Who is the toy

A question I have been pondering for some time now. IS the submissive or slave that is the true toy. They give pleasure they serve as required by their master. They say they are there for the pleasure of the master but I have doubts if they are the toy or not.

When first we meet we have some areas of interest taht are similar but it is the master that usually asks what the slave's fantasies are, what are the slaves hard limits we cater to those needs or desires . We push limits usually in ways that we have interpreted would cause greater flight or orgasm in the slave. We give orgasm and flight and we have them play out their fantasies by serving us . So who is the toy is the slave a toy by which we reach orgasm or is the master a toy so the slave reaches their desired level of flight .

I have always enjoy the power that I supposedly have when I dom mostly I enjoy being able to force multiple orgasm from my willing slaves. Seeing their limp bodies on the table in a cold sweat wondering if they could do with just one more is most delightful. Does that make me just another form of a vibrator or dildo.

Of course these are just some thought of mine they are not the new way to think for slaves just remember how red you ass will be and how sore your nipples and the rest of you to gain those orgasms so do not think it is just fun and games after all any dildo can hurt so calling your Master a dildo might not be a good idea you might find out just how few orgasms a dildo can give you and how much pain.

I really cannot keep up. Dominant collars, bottoms, subs, slaves and now we have a boot camp that has discussions , workshops and I guess little dollies on the tables. Hmm could be the start of an old guy rant so watch out. I have always said I do not have anything to do with bottoms or subs as I do not understand their needs. The term slave well I understand them very well . The idea of a Dominant wearing a collar because they like it as a fashion statement well I do not have a lot of respect for catwalk Dominants so understanding the reason for a collar beyond me.

Now I received an announce for a Boot camp. To me tht means an intensive training for a slave to get them up to par, so bondage , flogging , sweet tortures over a two or three day period / Or it 'could mean a training given to a slave for a certain period of time. WWwwwwwwwwwwwwHen did it become a talking affair with discussions and workshops. In my day (oh oh here it comes) a slave in boot camp only got to scream no talking, they were taken to a work shop for punishment or a fitting for a new toy not sitting around listening in a workshop that was called a workshop or a how to session. What Boot Camp has a great name to it so it is a better marketing tool so more people will spend more money on what some one else's idea of the lifestyle . How about just attend a munch and ask so of the more experienced how to there is no charge and you have an across the board selection of evil minds from which to draw from. Check out the link Sunday munch group at the side sign up and go. You can ask me anything if I do not know and that is a lot of things I do not know but I can point you in the right direction.

What is that you want to attend one of my boot camps well first bring only the clothes on your back, if you wear a collar expect to be bare ass and whipped and no amount of "I am a dominant" will stop it do not expect to talk much you will use your mouth to say yes sir, to scream or grunt and to do tongue exercises. Oh if you do not want to have to run everywhere , learn how to serve and be polite when you are in pain or stressful positions , have evil tortures forces upon you or be naked in front of others we;; a boot camp is nt for you you should attend a workshop and see if you like it first.do not show up. As for you marketers a Boot camp is for on hand learning a workshop teaches by demonstration and discussion please do not confuse issues just to sell more tickets. A work shop is a workshop not a boot camp.( old guy has gone to rest now rant over)

Sex, reward , punishment ?

First I love comments that stimulate dialog. Do not get me wrong I enjoy those that agree or like my writings. I like dialog you can learn so much more about others and your self through open dialog.

First of all the question have you ever had sex with one of your slaves? I have never had intercourse with a slave for the past 27 years. The only one that came close was minion. SO does that mean that my slaves never orgasm ? No it means they orgasm a lot as my slave. I use orgasm as a torture device so both as a reward and punishment . Through denial and forced orgasm they spend much of their time away from me achieving the tasks I assign many of those have to do with orgasm. For the denial of orgasm they usually are given the task of masturbation lets say every two hours but must stop just before orgasm. This could go on for a day or a week depending how I feel. Many methods to force orgasm wearing a thong backwards while at work another is tell a slave they must masturbate frequently during a day such as achieve five orgasms in two hours . My favorite is when I will not see them for a week they must masturbate once the first day then twice the second doubling each day or increasing by a one depends how I feel. When I do see them they are a little raw , a little sore to my touch rendering them quite docile when I approach the subject of orgasm with them.

