with the flame of a candle to see how close we can get before the burn sets in, which is better knowledge.

Yes I have switched many times and I do feel that I have a greater understanding of pain and why it is enjoy and service and why it is fun. I think it has greatly helped me understand the mind of a sub. That said and I can hear some subs go yes you are so right well subs it is not a one way street try being a Dom or master one day try keeping up with the needs and demands that subs put forth. Tempering sound judgment with the wild ideas of a sub of what should be possible in time and space provided. subs get the release of the days tentions by their service and play session but a Dom does not they still have the days events playing in their mind when they raise the paddle and must control the strength used.

I believe it was St Andrews day that had the knights of old change position with their squire for a day and to me that is not a bad idea to keep one's perspective.

Contact or I have no idea what you want.

I was contacted by a women yesterday interested in my profile on well you know one of those sites. She said to me that she was a slave and knew well the meaning of it. So I was interested for at first she answered the questions all right until oops, my definition of a slave vs a sub. Yes she sounds like a very good sub one that has demands on her Dom in a more vanilla way. I asked did you read my profile and what I am looking for"yes " came the reply. So you have no problem that I call you when I want not when you need. That you are just property to played with. Yes hesitation has arrived. " Well we have to talk about that' hairs are standing on my neck. I am sorry I said did you read my profile well sort of you asked for a slave. Okay after those words where I say my definition did you read that? Well I know what a slave is. Not my idea of a slave read again and think about it.

So should this be a rant on the school system that has failed in the 3 Rs. Or should it be for those that respond to profiles to be a bit more careful of what they think they know. Perhaps I should write in French I might be more understood. I think I need to re-do my profile

Just a rant >

Bunnies and carrots

Well I just want to say to have a great holiday weekend and to point out that this is another weekend that has bdsm connotations. First of all exactly where do those eggs come out of the Easter bunny any way ?Have you ever seen a bunny that has eaten those eggs? Why is it they are not chocolate carrots? And what of the Easter hare where are they ?


Last let us talk about carrots are there dominant carrots ?You know those carrots that stand out larger than reality types? Does size count in the carrot world? Is quantity important or quality.





Do carrots have specific roles do they stay in those roles while in the garden or just when it is show time on your plate? Which carrot role should you eat first? Are carrots into piercing or just into unauthorized entries?




Are carrots Doms, switches or pure subs? Do they like to be roasted or boiled? How long can you keep carrots in bondage? What is the safe amount of time you can suspend a carrot without doing damage to it's leafy parts? Should carrots be include with other vegetable in the subby Olympics ? Should you practice safe sex with carrots?



One last question how do you explain the concept of putting a man in a playboy bunny outfit without a carrot somewhere? Is he smiling maybe there is a carrot somewhere?


Well you all have a great (politically correct) holiday. OOOOps one more one more question how do bunnies change carrots into chocolate eggs anyway? Is it true that only male bunnies lay the eggs? That would account for those female bunnies giggling a lot around Easter would it not.

Hold back the demons

Having a vanilla life and a bdsm one intertwined must be fantastic to be that close to living and loving in the fashion that you desire. Commitments clearly defined, roles never change absolute joy would it not. Then there are those who cannot have such dreams on a 24/7 bases. We must battle the demon of desire and want balancing then with what must be.A question on another blog has inspired this post the question put to a couple who share a similar life as I: Why don't you just leave the vanillas you are with and be with the person you want to be with? I do not belittle the question nor the person who asked it It is a good question ,so simple in nature an easy decision is it not. In my case and theirs I would have to say no not easy at all. Not easy to have a life for 25 years then say okay I am tired of this and found what I really want. First of all is it consensual? Even though my wife knew of my desires knew of what I have done the idea was I sleep in her bed when the dawn comes. Nor would this be sane in anyway for my children to understand that Dad likes to spank slaves but never brought a hand against them. Would it be honourable to say thanks for nursing me to health and cleaning me up and have a good life see yah!I know there is one that suffers as I do for the same reasons. Honour holds us apart and a sense of duty to do less would mean that we were not honest with each other from the beginning. So is it an easy question to answer, yes. Is it easy to do , no. Not with society as it is today. I have learnt that this society believes in that saying "you can't expect to have your cake and eat it to".Always negative nothing is possible then what is acceptable to them. No reason to have cake is there? Except for the taste, that one mouthful, it will stir memories of happiness on a somber day and make reason of a cold life. So here is a simple question for those that cannot understand: Is there a difference between Demons, honour and duty?

