When honor is given to title

I have very honourable friends in both my vanilla and bdsm relations. Yet more and more I come across Dom/mes that either have no understanding of what a Dom/me is or should be. Friendship trust and slavery are all gifts to me a slave or sub I expect to make a mistake now and then. To push limits or try to manipulate a situation. I expect a friend not to nor to break a trust . A Dom/me after I have extended a trust to, a friendship to, and accepted a kindred bond with to break with the honour I thought she poscessed I do not understand. I have the same feeling of amazement and shock as when as a child was told that Santa does not exist. If I had of seen a man in a red suit in my house at 2 am I would have accepted him as Santa and gone back to bed but now I think I would have to question him a bit more.
Get your act together you have no right to emotions that cause a revenge thinking against a vanilla friend by using a bdsm setting. If you cannot handle a vanilla friend being involve in a bdsm relation then choose to keep it vanilla or bdsm and not use it to manipulate arguments and punish for the wrong reason.

A rant no a statement yes : get rid of your emotions and you will be a better Dom/me.

Falling off a stationary bike.

Well yes it was like that you think that on a stationary bike you don't have to be careful because you are not going anywhere well that changes quickly. My wish to encounter a true slave has been fulfilled. No limits no safe word and extremely submissive. Now what is the problem? It is easy to bring someone close to their limits to push them a little but how do you push no limits where is the guide line the smack that tells that is far enough. One of my first goals for her would be to accept the idea that no is a good word sometimes. The trust that she placed in me is very high and I will enjoy her but we will take it slowly she is a very special women that loves being a slave. she must realize that the special women comes before the slave. In time she will learn for now she pleases me very much.
ling has gone through a very rough time in her life, not having her Dom close at hand did not help and she has many questions. Again her Dom cannot help she must make decisions that are good for herself and not worry about pleasing her Dom but in pleasing her desires and needs. I believe she has the strength and the intelligence to make the right decision for her. I await her thoughts on this. ling is an excellent sub and any Dom would be done well by her.

Wet nipples

I had a most enjoyable evening last night at my friends dungeon. I had a new slave ,k who I put through a very light play session . To my surprise after she had a nice pink ass from my paddle she began to leak. I started t play with her nipples and low and behold liquid. A first time experience for me and k said it was for her too. For the rest of the evening I could not resist torturing those sensitive little buds to bring forth more liquid. She was wet in all the right places. k has a very cute body with breasts just enough for my hand. A very submissive girl. Nice ass and very shy. I took great pleasure in exposing her for the entire night. It is a state that she should be in all the time naked to the world so that all can appreciate her glow. As far a service very prompt and learns quickly, she knows her positions well and takes commands quickly. I look forward to our next meeting .

I wanted to bag her and bring her home last night but I must take my time. One last thing she has a great tongue and does her sex proud. k if you are blushing right now it should not be for embarrassment it should be a glow because you did so well. Smile my pet

The process or the hunt

How do we decide on new applications. Do they fit the needs. On paper almost everyone does they all love pain they are very good servants they are excellent subs , in their eyes. Then there is emails, chats and conversation . A coffee meeting where both of you prim your selves so the other see the perfect model of yourself not the one they are really getting 99% of the time. What do we know after that how pretty a face how they dress how they smile but who they are no . Only after meeting a person and putting them in some sort of a session do you see them react to stimuli and then you see the real slave sub or bottom.

A benevolent species we are

I was reading a science magazine and they were explaining ho black whole or super massive black wholes become that size. The scientist who are mostly peacenics at least I always picture them as this. In most Hollywood films is it not the scientist that points out the monster was awoken by our use of the bomb or our pollution at least in the old ones that is. Getting back on track, in this magazine I notice the words used , destroyed, eaten, the devastation, obliteration what wonderful words if you are a general some where. Do we have to say that when two black whole come together that one eats the other , perhaps a more gentle approach perhaps we could say that in the middle of copulation they reverted to a 69 position to complete the act. So this was just a quick break for those of you that have said I have not been writing enough one last question for my friend morningstar in that book you were reading , Market place or something like that, what was wrong with his penis or was it just a black whole?