When I am with them I like to see how many orgasms I can inflict upon them but again without intercourse. Whips , paddles floggers vibrators brushes their own hands or others but no penis .

I can go further to describe my session and would be happy to but I think the question about sex as a reward I have to say yes as A punishment I have to say yes just not with my penis. I find that in a state of orgasm for my self I loose control and I do not feel that is right for any Dominant to loose control how can they be responsible for the out comings of the session or time with a slave if you are blowing your load especially if a person was in bondage and suspended with out some one else around.

Now as far as boring being with me well a witness, littleone did my slaves complain to you that they were bored or that I did not give them more time? ONe last thing I will say that before a slave enters into any form of play with me they are told the ground rules one being no intercourse with me so no one is miss lead they know exactly what they sign up for.

Now I love to talk on my sessions or my views on slaves and their treatment but I leave that for another blog . So a question to those that commented if intercourse was taken out of your relationships and replaced with only orgasm would you still enjoy your submissive lives? Another would be and forgive me for the graphic nature of the word, Is getting "fucked" an integral part of being a slave ?

Fickled mind of a sub

My how subs are . I was sent photos of a friends session. naked and suspended. A lovely sight. Now in this position there is not much you can hide from the view of others . How more exposed can you be, I thought. She said she had sex in that position and it was wonderful. so obvious question for me anyway why was she so rewarded what good deed did she do to warranted such pleasure. The answer I got was it was private. Hmm how private can a sub be after total exposure is the reason far more coveted than the act

Is there a book of rules?

I have written about this before at least about rules. There is not a book each of us have different ones. I have now been aske d if you were writing a book of rules what would you put into it?

Now that is hard as a lot of freedom must be left for the individuality of play otherwise we will be like the vanillas Oh it is Tuesday so it is dogie style tonight . So for me I think the rules would have to do with conforming on Collaring , Owner ship . what the slave provides what the Dominant provides and of course release. Should there be group of lifestylers that would hear and rule on things. Do we want that much control really. We all say it would be nice to have a book of rules but deep down do we want one.

Two cases which affected me might have gone to that group of lifestylers. Ling a former slave to me was a long distance slave . I perceived she need more than an on line Dom so I gave her to a mutual friend the question would be did I have the right to?

Syrah owned me as I do switch remember. I was hospitalized not because of her by the way ,during her ownership and we drifted apart . I never ask for release nor did she give me one am I still owned by her? I do not know if that would have gone to the group or not I know in vanilla life there are laws that govern abandon property ? SO could she pay the back taxes and re-claim me?

I was under the impression that if a slave asked for release and was not grated one by their Master they could plead their case in front of two others Doms. Not every one in the lifestyle has heard of this. If they agree with the slave they could do the release but if they are not elected to this position how could this be binding on the Master should he choose not to respect it . Perhaps his honour might be hurt that is about it.

Last of just a few complications that I have thought of as far as having a book of rules, punishment or compensation . A friend of mine and I were joking around about copy right that I did not have right to use pictures of me that he took. So if we brought such a case before the book what happens does he have to spend his weekends in the stocks or am offered up for a hundred photo sessions that I am not allowed to use but he is. Or should I just take the place of the women staked out and let him him stand in the bushes taking the photos and the fun ?



So having a book written by some one else that I can say I use would be great but but might not. Rules are not always interpreted in the way you think they should be. SO writing one would be a great dilemma Words would have to be so plain and direct and cover everything in the lifestyle. We think we cover everything with contracts and collaring but do we. I have never written how a slave is to leave my service I do not think . Hell come to think of it I have never really got a formal release from any that owned or collared me so does that mean I am sort of a bigamist to be sentenced at a later date when all the claims of ownership have been heard then judge who still owns me if anyone just too complicated for me I think I will just write my house rules and if I own you then I rule on whether or not you are released, when you can pee and just how often I get to slap your ass that way it is simple I say you do , simple. Now if some one says that to me, well hold on there.Where is the book where is that group of judges? Is that not covered in the book of rules ! Are you sure that is the way it was supposed to be interpreted? Naw you must not have the most recent version ! (LOL)I think I better stop here , I might have already hung around too long !!!!!!!