As for my friends that have shown so much love and caring I hope it is easy for you I hope your love story can continue. I wish for you that the barriers fall and acceptance is there for you. As for the one that asked the question it was a good question just not an easy one to answer.

Beginnings of a name

Ah the seventies......




Some have ask where did you get that name from, here be the answer. In days of olde and days gone by there was a club in the ancient land of Chicago called the Green Door. The club was private and into a form of the lifestyle based on feudal times. It was not this club that interested me in the lifestyle but it is where I took the name of CLoud Darklight.

Of the many players there were areas of the club that some liked better than others. I enjoyed an area away from the light away from the stage where the pleasures that I inflicted were for myself and my slave to enjoy and few others. There were those that had more of an exhibitionist like than I they were of the light and I was of the Darklight. The name stayed with me through out the years when ever there was anything to do in my life dealing with medieval times that was the name I went by. Cloud was give to me by my girlfriends at the time seems I was a bit gloomy at times but that should be for another blog. So there it is a name.

Not a picture of the club but one of the toys I favored. I would not say that the club was truly a bdsm club just the feudal system or our concept of it lends itself nicely to the lifestyle I say with a smile. Much easier to explain that you are into historical reproductions then to explain the joys of turning someone's ass red. One must be honest but only as truthful as it takes to answer the vanilla's questions. Any questions?

Summer colds start early

Yes I am sick and grumpy and takem to my bed.
Being away from my routine I expect to see blogs from you all .
Stay well my friends

The last to leave

I worked today in a flat where water dripped and memories were tarnished. We rescued what we could. I spent time with a friend which I think was more important then what we could save. Another friend said good bye to a family member which has sadness to it no matter how brave our faces are. I came home hoping to find solace in my family and enjoy the rest of the evening laughting to rid my self of sad feelings. We were told that our youngest has decided to move out in 4 months. What can I say memories are so important, it is the only thing we can hold on to.

Tire changes waiting for summer

Spring is supposed to be filled with growth and new life. Okay where is mine. I have changed winter tires into summer ones I have done my spring cleaning and set my clock forward. Where are the fairies and eleves to do mine. I feel like a hibernating bear I have enought of fat to last a few more sleeps let me sleep. I bet they are all waiting for moringstar to open her secret garden so that they can go lounge in the sun.

I have a grunpiness about me these days that I cannot seem to dump. Of couse seeing the ground again covered in snow did not help last night. I hurt in all my joints and need a good work out alas there is no ass to beat now a days. As for walks, ba hambug I have walked around this earth at least twice now no more shoe leather will I give to the soil beneath my feet it has had enough. I am healthy enough at least as much as I am willing to do without some reward. The easter bunny just does not cut it, unless she wears a costume that when peeled off reveals a naked slave inside (she can leave the cotton tail) as my luck goes I think I would find something bear and the tail would loose impact because of all the hair! morningstar wake up those damm fairies

I have tired from winter and need summer, camps and other wild things to go on so that I might shed this shroud of winter's night from my shoulders. Talk to them PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE

Gregorian chants

They have a way about them. They bring peace and calm to me they bring me to a time when all was easy there was right and wrong no grey allowed. As promised to some here are my house rules remember they are my rules not some edict from strange creatures of the night with iron rings and carvings of black roses upon them. They are simply what I like done in my house when slave I have. This is the second posting of them seems I had a problem with html script I hope this is better

Houe rules of Darklight

All activities are to be safe, sane and consensual. The extreme of the lifestyle forces a great responsibility on all to know how far we can go with play. I expect all to govern themselves accordingly and to err on the side of safety.

Rules of Use

§ No use of the houses slave or subs without permission from Me.

§ No drugs or intoxication is allowed before play of any sort. Use of drugs and intoxication will not be tolerated. A glass of wine may be provided at the end of the evening on occasion.

§ Smokers are requested to smoke outside on the back porch. However, during cold/inclement weather, smoking will be permitted in the entranceway.

§ Like a dojo there are no shoes allowed in the house, but slippers are permitted.

§ Sexual abuse of collared slaves and subs by their respective Dom/me is permitted in any room of the home, except where the door is closed.

§ Dom/mes are requested to bring their own toys for use during a play session.

§ Gags will be used on subs/slaves during play to avoid undue concern of nearby neighbours.

