Timing

A blog that little one wrote about role playing and what is real and what is role play and the article yo will find at the end gave rise to this blog. A very good piece by the way but overshadowed by the article who's link I have included.

A man who search for his piece of this lifestyle has met his end in a accident during a bondage scene. First I would like to say that no matter how much a slave begs to be tied up and left I will not too many things can go wrong as in the song by meatloaf I won't do that. My dual sides both love more extreme play and yes I have wander off in the night to an unknown house and played and probably will again in the future. I am also one to say as a slave tell me how nasty you are going to be not how safe you are.

There is a certain amount of safety expected I do not want to think about safety as for me it takes away from the excitement of it. All degrees of the lifestyle are at times not safe whether it is role playing or bondage there are elements in all that can cause bodily injury as well as Mental injury.

Role playing I feel is a bases for the lifestyle . It is how we are start through our fantasies and the wish to bring them to reality. As little one pointed out not always fun to do as she mentions her attempt to mimick a scene in the movie Secretary.

Now this man went to clubs a lot most probably had played with the Dominatrix before his role play to have all the elements of his fantasy included being left alone. An extreme that probably most of us have not reached in our sessions . His role play was far more serious and real then our most painful whippings. Sadly our fantasies have the ability for us to survive past the point of no return when we dream , reality holds different laws of physics. All bodies cannot twist that way or this and every one is not just out just to enjoy the excitement, some do not think accidents can happen.

It is the unknown , the lack of control , the realization of our fantasies that drive us in this lifestyle but it is up to only two people the slave and Dominant. One must give up control and one must accept it and all the responsibilities that goes with it. That whether it is for an hour or 24/7 is very real.

The article from a listing of the New York Post on Fark.
HANGY SPANKY
KINKY CLUBGOER IS CHOKED NEAR DEATH
By RICHARD WILNER, LARRY CELONA and LUKAS I. ALPERT
S&M MISHAP: Police seize bags ID'd as leather straps from The Nutcracker Suite sex club, but they did not arrest dominatrix Taki Noriko.
S&M MISHAP:

Police seize bags ID'd as leather straps from The Nutcracker Suite sex club, but they did not arrest dominatrix Taki Noriko.
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February 9, 2008 -- A leather-loving submissive was clinging to life yesterday after a freak accident at a Midtown bondage club cut off oxygen to his brain, law-enforcement sources said.

A dominatrix at The Nutcracker Suite on East 33rd Street called 911 at about 1:30 a.m. after finding the hooded man turning blue in a dungeon room as he hung by his arms.

He was also wearing nipple clamps, a dog collar and women's high-heeled shoes, and his hands were cuffed behind his back, sources said.

The man was rushed to St. Vincent's Hospital, where he was put on a respirator, sources said. It was believed he had suffered brain damage due to lack of oxygen.

In keeping with the secretive nature of the S&M scene, the man was carrying no identification and only signed the name "Roger" in the pain palace's guest registry. But sources said he was a regular at the club.

Cops were using his MetroCard to try to track his movements and identify him.

His particular fetish was to have himself trussed up and left alone. The mistress he was working with, Taki Noriko, 30, of Williamsburg, told police that she elevated him just enough to cause discomfort but that his feet were still on the floor.

"It was an accident," Noriko told The Post.

She said that she checked on him every 20 minutes. At first, he was fine, but when she went in a second time, she found that his foot had slipped out of the shoe and was turning blue.

Police took Noriko, several other whip-toting mistresses and the club's manager in for questioning, but no charges were filed. One woman was arrested on an outstanding and unrelated warrant.

Cops removed several bags of evidence from the club, including one labeled "1 [one] black leather restraint."

While S&M activities are not illegal, the state penal code seems to leave open the possibility that those involved could be charged with assault - or even manslaughter if the man were to die - if a grand jury were to rule they acted recklessly.

The club, which is tucked away in a suite in a nondescript Midtown office building near the Empire State Building, has operated for more than a decade and is a well-known masochist mecca among devotees of the bondage scene.

The erotic emporium was once featured in a 15-minute documentary called "Paradise Bound," which screened at the Sundance Festival in 1996.

"It's a lot more common than you think. It's lawyers, doctors, athletes, everybody," co-owner Robert Fluty said in the film.

Fluty could not be reached for comment, and messages left on the club's voice mail were not returned.

On its Web site, the club lists candle-wax dripping, electrostimulation, bondage, role play and flogging among its services. Sessions cost $185 dollars an hour and are by appointment only.

Rooms are thematic and feature floor-to-ceiling mirrors, bondage beds and trusses.

One room, called The Inquisition Lair, features a leather-strap cage and a St. Andrew's Cross.

Another called "The Clinic," is described as "the ultimate for medical role play."

Additional reporting by Philip Messing, Rebecca Rosenberg and John Mazor

richard.wilner@nypost.com

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