A vanilla trade

While looking out the window observing life in general some thing struck me . Since and early age I love to watch people working , plumbers , carpenters , road works and garbage men. Well back then they were all men so I guess to be correct I should ay garbage persons.

The persons have change from the beer bellied men that hung on to the truck even for a few feet then labored off to throw a few cans of garbage in the truck then climb on board till the next house. Now they are thin in stature , great shape , they run behind a task master of a driver , who must be a dominant. Before they have the chance to finish at one house the truck is edging up towards the next. A perfect scenario for a slave. All that would have to change would be that they were naked , okay they can wear shoes, gloves and a hat but that is as far as I would go , well maybe a butt plug just so that they wiggle even more. Hmm and a tail attached to the butt plug to keep the flies away( a very deep laugh has overtaken me) Yes naked men and women pursuing the truck with tasks to do . Well the only improvement I could see would be to add a task master or as a friend calls the position a bossy sub . Some one to whip those following behind or perhaps just to make the tasks even more fun who knows. Oh so much fun could be had and at the end of they run they could be ties to the side of the truck with legs and arms spread wide apart for the ride back to he depot, that would cool them down after a hot day. Once there they could be left on the truck , scrubbed and hosed down or removed and washed what delicious fun of course the crews that were too slow the alpha sub would be punished at that time then the alpha sub would punish their crews I am sure that would improve productivity!

The vanilla world could benefit greatly using some of the lifestyle techniques could it not?

Open for viewing pleasure

A friend wrote her story after readings some one else's. She then in her blog encouraged others to write theirs. She has also said on numerous occasions that Dominants do not write a lot of blogs nor do they with any consistency.


For the first part , my story ah no. I do not like to be that open . I will answer questions to those that ask mainly those interested in me as a Dom but I feel at least my opinion Dominants should hold back They should not be as open as subs as they are not on the selling block. I was always shock as one of my comic book heroes, Batman was portray in the movies as some one who so easily gives up his secret identity to any piece of fluff that comes along. When I used to read Batman his secret identity was just that, secret. SO I would prefer to remain with my cape and hood on and keep some mystery at least a shred of it.

As for Dominants not writing a lot or expressing their desires or I think she said baring their souls. Well I have written over 300 blogs under Darklights banner or Cloud and another 400 under drakor. Perhaps for me I have done enough baring of things. I have always used an expression knowledge is power , being that I am a bit controlling, giving away power is not a great idea. My friends and slaves get bits and pieces enough for their needs . As those that might read my blog, well, I do not know their needs so I will wait to be asked to dole out such knowledge. What I give here is my opinion on the the lifestyle, some of my thoughts on sessions or experiences I have had with slaves, interaction with my friends and a few other things.

As for Dominants not blogging frequently , yep that is true. If we blogged everyday or at a certain time during the week would that not almost be a task. As far as I remember , and it has been a while, Dominants do no have tasks. As for when will I write next? When I have something to say.

The Pet a movie

I should say a movie that should have been kept in the cage under lock and key. Unlike the Secretary , I felt it did not explore anything of value. The movie tried to be something to everyone and missed terribly . It in my opinion put the lifestyle at least the pet play aspect of it as not really sane. I will tease you with this bit. The pet after two days is asked if she wishes to continue for six months, She is told she will be kept in a cage not have access to anyone but her master and will be marked by branding after her six months she gets 50,000 dollars and supposedly goes on her way . With a branded ass of course. What is her only question does the branding hurt? Hmmm putting red hot iron to your lily white ass does it jurt hmmm let me think on that one!

How many of the slaves and subs out there would agree after a two day trial to be branded ? OH why the brand because you accept a 6 month contract by some one you just met . Yes that is a sane thing to do. Then we are presented with the idea that all owners are or know white slavers. Another sane part if you have no intention of selling this person who signed a six month contract with you why bring her to party put on by the white slavers for the purpose of showing of slaves on the auction block?

The plot did not flow , the dialog did not flow no delving into the feelings or love that could develop. The scenes were sort of nice yet never went far enough to make the film interesting in that manner. I think the scenes were put together hodge podge did not show the training The old pornos of the sixties and seventies in the porno paneled rooms had more plot , better dialog and at least action that went along with the idea of the movie title.

