While I was cleaning and repairing some of my toys i notice a difference in the smell of some of my toys. Yes there is a smell to a slave or submissive. First for me is the leather of toys used on them. The sent of the leather mixed with their sweat. The aroma of their aroused state while they a performing their service to you. Not much could be sweeter could it. then there is the wood in paddles and rods that take the scent of a slave . I always create a toy selection for personal slave and ones that I can use on any one. They are varnished and after their use on one and before the other are disinfected and cleaned. These carry not scent perhaps a lingering smell of alcohol or Javex nothing else.
The ones i make for a specific slave well they become like the slave individual in scent and colour. Each of us have body oils in our sweat so after a few times the usage will show on untreated wood . The scent of their submission is there trapped in the wood. Cleaning will remove the trace of blood it will take away most of the body salts but not the oils. The oils claim the toy for the slave. They darken Pine ,cause cedar to go a deeper red they add distinction to the toy.
So nice to have so many good memories encased in wood and leather
Friday, March 21, 2008
Wednesday, February 27, 2008
Human or inhuman , the perfect life
The strive for the perfect life for all is a quest by humans that seems to have come about recently. About the last two thousand years. I question it's validity in that it is a proper quest for the species. It seems to wrap itself around carry the weak of character as well as mind and body forward slowing the race of where we are headed, could be oblivion but most species are headed there . The definition of what is human and inhuman has for some reason been reversed and our true nature hidden by writers of fiction ..
when we left the trees it was not through negotiation with other species as to what we could have it was through cunning , sheer brute and at time overwhelming force. The offering up of those humans that were weak to the other carnivores was a natural thing as all species did so. We encourage the line to made of strength not of weakness and sickness. Our quest for perfect lives has meant the destruction of other species , the remaking of our habitat. We have used violence to gain what we wanted and violence is more of our nature then the quiet poems of peace and tranquility. Birth is violent , making love is in itself violent if anything death is the most peaceful thing that we experience not the act of dying but the state of it.
As for definitions through our our history we have torture, maimed raped and stolen went home with our prizes and laughed at the is fortune of our victims. We have bulled those that were weaker into giving us their food their money their daughters and their sons to continue our wars. Yet we use the definition human when we reach down to a child and offer it bread or spare it from some in human horror. We sit back and watch some group of people destroying another and recoil saying Where is the humanity why does not anyone stop this.
So for the Science fiction writers or poets wish to describe a perfect world or kind actions do not use the word human . Those that wish to describe some fantasy world of being good to one another without the threat of force or violence please say how inhuman you are or describe a sloths world to your readers.. That you wish to change man so quickly, the blood has not yet dried in our teeth and you wish to claim us vegetarian. You do not have to accept who we are or how we got here ,just use the terminology correctly for at least a few thousand years that will make me happy and you might want to make me happy since I do not mind using violence or force to get what I want and torture just brings a sweet smile to my face. Yes in the future i might be branded as a Neanderthal but with out those like human thoughts and more the will to break the barriers and fight and kill where would the human race be. Ask the mammoth the next time you see one?
when we left the trees it was not through negotiation with other species as to what we could have it was through cunning , sheer brute and at time overwhelming force. The offering up of those humans that were weak to the other carnivores was a natural thing as all species did so. We encourage the line to made of strength not of weakness and sickness. Our quest for perfect lives has meant the destruction of other species , the remaking of our habitat. We have used violence to gain what we wanted and violence is more of our nature then the quiet poems of peace and tranquility. Birth is violent , making love is in itself violent if anything death is the most peaceful thing that we experience not the act of dying but the state of it.
As for definitions through our our history we have torture, maimed raped and stolen went home with our prizes and laughed at the is fortune of our victims. We have bulled those that were weaker into giving us their food their money their daughters and their sons to continue our wars. Yet we use the definition human when we reach down to a child and offer it bread or spare it from some in human horror. We sit back and watch some group of people destroying another and recoil saying Where is the humanity why does not anyone stop this.
So for the Science fiction writers or poets wish to describe a perfect world or kind actions do not use the word human . Those that wish to describe some fantasy world of being good to one another without the threat of force or violence please say how inhuman you are or describe a sloths world to your readers.. That you wish to change man so quickly, the blood has not yet dried in our teeth and you wish to claim us vegetarian. You do not have to accept who we are or how we got here ,just use the terminology correctly for at least a few thousand years that will make me happy and you might want to make me happy since I do not mind using violence or force to get what I want and torture just brings a sweet smile to my face. Yes in the future i might be branded as a Neanderthal but with out those like human thoughts and more the will to break the barriers and fight and kill where would the human race be. Ask the mammoth the next time you see one?
