Preaching

I was on a discussion group when a post was made. It professed that the lifestyle was better than the vanilla one for battered women because we had rules and discussed things before hand. Some how I do not think the author of this post truly understands what battered means. Yes the lifestyle tend to talk and discuss more of what they want but do they touch on anything else. I know that a few of my subs have come from relations that I would have to say were abusive at best. They might have talked a lot before have but once in the control of a monster you are manipulated no matter what was said monsters have a way about them. They take the trust you have given and turn it against you.
The ones that have come from these relations started out as being happy in relations that they thought were healthy. So just to have a reality check we are not perfect we have monsters lurking about as do the vanillas and we must always look our for ourselves .