Birthdays are of some importance and should by all means be set apart from the rest of the year. More so in the lifestyle than vanilla. Why? Well any time or event that can bring bare hands to a bare ass is of considerable importance do you not agree? . Yes the fun practice of birthday spanks.
To make the day special for slaves I do ot give them any sessions that day not tasks except they must be naked all day. After all occasions and dress codes and I think the birthday suit was developed for this purpose. It gives freedom of movement will bringing out the best in a slave.
Birthday spanks for should be the number of years pus one. The question of should all you attend divide the number between them or should each deliver the full amount? A side question should only the Dominants give the spanks or should all in the room including the slaves , subs and other friends be given opportunity to deliver the most desirable of gifts on a birthday by a slave , a red bum.
I personally believe that all in the room should deliver the full number times those in the room with out exception.. So each would deliver the number of years and one to cheeks of the birthday slave. I feel this way the slave will remember happy times of birthday celebrations for days to come. Or at least when they sit.
Other fun things to do that I have heard about . Mudding , yes that is what I said where the birthday slave is covered in slimy yucky things such as mud, honey , cake , what seems to be around. You then l;et them sit for a while not allowing them to touch the dirt or themselves. Usually the number of minutes is the same as the years of the birthday slave. Then the fun of watching them try to clean them selves with some useless piece of clothe or just their fingers. When the goup feels they have humiliated themselves enough with the group can help the slave clean themselves or throw them in a shower.
Now there are several other but this one is a favorite for me. Ice cream. The slave put down on a table or floor has scoops of ice cream place at the crotch arm pits along the legs. For this you have to tie them in place for as the ice cream melts the urge to giggle is just too strong and would ruin the fun for the Dominants in the room if they wiggled too much. Asian remaining in place at least minutes counting as the years but like birthday spank it could be multiplied by the number in the room. What then you say well do not Dominants have tongues!
Oh what happens to Dominants on their birthdays? Well in my case if I have a slave at the time they get to enjoy it twice in the year and if I do not well Happy Birthday Sir would be most acceptable!
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Friday, January 18, 2008
An interesting subject
On alt I found a thread about punishments. Regular punishments that happen at acertain time on a certain day for slaves. I was interested as I have always done this in the past. Fridays were the day I use for my slaves. I liked it as it started the weekend off on the right note a clean slate you could say. The slave knew that it would happen no matter what and they knew exactly what they would receive as they had to keep note when a punishment was assigned.
Yes I did punish on the spot for offenses but some I wanted them to think on. Th e preparation for the punishment was also important unlike the immediate punishment the slave would have to uncover only their ass and back as that was the area I do reserve for true punishment. I have been told it is uncomfortable to have pants around your knees and sweater and blouses bunched up underneath arms which made the punishment even more yucky for them.
They would have to read out the infraction on what day and how many were assigned, mistakes on these facts doubled the punishment. They gave their reason as to why they error and how they would correct it for the future. Then they put down their punishment book receive the punishment then pick up the book and read the next. This continued until all were taken care of then the slave would kneel in a corner and reflect on their conduct. Now I am all for slapping a slave when ever I feel like and when a error that is small in nature occurs immediate punishment is fine but recurring lateness, rudeness and poor decision making deserves them to think on just how much it will hurt on Friday before they get to have any fun.
Yes I did punish on the spot for offenses but some I wanted them to think on. Th e preparation for the punishment was also important unlike the immediate punishment the slave would have to uncover only their ass and back as that was the area I do reserve for true punishment. I have been told it is uncomfortable to have pants around your knees and sweater and blouses bunched up underneath arms which made the punishment even more yucky for them.
They would have to read out the infraction on what day and how many were assigned, mistakes on these facts doubled the punishment. They gave their reason as to why they error and how they would correct it for the future. Then they put down their punishment book receive the punishment then pick up the book and read the next. This continued until all were taken care of then the slave would kneel in a corner and reflect on their conduct. Now I am all for slapping a slave when ever I feel like and when a error that is small in nature occurs immediate punishment is fine but recurring lateness, rudeness and poor decision making deserves them to think on just how much it will hurt on Friday before they get to have any fun.
Thursday, January 17, 2008
Posting ,blogs and other wishes of subs
Well it seems s if all Doms have not been posting on a regular bases shame on us. Says it right there on page 191 on the bdsm rule book that Doms must post and or blog. Ggees sounds like the first time a women said I had to get in touch with my feminine side and when I did I got slapped for ruining one of her dresses.
My personnel feeling is that when I dom I blog in response to stimulus around me. Questions or events that have cause me to ponder then I feel I must comment on what stimulated the thought. How I would or did handle the situation. So no stimulus then no real need to blog.
How ever when I sub well I can easily turn out several blogs in a day , they may not all be good but the stimulus is there to write. While Domming I have evil thoughts and plans since I am the one doing the work in sessions I guess I am more subdued. As a sub I have evil and wicked thoughts and desires in those the idea that they could happen is wildly exciting. Another difference I guess is as a slave or sub writing is one way you can say to all the Dominants, Look at me pick me. As a Dom I feel you must be far mor reserved and not let the subs know every mminute detail about your thoughts. Should some sub really want to know me well it is easy strip and let me tie you to a cross and see what you can find out from there.