Friday, February 15, 2008
They who think they must be obeyed
I have just finished reading a rant by a pro Domme. I am sadden to read it I had some respect for her . She rant on about her subs the ones that are paying her for her service how disloyal they are and she has to answer phones calls for information and then they do not book with her. Then she tried to put her self on high as other in the business were just off from the street hookers that they did not have proper training inferring that some how she was special.
So a little note to her if subs are calling and you are not getting bookings perhaps our answers lack what the sub needs to hear. If you live the lifestyle unlike the others then how many personal slaves do you have and have you had I have never seen you with any? You are providing a service but if subs are going else where perhaps the service is not up to their needs. As for the supposed massage parlors and hookers that offer Domination, they have a their customers .
The only statement is that Pro-Dommes should be trained. Most Good Pro Dommes that I know were subs before they were Dommes. They understand what it is to desire to serve and those that did not had slaves before turning pro. Word of advice for subs not every Pro Domme is a pro nor are they every subs dream of a Domme. Ask a lot of question before. as for that pro domme well I think a course in marketing 101 might be a good idea for you and remember the last person claiming to be a god was nailed to a cross.
Just bugs me when people with some power because of title talk out of the wrong end .
end of rant
So a little note to her if subs are calling and you are not getting bookings perhaps our answers lack what the sub needs to hear. If you live the lifestyle unlike the others then how many personal slaves do you have and have you had I have never seen you with any? You are providing a service but if subs are going else where perhaps the service is not up to their needs. As for the supposed massage parlors and hookers that offer Domination, they have a their customers .
The only statement is that Pro-Dommes should be trained. Most Good Pro Dommes that I know were subs before they were Dommes. They understand what it is to desire to serve and those that did not had slaves before turning pro. Word of advice for subs not every Pro Domme is a pro nor are they every subs dream of a Domme. Ask a lot of question before. as for that pro domme well I think a course in marketing 101 might be a good idea for you and remember the last person claiming to be a god was nailed to a cross.
Just bugs me when people with some power because of title talk out of the wrong end .
end of rant
Monday, February 11, 2008
Timing
A blog that little one wrote about role playing and what is real and what is role play and the article yo will find at the end gave rise to this blog. A very good piece by the way but overshadowed by the article who's link I have included.
A man who search for his piece of this lifestyle has met his end in a accident during a bondage scene. First I would like to say that no matter how much a slave begs to be tied up and left I will not too many things can go wrong as in the song by meatloaf I won't do that. My dual sides both love more extreme play and yes I have wander off in the night to an unknown house and played and probably will again in the future. I am also one to say as a slave tell me how nasty you are going to be not how safe you are.
There is a certain amount of safety expected I do not want to think about safety as for me it takes away from the excitement of it. All degrees of the lifestyle are at times not safe whether it is role playing or bondage there are elements in all that can cause bodily injury as well as Mental injury.
Role playing I feel is a bases for the lifestyle . It is how we are start through our fantasies and the wish to bring them to reality. As little one pointed out not always fun to do as she mentions her attempt to mimick a scene in the movie Secretary.
Now this man went to clubs a lot most probably had played with the Dominatrix before his role play to have all the elements of his fantasy included being left alone. An extreme that probably most of us have not reached in our sessions . His role play was far more serious and real then our most painful whippings. Sadly our fantasies have the ability for us to survive past the point of no return when we dream , reality holds different laws of physics. All bodies cannot twist that way or this and every one is not just out just to enjoy the excitement, some do not think accidents can happen.
It is the unknown , the lack of control , the realization of our fantasies that drive us in this lifestyle but it is up to only two people the slave and Dominant. One must give up control and one must accept it and all the responsibilities that goes with it. That whether it is for an hour or 24/7 is very real.
The article from a listing of the New York Post on Fark.
HANGY SPANKY
KINKY CLUBGOER IS CHOKED NEAR DEATH
By RICHARD WILNER, LARRY CELONA and LUKAS I. ALPERT
S&M MISHAP: Police seize bags ID'd as leather straps from The Nutcracker Suite sex club, but they did not arrest dominatrix Taki Noriko.
S&M MISHAP:
Police seize bags ID'd as leather straps from The Nutcracker Suite sex club, but they did not arrest dominatrix Taki Noriko.
