My , My we do rush around

I am sitting with a cup of tea yes I know very old fashion . It is not a mocka coca gino it is just tea. Very hot water pour over leaves of a plant. You have to wait for tea as it is not a science it is taste. The leaves are of the same weight but not every cup of tea is the same. There are recipes for tea but there is always a variation of the taste. Many of the marketed ideas on what we should drink or for that matter have or put as important in our lives. Perfection was once a matter of one's own taste now it is so dependent on what we are told is perfection or as a neighbor has just said to me you gotta get this, every one else has one.

Now as I sit here with my tea , I had a flash back to child hood. On this the seventh day of Christmas I would ask myself you would be the last. No morbid minds now, who would be the last to turn off their Christmas lights. Now if I listen to the advertisements well Christmas ended already Boxing Day was on the 22 of December as that was the day the boxing day sale started at Best Buys. My horticulture group did email, telling me I was late ordering my spring flowers.

So what happened to the rest of Christmas. The song did have 12 days in it did it not? Have we now force all that is Christmas into one or two days? Why do we rush to these periods with such Joy and fear then not allow ourselves to enjoy them. No we must prepare for the next event we must buy what they tell us to we must!!!!!!!! we should just enjoy the preparation and the event not rush through it because there is another behind that one. Imagine if a Marketer was a Dom. It would be untying the bondage knots before the ropes had chance to leave the slightest of marks that they were there. Now where is the fun in that.

Well back to my tea and the hunt for a new slave?

Murder most foul

Yes I must atone for my sins. Over the past two weeks I am responsible for the demise of five turkeys , four hams, three fish, two trays of deserts and a chocolate fountain. Unlike other years when I refrained from the feast and tried to exercise restraint I went ,pardon the expression , whole hog and ate like a pig!

Now I must atone for my sins and with out a slave to beat and whip I guess I will have to think of the dungeon for my self for a while back to walking, sit ups and rowing and tortures of that nature. SO much easier to be a sub and have some one whip your ass into shape I feel .

So if there is a turkey left standing out there well I can not think of eating another whole turkey, However I do not mind sharing a drumstick with someone as there ae two you know. After all it is Christmas and sharing is what it is all about is it not?

A Merry Christmas

Well the day is almost here again so I wish to say to you all a Merry Christmas and season greetings to you all. As yoo can see we here have donned our gay apparel.




And the belle is hung from our tree.



Every one play safe, well have fun and try to play safe and remember RED is a Christmas colour

Perfections welcome relief

I am at best a mistake in the life. We all are in my opinion. Some times we were an oops in our parents dreams . Some times we just ducked in time but we are here. When you think of sperm and egg meeting and all the possible ending from then to now we were more of an oops than sure thing. Different we all are how talk walk list . We come i so many shapes and sizes . Yes we follow a plan two eyes two legs hands and body but not all look alike.

So how can we have ideals of perfection when in our own way we are perfect. Yes I like to see naked women. Yes I like the ones that most have lifted to the pedestal of perfection female form. After seeing ten or fifteen of them it is like looking at a blank page.

I love to see and be with real women such as this on in the picture acting silly with her panties on her head, pretty but far more unique and interesting The picture is from a site and there is a link on my page you should check it out give the eyes a little rest from hard bodies and same looks . The site which uses everyday women in nudes very refreshing, well I like it .

What is the role of the Dominant

AN interesting blog from little one has spurred me on to write on my feelings and what I think the role of the Dominant is.

First the gift of servitude is a gift and should be relished and coveted like a fine wine. I give very little to the slave where as they give everything to me .

Well not quite I tend to think of myself as an instrument of pleasure for the slave rather than they are one for me. They are the ones that fly in subspace. They are the ones brought to orgasm by my fingers paddle or whip. It is mostly their fantasies or the proper use of them by me that cause the slave pleasure. The side affects are servitude , obedience and trust. I find the trust is built on well I do my job of torturing them to orgasm in of course the fashion that they have expressed.

Now this is spoken from some one who has been about to keep vanilla life separate from the lifestyle. I tend not to want to know a lot about the slaves vanilla life. I do not like to waste our time dealing with matters that concerns anything but the pleasures of the lifestyle.

