Is there a book of rules?

I have written about this before at least about rules. There is not a book each of us have different ones. I have now been aske d if you were writing a book of rules what would you put into it?

Now that is hard as a lot of freedom must be left for the individuality of play otherwise we will be like the vanillas Oh it is Tuesday so it is dogie style tonight . So for me I think the rules would have to do with conforming on Collaring , Owner ship . what the slave provides what the Dominant provides and of course release. Should there be group of lifestylers that would hear and rule on things. Do we want that much control really. We all say it would be nice to have a book of rules but deep down do we want one.

Two cases which affected me might have gone to that group of lifestylers. Ling a former slave to me was a long distance slave . I perceived she need more than an on line Dom so I gave her to a mutual friend the question would be did I have the right to?

Syrah owned me as I do switch remember. I was hospitalized not because of her by the way ,during her ownership and we drifted apart . I never ask for release nor did she give me one am I still owned by her? I do not know if that would have gone to the group or not I know in vanilla life there are laws that govern abandon property ? SO could she pay the back taxes and re-claim me?

I was under the impression that if a slave asked for release and was not grated one by their Master they could plead their case in front of two others Doms. Not every one in the lifestyle has heard of this. If they agree with the slave they could do the release but if they are not elected to this position how could this be binding on the Master should he choose not to respect it . Perhaps his honour might be hurt that is about it.

Last of just a few complications that I have thought of as far as having a book of rules, punishment or compensation . A friend of mine and I were joking around about copy right that I did not have right to use pictures of me that he took. So if we brought such a case before the book what happens does he have to spend his weekends in the stocks or am offered up for a hundred photo sessions that I am not allowed to use but he is. Or should I just take the place of the women staked out and let him him stand in the bushes taking the photos and the fun ?



So having a book written by some one else that I can say I use would be great but but might not. Rules are not always interpreted in the way you think they should be. SO writing one would be a great dilemma Words would have to be so plain and direct and cover everything in the lifestyle. We think we cover everything with contracts and collaring but do we. I have never written how a slave is to leave my service I do not think . Hell come to think of it I have never really got a formal release from any that owned or collared me so does that mean I am sort of a bigamist to be sentenced at a later date when all the claims of ownership have been heard then judge who still owns me if anyone just too complicated for me I think I will just write my house rules and if I own you then I rule on whether or not you are released, when you can pee and just how often I get to slap your ass that way it is simple I say you do , simple. Now if some one says that to me, well hold on there.Where is the book where is that group of judges? Is that not covered in the book of rules ! Are you sure that is the way it was supposed to be interpreted? Naw you must not have the most recent version ! (LOL)I think I better stop here , I might have already hung around too long !!!!!!!

A vanilla trade

While looking out the window observing life in general some thing struck me . Since and early age I love to watch people working , plumbers , carpenters , road works and garbage men. Well back then they were all men so I guess to be correct I should ay garbage persons.

The persons have change from the beer bellied men that hung on to the truck even for a few feet then labored off to throw a few cans of garbage in the truck then climb on board till the next house. Now they are thin in stature , great shape , they run behind a task master of a driver , who must be a dominant. Before they have the chance to finish at one house the truck is edging up towards the next. A perfect scenario for a slave. All that would have to change would be that they were naked , okay they can wear shoes, gloves and a hat but that is as far as I would go , well maybe a butt plug just so that they wiggle even more. Hmm and a tail attached to the butt plug to keep the flies away( a very deep laugh has overtaken me) Yes naked men and women pursuing the truck with tasks to do . Well the only improvement I could see would be to add a task master or as a friend calls the position a bossy sub . Some one to whip those following behind or perhaps just to make the tasks even more fun who knows. Oh so much fun could be had and at the end of they run they could be ties to the side of the truck with legs and arms spread wide apart for the ride back to he depot, that would cool them down after a hot day. Once there they could be left on the truck , scrubbed and hosed down or removed and washed what delicious fun of course the crews that were too slow the alpha sub would be punished at that time then the alpha sub would punish their crews I am sure that would improve productivity!

The vanilla world could benefit greatly using some of the lifestyle techniques could it not?

Open for viewing pleasure

A friend wrote her story after readings some one else's. She then in her blog encouraged others to write theirs. She has also said on numerous occasions that Dominants do not write a lot of blogs nor do they with any consistency.


For the first part , my story ah no. I do not like to be that open . I will answer questions to those that ask mainly those interested in me as a Dom but I feel at least my opinion Dominants should hold back They should not be as open as subs as they are not on the selling block. I was always shock as one of my comic book heroes, Batman was portray in the movies as some one who so easily gives up his secret identity to any piece of fluff that comes along. When I used to read Batman his secret identity was just that, secret. SO I would prefer to remain with my cape and hood on and keep some mystery at least a shred of it.

As for Dominants not writing a lot or expressing their desires or I think she said baring their souls. Well I have written over 300 blogs under Darklights banner or Cloud and another 400 under drakor. Perhaps for me I have done enough baring of things. I have always used an expression knowledge is power , being that I am a bit controlling, giving away power is not a great idea. My friends and slaves get bits and pieces enough for their needs . As those that might read my blog, well, I do not know their needs so I will wait to be asked to dole out such knowledge. What I give here is my opinion on the the lifestyle, some of my thoughts on sessions or experiences I have had with slaves, interaction with my friends and a few other things.

As for Dominants not blogging frequently , yep that is true. If we blogged everyday or at a certain time during the week would that not almost be a task. As far as I remember , and it has been a while, Dominants do no have tasks. As for when will I write next? When I have something to say.