I was expecting to see a look inside of pet play . What I did get is that Masters are all members of organ selling slavers , slaves and subs are too stupid to know what sane is and we make anyone who is sane a slave because we have that power. I think I waited two years to see this movie I am glad for that as I did not pay for the movie and will not buy the DVD so I saved money .

NOw for the good parts of the night: I was with Mistress Lisa so we laughed at moments that were just too ridiculous especially at the sad ending. I finally met Dunter and saw the Loft. I enjoyed meeting and talking with Dunter and those that watched the movie with us . I also enjoyed the tour of the loft always fun to see and find out new ideas and thoughts.

SO thumbs up for Dunter and the loft and as for the movie well I think it should be put down , given the needle , put out to pasture and never seen again. If you do have to see it well may I suggest a poop scooper and a bag to put it all on

I love when I read profiles and they say do not contact me unless you have read my whole profile. It goes to show you how few do read the entire profile. I am a switch but I use two distinct profiles and blogs. Why? Because of the confusion the word switch cause so imagine asking the same people to read all the way down to the end and then expecting them to understand what they read just too difficult. Then there are those that write a very clear profile usually with a statement Do not contact me unless ...... So I do not only to be contacted by them. When they ask after finding out that I saw their profile why did I not contact them? Well I read you profile have you read mine or at least have you read your own you would know why I did not .

Now I am more into what i call , so no one take offense the true from of the lifestyle meaning when I Dom there is no sex yes my slaves cum they reach orgasm but no sex occurs between us. Licking my feet my ass I do not consider sexual nice, it excites but will not make me cum. They have gotten to lick or kiss my male parts but again not to the point of orgasm and certainly they are not allowed to cum while they are. So to be precise as long as my organ does not touch or enter the vaginal or ass then there is no sex, do darling if you want ruff sex next profile please.

It is clear and concise and if people would read my profile well I would probably get a lot less responses. Of course I do love having the opportunity to tell them how inept they are in their ability to read and of course I use kind words until they send me the second email. Lady Evyl has put a question on hers about her toothbrush I have not ask her but I think this might well eliminate those who read with their organ not their eyes.

This thread will be continued in Drakor's dungeon just in case you reacked the part of my profile that says I am switch.

Sweet scent of submission

While I was cleaning and repairing some of my toys i notice a difference in the smell of some of my toys. Yes there is a smell to a slave or submissive. First for me is the leather of toys used on them. The sent of the leather mixed with their sweat. The aroma of their aroused state while they a performing their service to you. Not much could be sweeter could it. then there is the wood in paddles and rods that take the scent of a slave . I always create a toy selection for personal slave and ones that I can use on any one. They are varnished and after their use on one and before the other are disinfected and cleaned. These carry not scent perhaps a lingering smell of alcohol or Javex nothing else.

The ones i make for a specific slave well they become like the slave individual in scent and colour. Each of us have body oils in our sweat so after a few times the usage will show on untreated wood . The scent of their submission is there trapped in the wood. Cleaning will remove the trace of blood it will take away most of the body salts but not the oils. The oils claim the toy for the slave. They darken Pine ,cause cedar to go a deeper red they add distinction to the toy.

So nice to have so many good memories encased in wood and leather

Human or inhuman , the perfect life

The strive for the perfect life for all is a quest by humans that seems to have come about recently. About the last two thousand years. I question it's validity in that it is a proper quest for the species. It seems to wrap itself around carry the weak of character as well as mind and body forward slowing the race of where we are headed, could be oblivion but most species are headed there . The definition of what is human and inhuman has for some reason been reversed and our true nature hidden by writers of fiction ..

when we left the trees it was not through negotiation with other species as to what we could have it was through cunning , sheer brute and at time overwhelming force. The offering up of those humans that were weak to the other carnivores was a natural thing as all species did so. We encourage the line to made of strength not of weakness and sickness. Our quest for perfect lives has meant the destruction of other species , the remaking of our habitat. We have used violence to gain what we wanted and violence is more of our nature then the quiet poems of peace and tranquility. Birth is violent , making love is in itself violent if anything death is the most peaceful thing that we experience not the act of dying but the state of it.

