Who is the toy

A question I have been pondering for some time now. IS the submissive or slave that is the true toy. They give pleasure they serve as required by their master. They say they are there for the pleasure of the master but I have doubts if they are the toy or not.

When first we meet we have some areas of interest taht are similar but it is the master that usually asks what the slave's fantasies are, what are the slaves hard limits we cater to those needs or desires . We push limits usually in ways that we have interpreted would cause greater flight or orgasm in the slave. We give orgasm and flight and we have them play out their fantasies by serving us . So who is the toy is the slave a toy by which we reach orgasm or is the master a toy so the slave reaches their desired level of flight .

I have always enjoy the power that I supposedly have when I dom mostly I enjoy being able to force multiple orgasm from my willing slaves. Seeing their limp bodies on the table in a cold sweat wondering if they could do with just one more is most delightful. Does that make me just another form of a vibrator or dildo.

Of course these are just some thought of mine they are not the new way to think for slaves just remember how red you ass will be and how sore your nipples and the rest of you to gain those orgasms so do not think it is just fun and games after all any dildo can hurt so calling your Master a dildo might not be a good idea you might find out just how few orgasms a dildo can give you and how much pain.

I really cannot keep up. Dominant collars, bottoms, subs, slaves and now we have a boot camp that has discussions , workshops and I guess little dollies on the tables. Hmm could be the start of an old guy rant so watch out. I have always said I do not have anything to do with bottoms or subs as I do not understand their needs. The term slave well I understand them very well . The idea of a Dominant wearing a collar because they like it as a fashion statement well I do not have a lot of respect for catwalk Dominants so understanding the reason for a collar beyond me.

Now I received an announce for a Boot camp. To me tht means an intensive training for a slave to get them up to par, so bondage , flogging , sweet tortures over a two or three day period / Or it 'could mean a training given to a slave for a certain period of time. WWwwwwwwwwwwwwHen did it become a talking affair with discussions and workshops. In my day (oh oh here it comes) a slave in boot camp only got to scream no talking, they were taken to a work shop for punishment or a fitting for a new toy not sitting around listening in a workshop that was called a workshop or a how to session. What Boot Camp has a great name to it so it is a better marketing tool so more people will spend more money on what some one else's idea of the lifestyle . How about just attend a munch and ask so of the more experienced how to there is no charge and you have an across the board selection of evil minds from which to draw from. Check out the link Sunday munch group at the side sign up and go. You can ask me anything if I do not know and that is a lot of things I do not know but I can point you in the right direction.

What is that you want to attend one of my boot camps well first bring only the clothes on your back, if you wear a collar expect to be bare ass and whipped and no amount of "I am a dominant" will stop it do not expect to talk much you will use your mouth to say yes sir, to scream or grunt and to do tongue exercises. Oh if you do not want to have to run everywhere , learn how to serve and be polite when you are in pain or stressful positions , have evil tortures forces upon you or be naked in front of others we;; a boot camp is nt for you you should attend a workshop and see if you like it first.do not show up. As for you marketers a Boot camp is for on hand learning a workshop teaches by demonstration and discussion please do not confuse issues just to sell more tickets. A work shop is a workshop not a boot camp.( old guy has gone to rest now rant over)

Sex, reward , punishment ?

First I love comments that stimulate dialog. Do not get me wrong I enjoy those that agree or like my writings. I like dialog you can learn so much more about others and your self through open dialog.

First of all the question have you ever had sex with one of your slaves? I have never had intercourse with a slave for the past 27 years. The only one that came close was minion. SO does that mean that my slaves never orgasm ? No it means they orgasm a lot as my slave. I use orgasm as a torture device so both as a reward and punishment . Through denial and forced orgasm they spend much of their time away from me achieving the tasks I assign many of those have to do with orgasm. For the denial of orgasm they usually are given the task of masturbation lets say every two hours but must stop just before orgasm. This could go on for a day or a week depending how I feel. Many methods to force orgasm wearing a thong backwards while at work another is tell a slave they must masturbate frequently during a day such as achieve five orgasms in two hours . My favorite is when I will not see them for a week they must masturbate once the first day then twice the second doubling each day or increasing by a one depends how I feel. When I do see them they are a little raw , a little sore to my touch rendering them quite docile when I approach the subject of orgasm with them.

When I am with them I like to see how many orgasms I can inflict upon them but again without intercourse. Whips , paddles floggers vibrators brushes their own hands or others but no penis .

I can go further to describe my session and would be happy to but I think the question about sex as a reward I have to say yes as A punishment I have to say yes just not with my penis. I find that in a state of orgasm for my self I loose control and I do not feel that is right for any Dominant to loose control how can they be responsible for the out comings of the session or time with a slave if you are blowing your load especially if a person was in bondage and suspended with out some one else around.

Now as far as boring being with me well a witness, littleone did my slaves complain to you that they were bored or that I did not give them more time? ONe last thing I will say that before a slave enters into any form of play with me they are told the ground rules one being no intercourse with me so no one is miss lead they know exactly what they sign up for.

Now I love to talk on my sessions or my views on slaves and their treatment but I leave that for another blog . So a question to those that commented if intercourse was taken out of your relationships and replaced with only orgasm would you still enjoy your submissive lives? Another would be and forgive me for the graphic nature of the word, Is getting "fucked" an integral part of being a slave ?

Fickled mind of a sub

My how subs are . I was sent photos of a friends session. naked and suspended. A lovely sight. Now in this position there is not much you can hide from the view of others . How more exposed can you be, I thought. She said she had sex in that position and it was wonderful. so obvious question for me anyway why was she so rewarded what good deed did she do to warranted such pleasure. The answer I got was it was private. Hmm how private can a sub be after total exposure is the reason far more coveted than the act