I do think that all Dominant should take notice though that the subs are uniting on this front of wanting Dominants to write more. I used to paint on my slaves and a friend likes to use a marker. I guess this type of writing is not enough. Perhaps thoughts should be given towards branding or scraping I know of this one sub that had 6 scraped onto her breasts. Now would that count as a form of blogging as it was on a blog , pondering again,my my Dominants' work is never done
My personnel feeling is that when I dom I blog in response to stimulus around me. Questions or events that have cause me to ponder then I feel I must comment on what stimulated the thought. How I would or did handle the situation. So no stimulus then no real need to blog.
How ever when I sub well I can easily turn out several blogs in a day , they may not all be good but the stimulus is there to write. While Domming I have evil thoughts and plans since I am the one doing the work in sessions I guess I am more subdued. As a sub I have evil and wicked thoughts and desires in those the idea that they could happen is wildly exciting. Another difference I guess is as a slave or sub writing is one way you can say to all the Dominants, Look at me pick me. As a Dom I feel you must be far mor reserved and not let the subs know every mminute detail about your thoughts. Should some sub really want to know me well it is easy strip and let me tie you to a cross and see what you can find out from there.
I do think that all Dominant should take notice though that the subs are uniting on this front of wanting Dominants to write more. I used to paint on my slaves and a friend likes to use a marker. I guess this type of writing is not enough. Perhaps thoughts should be given towards branding or scraping I know of this one sub that had 6 scraped onto her breasts. Now would that count as a form of blogging as it was on a blog , pondering again,my my Dominants' work is never done
Friday, January 04, 2008
Honesty who has to be honest
A blog written on alt asked what would you do as a submissive if you found out your Dom had lied or not been honest. A surprising number of responses were that they would leave the Dom. I guess the only tool or punishment a sub has is to take away what they had given to the Dom. There is no Dom punishment stick perhaps there should be I do not know Now does that mean honest with their sub or honest with themselves or both.
i believe that out of the two roles it is the Dom that at all times must be honest. I feel that subs and slaves will tend to leave things out deliberately at times. That is okay for some things not for things that affect their health. Such as the slave wants breath play but refrains from telling you they have had a crushed larynx. However not telling me that they pee when excited just gives me an opportunity to humiliate or tease and torture for the offense.
A Dom that does not tell the person, who has put their body and mind in the hands of a Dom, his true intent or feeling as to owning a slave is just looking for disaster and a soon a bad reputation. So I believe that the Dom has to be honest and upfront at all times. As for the sub being dishonest well they have an ass and I have a punishment stick no need to go further on that subject.
i believe that out of the two roles it is the Dom that at all times must be honest. I feel that subs and slaves will tend to leave things out deliberately at times. That is okay for some things not for things that affect their health. Such as the slave wants breath play but refrains from telling you they have had a crushed larynx. However not telling me that they pee when excited just gives me an opportunity to humiliate or tease and torture for the offense.
A Dom that does not tell the person, who has put their body and mind in the hands of a Dom, his true intent or feeling as to owning a slave is just looking for disaster and a soon a bad reputation. So I believe that the Dom has to be honest and upfront at all times. As for the sub being dishonest well they have an ass and I have a punishment stick no need to go further on that subject.
Thursday, January 03, 2008
Yoga
I like all of my slaves to be in shape that does not mean that you have to weight 120 pounds and stand five foot six. Just that you be healthy exercise regularly and take care of your body.
The role of slave is not for the out of shape. This position has been attained by my last two slaves . Minion and amanda. They have enjoy dildos and masturbation while holding this
position . amanda made a foolish statement that the next time she was late she would hold this position for ten strokes of the punishment stick. she was good for two which surprised me as the stick is a five foot piece of bamboo. It is delivered with the same technique as you would deliver a katana. The nice thing about it is that it always marks but the subby usually does not re-offend.
as you can see the position exposes the buttocks and legs stretched so pain is a word I think would describe a punishment delivered in this position amanda used some other term which started with Fuck and involved a horse and a duck in a very strange configuration as well as some natural body functions . any way the picture best describes it .
The role of slave is not for the out of shape. This position has been attained by my last two slaves . Minion and amanda. They have enjoy dildos and masturbation while holding this
position . amanda made a foolish statement that the next time she was late she would hold this position for ten strokes of the punishment stick. she was good for two which surprised me as the stick is a five foot piece of bamboo. It is delivered with the same technique as you would deliver a katana. The nice thing about it is that it always marks but the subby usually does not re-offend.as you can see the position exposes the buttocks and legs stretched so pain is a word I think would describe a punishment delivered in this position amanda used some other term which started with Fuck and involved a horse and a duck in a very strange configuration as well as some natural body functions . any way the picture best describes it .
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