A disturbing image

I will expect to see a lot of blogs today about Dawson. They will picture a dark image of a young man holding a gun and news of a horrific day in the life of young people in Montreal. I am a parent of one of those young people who saw fear in the faces of children running for their lives on TV and could do nothing for them.

Luckily my son who usually goes to Dawson on Wensdays to hang out in the Sci-Club and cajole with friends, decide to work overtime yesterday and was oblivious to horror that was taking part. My worries ended at 4:30 with a call from him asking for a lift home as it was raining. I feel for those that must visit their children today in Hospital and of those that must make plans no parent ever want s to face.

I must say that for me the demands of society not it's freedom is the root cause. The norm is not having a parent at home. Parents, to survive must now both work it is not easy to keep up with a child when you are busy solving the problems of bushiness much easier to throw money at the problem buy a new game get a new computer, give too much freedom with little guidance except to reprimand. Hugs and kisses seem to end When our young males get to a certain age. Suddenly they are suppose to come of age and be able to handle all society throws at them. Without the strong base of a parent always around. Kind understanding and parents that took the time to play and see what their child is doing perhaps might not have stopped what happened but certainly the sign might have been detected. I believe sometimes that tuff love is needed equally so are hugs and time with your children, more than a new PC or the latest large TV. All humans crave affection, the warmth of a mothers hug the approval of a Fathers gaze not bits and bytes or how large the idiot box is.

I feel for his parents of the young man that cold not control his fantasies but I feel that they did not help the situation. There is no school for parents and our parents were not perfect but most of time one of them were there. The one thing I feel that all children need is time with their parents and someone to guide them to the right choices. There is a joke that has come into circles now a days I shall not repeat it here just say it is about what would be the greatest punishment for a parent is to be locked away with their teenagers for an hour. Pretty sad statement for the intellectual society that we are suppose to be. What is the disturbing image that I spoke about , teenagers with credit cards and wads of money in malls without their parents.
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Permenant marks

I was asked a while ago by a sub that if we continued along long enough would I put permenant marks on her. I would not answer her , I felt I would be pestered to do so by her at every chance she could bring it up . Was she trying to gain re-assurance that she was mine , or liked body modificatioon or did she tryuly want to show the world she was owned. I am still thinking on that .
A few months ago another asked that question but she asked me what type of marks I would use and would it be a one time thing or a graduated journey. This sub showed thought in her questions so I answered like this.

At first a collar would be provided one she would be required to wear no matter where she went never taking it off without my permission, when I saw she could do this without exception then I would move to chains. I would pierce her nipples and run a chain through the rings. again she would have to show that she would wear it at all times including anytime she had to remove her clothing in front of another. Then her vaginal lips would have rings placed i them and the chains would continue from nipples to lips.
this would be the first part of the marking and would take place over the first five years of our relation. Any regression such as showimng me she had slipped in her training would result in the removal of the last step such as removal of the rings in her lips and if the poor behavior continues she would loose the nipple rings . They would not be replace until she proved herself and yes the flesh would have to had healed before she woud be allowed to have the piercings done again.

Once this level was maintained I would progress to a tatoo first one that would be seen by most as it would be across the top of her butt cheeks so if the her top moved or her pants were low on her back it would be exposed, it woul d progress from there to parts of her back and arms.. Then a navel ring to allow the chains to be gathered.

Last would be a branding that would occur only many years into the journey when I felt she had become the ideal submissive a slave. The branding would be of a private matter shared only with close friends.

I would not say to anyone , my submissive or others that this is not what must be I would be happy to have a slave with no marks no chains no brandings as I feel a good sub/slave proves that she is owned every day she kneels at my feet and gives of herself to me because she wishes to and not because she feels she has to. I would only place these marks should the slave wish them and I would use each level as a reward to her for her achievements. Just my thoughts on the matter