§ Blood sports, including knife play, needle play, branding, piercings and severe sessions with prior arrangements and consent will be permitted.

Outdoor play or exhibition to the general public will not be allowed.

Protocol

§ All Dom/mes are to be treated with respect by slaves/subs. Which means that the etiquette shown from a child to an adult is expected at all times.

§ subs/slaves are to be treated with respect, as they are someone’s property. Respect must be shown to all in My abode.

§ All unfamiliar Dom/mes shall be addressed as Sir or Madam. Familiar Dom/mes shall be addressed by the title they are known by.

§ Masters may dress as they wish. Subs and slaves should dress as to the instructions of their Masters. Slave outfits, harnesses, and total nudity are all permitted and welcomed. All are to wear appropriate attire to and from the residence.

§ subs/slaves must ask permission from their Dom/mes to enter a room or leave it. The kitchen and hall are safe areas for subs and slaves, and can be entered by all.

§ No sub or slave is permitted on the furniture, unless ordered by their Dom/me for the purpose of display or punishment. A cushion on the floor will be provided.

§ All subs/slaves will aid the house slave in the preparation and serving of refreshments and food, as they know the tastes and requirements of their Dom/mes.

§ subs/slaves may only initiate conversation when greeting or helping a Dom/me.

§ Uncollared subs are under the protection of the house. They shall abide by the rules of the house for house slaves and subs.

§ Collared subs shall abide their Dom/me’s wishes and conform to the standards of house etiquette.

Yes I still use a hankie.

I carry two as a matter of fact. All those that say oh that is so horrible and I should use a tissue, do not understand somethings. First off if you are environmental friendly the last thing you wish to use is a tissue. It is bleach, chemically treated wood. Wood being the only good part of that combination. A hankie is cloth that is washed and reusable but more than that. It is a gesture of caring.


It is an offer to a lady in distress of comfort. I just cannot see myself offering a tissue to women in some dire upset. A piece of linen is warm and comforting it soothes like giving a hug almost. My father always had us carry two of them one for yourself and one for others. He used them to bandage a wound or stop a child's tears. He made hats for little girls and when we were young made pirates bandanas and cowboys scarfs of them. Most of my toy soldiers had at least one parachute ride with hankie and string attached. They also made excellent eye patches, I lost a lot of eyes in battle and adventure must have been close to a hundred before I was six.

Countless construction workers staved off sunstroke because of them. So for those that scrinch up their noses or go red faced too dam bad. IF you do not like it then go stay in your glass bubble and close your eyes. If a child scrapes a knee or a women sheds more than one tear and I am near by I will first offer my hankie for comfort. And yes it will be the one I keep for you not for myself.

Well I am at the moment

Sort of a time of frustration, for those of you who read lings blog Please note that she had surgery to remove her appendix and will be off line for a while. Sir Garrick has kindly let me know of the situation with out a friend in far off lands I would not have known for a while about my sub so again a big thanks to him. Now subbies and slaves ling is in trouble when she gets back you see she was complaining to everyone about a pain in her side except ME. She has a bad habit of over extending herself to the point of not caring for herself.

This goes against the trilogy of health , family and work. It also flies into he face of being the most honest to your Dom. It destroys the idea that the sub is responsible for the upkeep of the Masters property Without knowing the smallest details in a sub's life a Dom has a hard time to protect his property. Make it worst is when there is distance between you or you can not spend all the time that your slave or sub needs with them. You rely upon the subs/slave to keep you informed of health issues and their needs. I do not mean every sub/slave should whine about everything but certainly "Sir I have had a funny feeling in my side" would have been nice. Judgment is critical and open communication.

Subs/slaves have to get it into them that they are there to give 100% when Master calls whenever he calls. Inbetween the times he calls you work on keeping yourself in perfect condition so when the call comes you can give your all. Well you cannot do that if you are not well or something is wrong in your life. Masters,Doms,Tops understand the world is not perfect or at least most do. They demand what they feel can be given not the impossible and they understand health issues at times maybe more than subs/slaves do.

SO when miss ling is fully recovered we will be spending a few hours with the intruder in place writing an essay on why subs should keep their Masters informed and how to politely do it. I will also be posting for her rules on communication just for her benefit for the future. Here is a teddy for you ling I hope you are well soon. When you are, better bring a cushion with you your ass is going to be sore until you have learnt your lesson!