A session

I was asked what my perfect session would be well here it is ling well today's version as it would change for each sub and circumstances. Okay lets call this a generic session:

Upon arrival you would be greeted but a person unknown to you, your instructions would be to enter strip and place the cuffs and chains on your wrists and ankles. This is done so that you are uneasy and have to force yourself to obey. You would be lead into a room in the middle of the room would be 2 chairs. A strong light above it and to the side of it a table placed to the other side would have a selection of toys and devices. You would be positioned on the chairs they would allow me to pass between your legs without much discomfort for me. You would silent for the whole session except for the grunt and little cries of excitement and pain.


I would use a flash light to examine your body. I would pull your ass cheeks apart and explore your anus with at first one finger then as many as would fit. Once loosen up a bit I would use a medical device to open it even large to make sure that you had followed instructions and you were clean inside. After I was satisfied I would do the same for you cun. The area would be thoroughly check and I would roughly finger and pull at your clit to see how you react a few smacks on your pussy with a wooden spoon then I would bring you down from the chairs.

hands on head standing infront of me I would examine you tits for weight texture elasticity then those nipple of your yours. At first a gentle touch then tweaking pinching and shackles from the spoon. I would pull and bite on them only stopping when the whimpering from you reached sufficient level. Attaching nipple clamps with chains hanging from them. The chains would be attached to your ankle cuffs forcing you into a half bent over position.
Taking a small stingy paddle I would start with your ass first slowly light slaps then strong then my favorite. I deliver as many smack as I can in 10 seconds I have been told it is like a swarm of bees all in one area then I would relax for a few seconds then again for 10 seconds this would continue for a minimum of 15 minutes. You will try to squirm and dance away from the paddle which means the clamps would bite into your nipple more. Should through your force of wish to escape from the blows a clamp should fall off then I would replace it with 2 on each nipple and move from the small paddle to a oak stick. Taking time to play a bit with the pussy and ass always back to the speed paddling.

Released from the position you would be allowed to sit after I inserted two vibrators on in your ass and the other in your pussy on one chair. Clamps with chains attached to you lips then attached to your inner knees and ankles attached to the chair. Hands tied back to the chair so they remain above your head I would start to work on your tits and thighs pinching and slapping. Removing the clamps quickly so that you feel he rush of blood and pain to your nipples I would milk you nipple like a good farmer pinch and pulling to make sure there was no milk left. Then applying the paddle to your nipple and tits with the same speed delivering as many smacks as possible in 10 seconds as possible. Inbetween the speed paddles I would turn on the vibrators then off for more paddles. This would be for at least the first hour till you had begged enough then I would let you sit in your sweat and juices for a little while to relax a bit. Part two later, are you squirming ling?

Words Presence and Distance

Yes I am an imposing figure. I was working in a group of store upon entry of the Laval store the shoe Manager told his store Manager that if I replaced her one day as I came in by the front door he would leave by the back door. Another employee asked my assistant if I opened my mouth do you see a light bulb go on, that was translated from French meaning that I was as cold as a fridge. Needless to say I produce fear in people yes little old me merely when they first see me. My assistant in the late seventies peed her pants when I gave her a dressing down she told me later. So people fearing me because of presence has always been there I understand that.

I come with some experience in the lifestyle my first was when I was very young then after the age of 25 I went into remission you could say until I was about 40 they the passion started to re-emerge. When I write my spelling might not be there but the information I have been told is well thought out and based on experience and meditation. When I want to I can wrote very well that is when I take my time. So I understand respect for my words.