Now with all that said it is very hard to keep vanilla issues out of it as they affect the lifestyle greatly so as the relation grows so does the affect of the vanilla issues.

My rules

Well they have been simplified over the years they are as follows:


Inside
you are naked at all unless I tell you to put clothes on.

you must ask permission to enter or leave any room I am in.

you ask permission to speak or question.

you must be clean and properly coiffed.

you must wear your collar at all times when in the house.

Outside

no underwear is permit

the clothing you wear must make you easily accessible to me.

you must wear your chain collar.



Simple I would say. All offenses are punishable. So simple rules a simple uniform I do not ask much do I? Of course eye contact , where you stand and how what position you have been given for what times are always in effect.

Uniforms for slaves

I had a coffee today with an old friend. Subjects came and went when she said something about how most of the time my slaves are naked. Oh that is so true . I have often thought of uniforms and have made a few drawn a few but really and truly I just like them naked.

When we go they get to wear one of their outfits that they pride themselves in . Bits of fluff or a corset. Body stockings and all have been worn but when they are home with me or at my friends , bare ass naked is the uniform sometimes with a bit of red on the bare ass just to liven up the outfit.

I truly believe that slaves should not have the right to any clothes as all of mine have found out. I enjoy both the female and male forms. I enjoy the embarrassment that they go through being naked in front of me . How vulnerable it makes them feel how easy it is to use them and being naked allows ridicule so easily.

SO when my slaves are dressed it is a reward for them. It is a hindrance for me. Removing pants or a skirt to slap an ass is just not right I prefer to grab hair and slap away. SO for me the best outfit is one they leave in the car before entering bare ass naked. Oh do be nice and keep the house with out too many drafts and at a decent temperature you want the nipples erect not blue and falling off

Punishments when and why

All Dominants punish for one reason or another. some use the idea that the slave has done something wrong to give sessions . Others store up wrongs until they have had enough and then explode into a punishment phase where every thing is scrutinized.

I list punishments and why they are given. I have a punishment stick that is only used in punishments. Punishment time is done at a specific time of the week never with a session. they are done coldly after an explanation as to why the slave is being punished. They are given time to explain their actions if they have good reason the punishment can be lessened. The are not allowed any bondage to help them during the punishment nor are they allowed to touch the punished area until it is over.

After the punishment is over they must reflect on it so corner time is allocated for it.

When do I punish.

For being late , breaking of my personal rules , rudeness , lack of proper attire, cleanliness and breaking of house rules or protocols. Mostly not for making the wrong decision but why you made the wrong decision. I never punish a slave in front of others unless they are part of my stable for offenses against me or my rules. Rudeness to my friends or offenses that are directed towards my friends are punished immediately in front of all to witness if I deem it to be right for the offense.

Why simple the slave needs to know there is consequence for actions that I do not approve of. IT is measure as to the offense and the slave knows in advance so there is no second guessing or talk on the subject. The slave must give an explanation on why that holds the key to the severity and quantify of the stroke.

An idea of it would be for lateness one stroke per 5 minutes late. I never have a limit as per quantity so if you are an hour late I promise you will not sit easily afterwards. You will think about it all week long till punishment day though.

A life lesson

First Contact
Words can have a multitude of meanings. Words need the visual also unless one is Agatha Christie and can drone on long enough that no one can mistake what she is saying. I never negotiate with a slave over the internet and any contracts made with them is done in person so that I can see the visual and hear the gasps of reaction from them .

Communication
I never use blogs to tell them anything they have not already discussed with me. More of a reporting of issues and solution at the same time rather than a probing of issues for all to see. SO if I am unhappy my slaves know al ong time before it would ever appear in a blog I demand this of my slaves in return.

SO you will read of situations , play sessions and related items and matters or questions of protocol perhaps before hand but punishments and disagreements are between my slave and my self and will be settled well before they ever appear here .

This is how I handle communications on punishment and problems between Dominant and slave. This is my rule it is not written down for all to follow in the lifestyle . All have different ideas , concepts and protocols so what others do is up to them. All that said breaking this rule with me though is rather serious. It breaks a trust and we base everything we do in this lifestyle on trust.

Next punishments when and why