As for definitions through our our history we have torture, maimed raped and stolen went home with our prizes and laughed at the is fortune of our victims. We have bulled those that were weaker into giving us their food their money their daughters and their sons to continue our wars. Yet we use the definition human when we reach down to a child and offer it bread or spare it from some in human horror. We sit back and watch some group of people destroying another and recoil saying Where is the humanity why does not anyone stop this.

So for the Science fiction writers or poets wish to describe a perfect world or kind actions do not use the word human . Those that wish to describe some fantasy world of being good to one another without the threat of force or violence please say how inhuman you are or describe a sloths world to your readers.. That you wish to change man so quickly, the blood has not yet dried in our teeth and you wish to claim us vegetarian. You do not have to accept who we are or how we got here ,just use the terminology correctly for at least a few thousand years that will make me happy and you might want to make me happy since I do not mind using violence or force to get what I want and torture just brings a sweet smile to my face. Yes in the future i might be branded as a Neanderthal but with out those like human thoughts and more the will to break the barriers and fight and kill where would the human race be. Ask the mammoth the next time you see one?

They who think they must be obeyed

I have just finished reading a rant by a pro Domme. I am sadden to read it I had some respect for her . She rant on about her subs the ones that are paying her for her service how disloyal they are and she has to answer phones calls for information and then they do not book with her. Then she tried to put her self on high as other in the business were just off from the street hookers that they did not have proper training inferring that some how she was special.

So a little note to her if subs are calling and you are not getting bookings perhaps our answers lack what the sub needs to hear. If you live the lifestyle unlike the others then how many personal slaves do you have and have you had I have never seen you with any? You are providing a service but if subs are going else where perhaps the service is not up to their needs. As for the supposed massage parlors and hookers that offer Domination, they have a their customers .

The only statement is that Pro-Dommes should be trained. Most Good Pro Dommes that I know were subs before they were Dommes. They understand what it is to desire to serve and those that did not had slaves before turning pro. Word of advice for subs not every Pro Domme is a pro nor are they every subs dream of a Domme. Ask a lot of question before. as for that pro domme well I think a course in marketing 101 might be a good idea for you and remember the last person claiming to be a god was nailed to a cross.

Just bugs me when people with some power because of title talk out of the wrong end .

end of rant

Timing

A blog that little one wrote about role playing and what is real and what is role play and the article yo will find at the end gave rise to this blog. A very good piece by the way but overshadowed by the article who's link I have included.

A man who search for his piece of this lifestyle has met his end in a accident during a bondage scene. First I would like to say that no matter how much a slave begs to be tied up and left I will not too many things can go wrong as in the song by meatloaf I won't do that. My dual sides both love more extreme play and yes I have wander off in the night to an unknown house and played and probably will again in the future. I am also one to say as a slave tell me how nasty you are going to be not how safe you are.

There is a certain amount of safety expected I do not want to think about safety as for me it takes away from the excitement of it. All degrees of the lifestyle are at times not safe whether it is role playing or bondage there are elements in all that can cause bodily injury as well as Mental injury.

Role playing I feel is a bases for the lifestyle . It is how we are start through our fantasies and the wish to bring them to reality. As little one pointed out not always fun to do as she mentions her attempt to mimick a scene in the movie Secretary.

Now this man went to clubs a lot most probably had played with the Dominatrix before his role play to have all the elements of his fantasy included being left alone. An extreme that probably most of us have not reached in our sessions . His role play was far more serious and real then our most painful whippings. Sadly our fantasies have the ability for us to survive past the point of no return when we dream , reality holds different laws of physics. All bodies cannot twist that way or this and every one is not just out just to enjoy the excitement, some do not think accidents can happen.

It is the unknown , the lack of control , the realization of our fantasies that drive us in this lifestyle but it is up to only two people the slave and Dominant. One must give up control and one must accept it and all the responsibilities that goes with it. That whether it is for an hour or 24/7 is very real.

