Tuesday, May 31, 2005

Trust

While I was writing a living will I found it not to be easy. You want your wishes to be respected yet there are so many things that could happen how do you allow for all the possibilities. I watched a show call House, where a Doctor does not respect the wishes to not resuscitate and of course saves the patient and the patient can walk again. Nice that Hollywood has happy endings to questions that plague mankind when to pull the plug when is the right time to say thanks but no thanks. God fearing people have it easy some deity in a far off realm says that they must suffer until the end, these same people put their dogs down so they do not suffer the pain. Of course this being is the same god that allows children to starve to death, lends it's name to countless wars and demands tribute in the form of worship. So getting back no matter what you put down on paper or what you are never sure that it will be followed. Would it not be nice to have a law that says it must be but we would need a government that is not influence by religion or special interest groups one that creates laws for the people, hey lets get serious and talk about real life like bdsm contracts and hard limits.

How do you know that you can trust that person to do what you want or in the case of a Dom/Domme when it is all said and done do you comply with the wishes ( hard limits and contracts) or are you like the doctor and do what in your mind is best for the patient?

CLoud

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

You must always respect the others wishes. That is the whole point...isn't it?

My personal opinion is that hollywood doctors tend to overstep that imaginary line:)