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February 9, 2008 -- A leather-loving submissive was clinging to life yesterday after a freak accident at a Midtown bondage club cut off oxygen to his brain, law-enforcement sources said.
A dominatrix at The Nutcracker Suite on East 33rd Street called 911 at about 1:30 a.m. after finding the hooded man turning blue in a dungeon room as he hung by his arms.
He was also wearing nipple clamps, a dog collar and women's high-heeled shoes, and his hands were cuffed behind his back, sources said.
The man was rushed to St. Vincent's Hospital, where he was put on a respirator, sources said. It was believed he had suffered brain damage due to lack of oxygen.
In keeping with the secretive nature of the S&M scene, the man was carrying no identification and only signed the name "Roger" in the pain palace's guest registry. But sources said he was a regular at the club.
Cops were using his MetroCard to try to track his movements and identify him.
His particular fetish was to have himself trussed up and left alone. The mistress he was working with, Taki Noriko, 30, of Williamsburg, told police that she elevated him just enough to cause discomfort but that his feet were still on the floor.
"It was an accident," Noriko told The Post.
She said that she checked on him every 20 minutes. At first, he was fine, but when she went in a second time, she found that his foot had slipped out of the shoe and was turning blue.
Police took Noriko, several other whip-toting mistresses and the club's manager in for questioning, but no charges were filed. One woman was arrested on an outstanding and unrelated warrant.
Cops removed several bags of evidence from the club, including one labeled "1 [one] black leather restraint."
While S&M activities are not illegal, the state penal code seems to leave open the possibility that those involved could be charged with assault - or even manslaughter if the man were to die - if a grand jury were to rule they acted recklessly.
The club, which is tucked away in a suite in a nondescript Midtown office building near the Empire State Building, has operated for more than a decade and is a well-known masochist mecca among devotees of the bondage scene.
The erotic emporium was once featured in a 15-minute documentary called "Paradise Bound," which screened at the Sundance Festival in 1996.
"It's a lot more common than you think. It's lawyers, doctors, athletes, everybody," co-owner Robert Fluty said in the film.
Fluty could not be reached for comment, and messages left on the club's voice mail were not returned.
On its Web site, the club lists candle-wax dripping, electrostimulation, bondage, role play and flogging among its services. Sessions cost $185 dollars an hour and are by appointment only.
Rooms are thematic and feature floor-to-ceiling mirrors, bondage beds and trusses.
One room, called The Inquisition Lair, features a leather-strap cage and a St. Andrew's Cross.
Another called "The Clinic," is described as "the ultimate for medical role play."
Additional reporting by Philip Messing, Rebecca Rosenberg and John Mazor
richard.wilner@nypost.com
News
A man who search for his piece of this lifestyle has met his end in a accident during a bondage scene. First I would like to say that no matter how much a slave begs to be tied up and left I will not too many things can go wrong as in the song by meatloaf I won't do that. My dual sides both love more extreme play and yes I have wander off in the night to an unknown house and played and probably will again in the future. I am also one to say as a slave tell me how nasty you are going to be not how safe you are.
There is a certain amount of safety expected I do not want to think about safety as for me it takes away from the excitement of it. All degrees of the lifestyle are at times not safe whether it is role playing or bondage there are elements in all that can cause bodily injury as well as Mental injury.
Role playing I feel is a bases for the lifestyle . It is how we are start through our fantasies and the wish to bring them to reality. As little one pointed out not always fun to do as she mentions her attempt to mimick a scene in the movie Secretary.
Now this man went to clubs a lot most probably had played with the Dominatrix before his role play to have all the elements of his fantasy included being left alone. An extreme that probably most of us have not reached in our sessions . His role play was far more serious and real then our most painful whippings. Sadly our fantasies have the ability for us to survive past the point of no return when we dream , reality holds different laws of physics. All bodies cannot twist that way or this and every one is not just out just to enjoy the excitement, some do not think accidents can happen.
It is the unknown , the lack of control , the realization of our fantasies that drive us in this lifestyle but it is up to only two people the slave and Dominant. One must give up control and one must accept it and all the responsibilities that goes with it. That whether it is for an hour or 24/7 is very real.
The article from a listing of the New York Post on Fark.
HANGY SPANKY
KINKY CLUBGOER IS CHOKED NEAR DEATH
By RICHARD WILNER, LARRY CELONA and LUKAS I. ALPERT
S&M MISHAP: Police seize bags ID'd as leather straps from The Nutcracker Suite sex club, but they did not arrest dominatrix Taki Noriko.