The article from a listing of the New York Post on Fark.
HANGY SPANKY
KINKY CLUBGOER IS CHOKED NEAR DEATH
By RICHARD WILNER, LARRY CELONA and LUKAS I. ALPERT
S&M MISHAP: Police seize bags ID'd as leather straps from The Nutcracker Suite sex club, but they did not arrest dominatrix Taki Noriko.
S&M MISHAP:

Police seize bags ID'd as leather straps from The Nutcracker Suite sex club, but they did not arrest dominatrix Taki Noriko.
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February 9, 2008 -- A leather-loving submissive was clinging to life yesterday after a freak accident at a Midtown bondage club cut off oxygen to his brain, law-enforcement sources said.

A dominatrix at The Nutcracker Suite on East 33rd Street called 911 at about 1:30 a.m. after finding the hooded man turning blue in a dungeon room as he hung by his arms.

He was also wearing nipple clamps, a dog collar and women's high-heeled shoes, and his hands were cuffed behind his back, sources said.

The man was rushed to St. Vincent's Hospital, where he was put on a respirator, sources said. It was believed he had suffered brain damage due to lack of oxygen.

In keeping with the secretive nature of the S&M scene, the man was carrying no identification and only signed the name "Roger" in the pain palace's guest registry. But sources said he was a regular at the club.

Cops were using his MetroCard to try to track his movements and identify him.

His particular fetish was to have himself trussed up and left alone. The mistress he was working with, Taki Noriko, 30, of Williamsburg, told police that she elevated him just enough to cause discomfort but that his feet were still on the floor.

"It was an accident," Noriko told The Post.

She said that she checked on him every 20 minutes. At first, he was fine, but when she went in a second time, she found that his foot had slipped out of the shoe and was turning blue.

Police took Noriko, several other whip-toting mistresses and the club's manager in for questioning, but no charges were filed. One woman was arrested on an outstanding and unrelated warrant.

Cops removed several bags of evidence from the club, including one labeled "1 [one] black leather restraint."

While S&M activities are not illegal, the state penal code seems to leave open the possibility that those involved could be charged with assault - or even manslaughter if the man were to die - if a grand jury were to rule they acted recklessly.

The club, which is tucked away in a suite in a nondescript Midtown office building near the Empire State Building, has operated for more than a decade and is a well-known masochist mecca among devotees of the bondage scene.

The erotic emporium was once featured in a 15-minute documentary called "Paradise Bound," which screened at the Sundance Festival in 1996.

"It's a lot more common than you think. It's lawyers, doctors, athletes, everybody," co-owner Robert Fluty said in the film.

Fluty could not be reached for comment, and messages left on the club's voice mail were not returned.

On its Web site, the club lists candle-wax dripping, electrostimulation, bondage, role play and flogging among its services. Sessions cost $185 dollars an hour and are by appointment only.

Rooms are thematic and feature floor-to-ceiling mirrors, bondage beds and trusses.

One room, called The Inquisition Lair, features a leather-strap cage and a St. Andrew's Cross.

Another called "The Clinic," is described as "the ultimate for medical role play."

Additional reporting by Philip Messing, Rebecca Rosenberg and John Mazor

richard.wilner@nypost.com

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Gods

There was an episode of Star Trek the original series that found the God Apollo. they had to destroy the god to get away for his wish to worshiped. He was not really a God all he had was greater technological abilities . SO when he came to earth he had looked like a god. So the Humans lifted him on to a pedestal and bestow upon him worship. Was it wrong for the humans to have done that?

No not if Apollo had provided something more to the humans then showing he was more advanced. He did not draw the sun behind his chariot every day we know the sun did that all by itself. I had a chat with a former slave the other day and she mentioned a phrase ( I know what you are thinking) Well no Dom does , they might now how some one reacted to similar situations, they might know what they like or not they might see that the slave is pensive after an occurrence and perceive that the slave is thinking about that but they are not Gods. We like good trainers watch for signs and react to them .Sir Stephen in the story of (O) in one of the endings tell O to go and kill herself. Well Gods can kill but so can man. No for me a God must be able to destroy and re-create that what was destroyed that would be Godlike it is the only thing I would put on a pedestal .

