Second session

This is a fun session for me as I see how much the sub has struggle to achieve what was asked of them. How close a shave whether or not they are wearing underwear did they practice their positions did they send all the emails and writings they were supposed to. When naked this time they know that they must live up to the standards set there is a nervous sweat on them as the inspection goes along of course they are punished for any infraction.

This session I dedicate to their anus exploring it with fingers and toys the more uncomfortable it is for them the more pleasure I derive from the examination. Top that off with pictures of various things held tightly in their anus such as feather dusters and carrots with the tops on , after all they must get healthy things too. The last pictures are of them holding their ass cheeks apart showing the abuse their anus has received. Then I give a play session to them again concentration is give to their sex organs and I never forget about their anus . Sent off with my house rules and more positions and tasks. After this session they are no longer allowed to wear underwear in my presence and yes if they meet me in the street by chance they better not be wearing underwear and yes I have ask for the offending items to be removed then and there.

On mountain high

I am feeling alot like an old hermit. One that sits on a mountain high and waits for those willing enough to climb the slope and ask of his experience and knowledge. They ask not for participation only for answers. Sadly I am becoming comfortable with this idea and sit comfortable waiting for the seekers.

I have suggested to ling that her journey would best be served by her new friends and have ask MM to take a more active role in her training. I know this will hurt ling as well as me for the next while. I find that now with the demands of my family and my health that I sadly cannot devote the time needed by ling to further her journey. LDs are far more draining then a face to face relation. I had to think and plan and try to find out if the desired affect was reached. Truly a shame she was so far away she was such a good submissive . In a face to face at least you know how the sub is reacting and what they are doing with out having to ask.

I am certain that MM will enjoy her service as well as ling will learn what it is to be with a Master with honour.

Now for those that might worry I am not dead yet nor do I intend leaving anytime soon I will play now and then, but long term training I will be putting on the side burner for a little while . I will sit on my mountain and rest and watch to see who will climb the slope .

Slave training for the newest of newbies

I have been asked by a newbie for my method so I thought it would be easier to share it here. This cartoon that I found sums up their initial expression but I have written out a first session below and will put up past experiences on training for those that wish them in the future.

After email exchanges and chats and conversations there comes a day the first day a most important day in a subs life. It is at this point where the subs decides. Once that decision has been made this is what happens:

AN inspection first they must strip away their clothes and assume the inspection position I use this position when ever I have been away from the sub for any length of time. Their legs must be spread bent at the waist at about a thirty five degree angle . This spreads the cheeks a little more and allows the breasts to hand a bit giving access to the nether regions head is held straight mouth open and hands just above their head as if they were just about to clasp their head but are not allowed to .

They usually must strain a bit to hold this position especially when they hear the snap of the rubber glove . I explore all areas of entry gently at first then pushing to see what they can take. I will comment at that time as to what they have to do such as shaving and personal care. I allow then to stand up. This takes about 30 minutes from time of entry to when they can first relax.
I then give them a list of easy positions to learn then I of course give them a little session making sure to concentrate on their organs I want to make sure they are excited for most of the time they are there for the first couple of times. Before they are dismissed they must masturbate infront of me ,yes if they are too shy I will stimulate them till they orgasm how ever they will be spanked for the dis-obedience. Oh course if they make the mistake of asking to use the toilet they will be allowed with me standing next to them watching. After about two hours of gentle play the session ends . They are sent to do their homework and given a date when the next session is. Never very long from the first just enough time for them to think about their feelings

Focus lost and found

Focus a word I have used many times when a slave is at hand. When needed a quick slap a tug on the ear and they resume focus. When a Dom looses focus there is no quick return no sudden gesture that will snap them back. Doms have lost subs and still remain in their funk.

What can be done ? Hot wax no we have had drips and spills as we sweetly torture a sub. Electric shock no accidents happen there too and most Doms try out what they will do to their subs on themselves to some degree. Well I can speak only for myself I have two ways. A novice snaps me out very quickly. The ones that have fantasies but no experienced. They ask a thousand questions and might have been on this planet for years yet are infants to this journey.

The other way is an experience slave. Oh yes one that lives to please and obey. One where you only have to tweak the training rather than start from scratch. I do love extremes.

October

Fall for me is a time of contemplation and routines. The month of October means morning fires to take the chill out and hopefully make it to November before putting on the furnace. Putting away the final remnants of summer putting flowers to sleep and removal of the tomato plants. It is also the time for pilgrimages. Yes the visiting of those that are related but not to me. So for a week I will travel through Ontario and Michigan giving well wishes and hugs to people that I haul out like Christmas decorations. They have some meaning but it might have been lost in the years that have pasted.

They do not hold my thoughts on life, nor my desires and most definitely not my confidence. They were the brothers and sisters of my wife not more than that . Why do I do this why not give over this time to myself or to my family. A parents wish that their family will be different that your children will be more then family they will be friends. They will not wait till Thanksgiving or Christmas to pop in to see their brothers and sisters. They will not have to wait for Hallmark to establish a new marketing tool to get us all together. Nice sentiments but not happening. Families are meant to spawn and send the offspring off to populate the world. So why is that so hard of a concept for some why do some cling to what was and try desperately to retard the process and at times like these try to bring back a time when admiration was given to your older sibling because he could tie his shoe.

Many of those sibling that had the greatest of respect then inhabit our prison system now. Control on children must be lost at some point for them to grow sometimes it hurts but pain sometimes is a good thing.

Then there is the pre-occupation with the idea that selections made must stay. The hippie you married and thought of spending the rest of you life with in a small cottage in the north now watches the shopping channel and wants to change the car because it looks old well I am old too but like the car I still sort of work.

The difference between family and friends is one you have to and the other you want to, so to appease the shopping channel surfer I off to see the relatives and have turkey or maybe to see turkies and have relatives , who knows.

Happy Thanks giving to all and sorry to the native americans and turkeys as this weekend has made quite a dent in their lives.

tasks

Such a small word for large endeavors. I do not know why tasks become so daunting for subs. A simple thing write down your experience during your position training. I do not think this to be difficult just a description of what happened and what was felt. I have checked yet no post yet . Well it is not a good re-start for a certain sub is it. Should I be upset . I would guess so but I have something new fo rmy little subbie to experience.

I think ling will not be forgetting her tasks so easily in the future.