Long distant relations I do not understand. I have a sub far away she awaits my tasks she does her best to complete them, she accepts punishment willing and loves to serve. I have been training her for past little while she is very submissive and loves to be trained. I see that she is lacking in one area , presence mine. This is all fine to give orders and wait for reports and if I was a general somewhere watching troop movements that might be fine. Subs, I do not mean the kind that go underwater, need a presence they need a hand with flesh on it not paper or electronic pixels. The best I can think of doing since travel is out of the question for me right now is to arrange plays sessions with one of her friends in the lifestyle. What will come of this hopefully at first some satisfaction for my sub ling and to an extent for me also. What will happen in the future ling will soon desire a Dom/me in person. A sub of any experience will tell you that having a Dom/me being able to show up at a moments notice heightens the experience a hundred fold. A dilemma? I do not think so merely growth of an individual is that day here yet also I do not think so. Is it something we must think about it is always wise to ponder before being force to action .

Punishment or not

SO is it the error of the sub. Mine has a PC that does not want to work so should I punish the sub for not taking care of her PC or do I just say it was not her fault. she has gone out of her way to communicate with me during this time so I guess I have to cut her some slack god I am a nice Dom. When you are back up I expect answers to all the questions that you have not answered yet but I will be patient for now.

Healing

Healing is a feeling that I enjoy almost makes being sick a good thing. The bones crack and grind as they are used to sedimentary life over the past couple of days. The muscles strain at the days activities that were the norm but a week ago. Like walking in slow motion it allows me to focus more on the every day things some that are so matter of fact the we do not know we are doing them. Seeing a sunrise after a storm sort of thing. Just to let the world know that I am back not totally but soon give me a chance to enjoy the small things for a day or two then I will be back.

Not a good start

I have started the year on a bad foot. During the summer I felt great I went to camp and felt I could lay waste to any castle and horde of Vikings. Six months later the body is not at all willing and my soul is befuddled. I had to leave a very nice get together yesterday of friends because my body gave out . It was for a short period of time but it is a vision that might become more the norm. I must say that I still had fun though today I am wasted no not to drink or over indulgence but to the age of things. That said I had a wonderful time meeting old friends from the lifestyle and seeing a what I think of as a young sub and her master. It was so refreshing to see the interaction between the two for me it brought new life to old bones. Memories of my first time sprung up and a contentment to see others enjoying what once I sought and found .

The evening was great to Sir and morningstar you as always provide all with a very special night and I thank you for it. I also had the opportunity to bug a few Dommes on New years resolutions, I do love to put others on the spot. So that I can properly recover I will resting a lot this week so to ling I might not be on very often this week you have the flu and in laws to deal with so get rid of both complications and I will try to answer your emails of course does not let you off the hook for any tasks it just means that I will punish you all at the same time for misdeeds or reward you for being good.

Till then thank you all for the enjoyment.

A day

It is a day nothing more. It has a sunrise and a sunset. It has all the struggles of any other day why is this so different? We have parties because it is a new day so that we may remember the old and plan for the new. A quaint concept but we do that every day we open our eyes to greet the world it is not different it is the same. As for remembering the old I see the old in the mirror I need not a day to remember it too. If we need a reason to party the timing is poor it is in the latter months of winter where we really need to party that is when the gloom gets to most individuals.

SO it must be this thing to start a new this is the designated jump off date to go on diets and stop our vices to wipe the slate clean and to start fresh. Again I do grasp the concept of wiping the slate clean, I have put a lot of years and pain to get the slate that dirty why should I try to wash away those things that are part of me whether I like them or not. They make me what I am. Diets well if you need a date to push you to get healthy then give up now you are not committed you have not made the decision you will fail.

Now the question of the vices. One should do most things in moderation but vices hmmm a vice in moderation just does not seem right. Vices should be explored to their maximum. Vices are what most of us seek few will admit to yet all enjoy them. Just to make the rest of the world feel good we take some time to repent and we are contrite when caught doing what pleases us. So again why do we have such celebration on New Years eve just so we can repent on New years day? I would at this moment and for ironies sake say what my resolution is for this year but I have already kept it from last year and many years before. That is : I like my vices and will continue to do them till I cannot any more . Then when I lay in my bed waiting for the last dawn I will have wonderful memories to bring with me into the light. Happy New Year to all and best of luck with those vices oh I mean resolutions.