I was told recently that I had been on a pedestal. If I am to anyone out there please take me down. My slaves fall in love with me because I give them exactly what they want, the strictness, the constant attention , the punnishments the control , most of all I force out of them what they want but what they themselves cannot admit to. That is not a God it is a human, some have said I am perfect as a Dom no that is not true, I choose the slaves that like what I like and they choose me for the same reasons. I have said this before I do things my way they are right for me if you like them then please do as I do but do not come to me complaining they do not work for you. I am one voice expressing my view my way of doing thing.

I am CLoud not a god. If you want a God go find religion

Birthdays and fun things.

Birthdays are of some importance and should by all means be set apart from the rest of the year. More so in the lifestyle than vanilla. Why? Well any time or event that can bring bare hands to a bare ass is of considerable importance do you not agree? . Yes the fun practice of birthday spanks.

To make the day special for slaves I do ot give them any sessions that day not tasks except they must be naked all day. After all occasions and dress codes and I think the birthday suit was developed for this purpose. It gives freedom of movement will bringing out the best in a slave.

Birthday spanks for should be the number of years pus one. The question of should all you attend divide the number between them or should each deliver the full amount? A side question should only the Dominants give the spanks or should all in the room including the slaves , subs and other friends be given opportunity to deliver the most desirable of gifts on a birthday by a slave , a red bum.

I personally believe that all in the room should deliver the full number times those in the room with out exception.. So each would deliver the number of years and one to cheeks of the birthday slave. I feel this way the slave will remember happy times of birthday celebrations for days to come. Or at least when they sit.

Other fun things to do that I have heard about . Mudding , yes that is what I said where the birthday slave is covered in slimy yucky things such as mud, honey , cake , what seems to be around. You then l;et them sit for a while not allowing them to touch the dirt or themselves. Usually the number of minutes is the same as the years of the birthday slave. Then the fun of watching them try to clean them selves with some useless piece of clothe or just their fingers. When the goup feels they have humiliated themselves enough with the group can help the slave clean themselves or throw them in a shower.

Now there are several other but this one is a favorite for me. Ice cream. The slave put down on a table or floor has scoops of ice cream place at the crotch arm pits along the legs. For this you have to tie them in place for as the ice cream melts the urge to giggle is just too strong and would ruin the fun for the Dominants in the room if they wiggled too much. Asian remaining in place at least minutes counting as the years but like birthday spank it could be multiplied by the number in the room. What then you say well do not Dominants have tongues!

Oh what happens to Dominants on their birthdays? Well in my case if I have a slave at the time they get to enjoy it twice in the year and if I do not well Happy Birthday Sir would be most acceptable!

An interesting subject

On alt I found a thread about punishments. Regular punishments that happen at acertain time on a certain day for slaves. I was interested as I have always done this in the past. Fridays were the day I use for my slaves. I liked it as it started the weekend off on the right note a clean slate you could say. The slave knew that it would happen no matter what and they knew exactly what they would receive as they had to keep note when a punishment was assigned.

Yes I did punish on the spot for offenses but some I wanted them to think on. Th e preparation for the punishment was also important unlike the immediate punishment the slave would have to uncover only their ass and back as that was the area I do reserve for true punishment. I have been told it is uncomfortable to have pants around your knees and sweater and blouses bunched up underneath arms which made the punishment even more yucky for them.

They would have to read out the infraction on what day and how many were assigned, mistakes on these facts doubled the punishment. They gave their reason as to why they error and how they would correct it for the future. Then they put down their punishment book receive the punishment then pick up the book and read the next. This continued until all were taken care of then the slave would kneel in a corner and reflect on their conduct. Now I am all for slapping a slave when ever I feel like and when a error that is small in nature occurs immediate punishment is fine but recurring lateness, rudeness and poor decision making deserves them to think on just how much it will hurt on Friday before they get to have any fun.

Posting ,blogs and other wishes of subs

Well it seems s if all Doms have not been posting on a regular bases shame on us. Says it right there on page 191 on the bdsm rule book that Doms must post and or blog. Ggees sounds like the first time a women said I had to get in touch with my feminine side and when I did I got slapped for ruining one of her dresses.

My personnel feeling is that when I dom I blog in response to stimulus around me. Questions or events that have cause me to ponder then I feel I must comment on what stimulated the thought. How I would or did handle the situation. So no stimulus then no real need to blog.

