If a sub is a SAM or a brat they might have started that way because they did not know how to ask for a session or they enjoy the teasing it sets up the mood of being caught or they are not satisfied by the attentions of their Dom/Domme. It is not up to the sub to control these urges but up to the Dom/Domme to correct them and use them to heighten the session or punishment times. If in some peoples eyes a sub is a brat or a SAM it might well be what the Dom/Domme wants or needs to be stimulated to action. Not all Dom/Dommes want this type of sub or the behavior some enjoy it.
Saying that a brat or a SAM does not belong or is improper in the lifestyle would be like saying there is no such thing as a SWitch and we all know that cannot be true don't we! Somethings just bother me one of them is when people qualify the norm. The "norm" is not a word I would think of using in relation to our lifestyle so really the labels should tell us which side of the paddle a person likes to be on sort of speak. Not how they should act or what rules we think they should follow to be good bdsmers.
Now the real question did I just set a rule that alter the relationships of thousands on no! Have I just done what I hate the most or am I a brat or a SAM or do I and Puck have so much in common we might be one in the same and just like to cause kaos.
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cheeky grin - can i vote for "just like to cause kaos"?? huh can i??
thanks for the positive remarks on the journey.... it would seem some read the words and not necessarily the feelings behind the words... shrug..
morningstar
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