Respect Consensual and good decisions

An interesting post from a friend. Where do we draw the line Is running naked sown a street at 2 am with the chance of meeting someone being very slim then being surprised by those people walking their dog or coming home from a party is that consensual? The party goers might have a good laugh and rover might bite your ass but there was no consent? Consent is or must be verbalized in some way the argument of they do not have to look well that does not cut it with me if I am surprised by a naked guy at 2 am I am going to watch him very carefully and not for the pleasure of it . He might just have a gun and is going to shoot the next person that does not look at him. More so if a sub goes into a vanilla situation and masturbates in front of vanilla people that is non consensual they were not asked if they wanted to see that nor did they have any idea that in a park they would see anything more than a Robin red breast. So for me totally wrong by those that did that.

However for some the idea having to do this is quite a charge, imagine if this was acceptable behavior. What a humiliation for the sub, if they were into humiliation what a rush. If they were not what a punishment or what a commitment from the sub to the master to display one self in such a fashion. There are many ways of achieving this though, taking a slave into the forest and stripping the sub then blindfold the sub all done in a secluded area or near a path way but out of plain sight would give such a rush. Arranging a group of people to meet in a wooded area without the knowledge of the sub but with their consent would certainly do it for me. Many ways to give the same rush to the sub but is it the same for a Dom/Domme? What turns the Dom/Domme on is it they feel and enjoy the shame and embarrassment of the sub or do they look for the surprise and disgust that might come from the vanillas that were surprised by the situation of the sub? If the latter is the reason then is that really a Dom/Domme?

One other way that I look at it if you take a sub into a public area strip them and bent them over and offered a belt to passer bys to give a wack to a sub how many takers would you have? At the gay pride parade probably a few but from commuters rushing to work I doubt if you would get any interest most likely sneers. In my opinion the reason would be it is just not the place for it. A Dom/Domme is entrusted with a commitment some times that means pushing limits but also making good decisions. A Dom/Domme must also show respect for other lifestyles otherwise they cannot ask respect for theirs nor in my opinion would they be able to retain the respect of the sub.