How ever when I sub well I can easily turn out several blogs in a day , they may not all be good but the stimulus is there to write. While Domming I have evil thoughts and plans since I am the one doing the work in sessions I guess I am more subdued. As a sub I have evil and wicked thoughts and desires in those the idea that they could happen is wildly exciting. Another difference I guess is as a slave or sub writing is one way you can say to all the Dominants, Look at me pick me. As a Dom I feel you must be far mor reserved and not let the subs know every mminute detail about your thoughts. Should some sub really want to know me well it is easy strip and let me tie you to a cross and see what you can find out from there.

I do think that all Dominant should take notice though that the subs are uniting on this front of wanting Dominants to write more. I used to paint on my slaves and a friend likes to use a marker. I guess this type of writing is not enough. Perhaps thoughts should be given towards branding or scraping I know of this one sub that had 6 scraped onto her breasts. Now would that count as a form of blogging as it was on a blog , pondering again,my my Dominants' work is never done

Honesty who has to be honest

A blog written on alt asked what would you do as a submissive if you found out your Dom had lied or not been honest. A surprising number of responses were that they would leave the Dom. I guess the only tool or punishment a sub has is to take away what they had given to the Dom. There is no Dom punishment stick perhaps there should be I do not know Now does that mean honest with their sub or honest with themselves or both.
i believe that out of the two roles it is the Dom that at all times must be honest. I feel that subs and slaves will tend to leave things out deliberately at times. That is okay for some things not for things that affect their health. Such as the slave wants breath play but refrains from telling you they have had a crushed larynx. However not telling me that they pee when excited just gives me an opportunity to humiliate or tease and torture for the offense.

A Dom that does not tell the person, who has put their body and mind in the hands of a Dom, his true intent or feeling as to owning a slave is just looking for disaster and a soon a bad reputation. So I believe that the Dom has to be honest and upfront at all times. As for the sub being dishonest well they have an ass and I have a punishment stick no need to go further on that subject.

Yoga

I like all of my slaves to be in shape that does not mean that you have to weight 120 pounds and stand five foot six. Just that you be healthy exercise regularly and take care of your body.

The role of slave is not for the out of shape. This position has been attained by my last two slaves . Minion and amanda. They have enjoy dildos and masturbation while holding this position . amanda made a foolish statement that the next time she was late she would hold this position for ten strokes of the punishment stick. she was good for two which surprised me as the stick is a five foot piece of bamboo. It is delivered with the same technique as you would deliver a katana. The nice thing about it is that it always marks but the subby usually does not re-offend.

as you can see the position exposes the buttocks and legs stretched so pain is a word I think would describe a punishment delivered in this position amanda used some other term which started with Fuck and involved a horse and a duck in a very strange configuration as well as some natural body functions . any way the picture best describes it .

My , My we do rush around

I am sitting with a cup of tea yes I know very old fashion . It is not a mocka coca gino it is just tea. Very hot water pour over leaves of a plant. You have to wait for tea as it is not a science it is taste. The leaves are of the same weight but not every cup of tea is the same. There are recipes for tea but there is always a variation of the taste. Many of the marketed ideas on what we should drink or for that matter have or put as important in our lives. Perfection was once a matter of one's own taste now it is so dependent on what we are told is perfection or as a neighbor has just said to me you gotta get this, every one else has one.

Now as I sit here with my tea , I had a flash back to child hood. On this the seventh day of Christmas I would ask myself you would be the last. No morbid minds now, who would be the last to turn off their Christmas lights. Now if I listen to the advertisements well Christmas ended already Boxing Day was on the 22 of December as that was the day the boxing day sale started at Best Buys. My horticulture group did email, telling me I was late ordering my spring flowers.

So what happened to the rest of Christmas. The song did have 12 days in it did it not? Have we now force all that is Christmas into one or two days? Why do we rush to these periods with such Joy and fear then not allow ourselves to enjoy them. No we must prepare for the next event we must buy what they tell us to we must!!!!!!!! we should just enjoy the preparation and the event not rush through it because there is another behind that one. Imagine if a Marketer was a Dom. It would be untying the bondage knots before the ropes had chance to leave the slightest of marks that they were there. Now where is the fun in that.

Well back to my tea and the hunt for a new slave?