S&M MISHAP:
Police seize bags ID'd as leather straps from The Nutcracker Suite sex club, but they did not arrest dominatrix Taki Noriko.
PreviousPauseNext
PrintEmailDigg ItRedditPermalinkStory Bottom
February 9, 2008 -- A leather-loving submissive was clinging to life yesterday after a freak accident at a Midtown bondage club cut off oxygen to his brain, law-enforcement sources said.
A dominatrix at The Nutcracker Suite on East 33rd Street called 911 at about 1:30 a.m. after finding the hooded man turning blue in a dungeon room as he hung by his arms.
He was also wearing nipple clamps, a dog collar and women's high-heeled shoes, and his hands were cuffed behind his back, sources said.
The man was rushed to St. Vincent's Hospital, where he was put on a respirator, sources said. It was believed he had suffered brain damage due to lack of oxygen.
In keeping with the secretive nature of the S&M scene, the man was carrying no identification and only signed the name "Roger" in the pain palace's guest registry. But sources said he was a regular at the club.
Cops were using his MetroCard to try to track his movements and identify him.
His particular fetish was to have himself trussed up and left alone. The mistress he was working with, Taki Noriko, 30, of Williamsburg, told police that she elevated him just enough to cause discomfort but that his feet were still on the floor.
"It was an accident," Noriko told The Post.
She said that she checked on him every 20 minutes. At first, he was fine, but when she went in a second time, she found that his foot had slipped out of the shoe and was turning blue.
Police took Noriko, several other whip-toting mistresses and the club's manager in for questioning, but no charges were filed. One woman was arrested on an outstanding and unrelated warrant.
Cops removed several bags of evidence from the club, including one labeled "1 [one] black leather restraint."
While S&M activities are not illegal, the state penal code seems to leave open the possibility that those involved could be charged with assault - or even manslaughter if the man were to die - if a grand jury were to rule they acted recklessly.
The club, which is tucked away in a suite in a nondescript Midtown office building near the Empire State Building, has operated for more than a decade and is a well-known masochist mecca among devotees of the bondage scene.
The erotic emporium was once featured in a 15-minute documentary called "Paradise Bound," which screened at the Sundance Festival in 1996.
"It's a lot more common than you think. It's lawyers, doctors, athletes, everybody," co-owner Robert Fluty said in the film.
Fluty could not be reached for comment, and messages left on the club's voice mail were not returned.
On its Web site, the club lists candle-wax dripping, electrostimulation, bondage, role play and flogging among its services. Sessions cost $185 dollars an hour and are by appointment only.
Rooms are thematic and feature floor-to-ceiling mirrors, bondage beds and trusses.
One room, called The Inquisition Lair, features a leather-strap cage and a St. Andrew's Cross.
Another called "The Clinic," is described as "the ultimate for medical role play."
Additional reporting by Philip Messing, Rebecca Rosenberg and John Mazor
richard.wilner@nypost.com
News
Friday, February 01, 2008
Gods
There was an episode of Star Trek the original series that found the God Apollo. they had to destroy the god to get away for his wish to worshiped. He was not really a God all he had was greater technological abilities . SO when he came to earth he had looked like a god. So the Humans lifted him on to a pedestal and bestow upon him worship. Was it wrong for the humans to have done that?
No not if Apollo had provided something more to the humans then showing he was more advanced. He did not draw the sun behind his chariot every day we know the sun did that all by itself. I had a chat with a former slave the other day and she mentioned a phrase ( I know what you are thinking) Well no Dom does , they might now how some one reacted to similar situations, they might know what they like or not they might see that the slave is pensive after an occurrence and perceive that the slave is thinking about that but they are not Gods. We like good trainers watch for signs and react to them .Sir Stephen in the story of (O) in one of the endings tell O to go and kill herself. Well Gods can kill but so can man. No for me a God must be able to destroy and re-create that what was destroyed that would be Godlike it is the only thing I would put on a pedestal .
I was told recently that I had been on a pedestal. If I am to anyone out there please take me down. My slaves fall in love with me because I give them exactly what they want, the strictness, the constant attention , the punnishments the control , most of all I force out of them what they want but what they themselves cannot admit to. That is not a God it is a human, some have said I am perfect as a Dom no that is not true, I choose the slaves that like what I like and they choose me for the same reasons. I have said this before I do things my way they are right for me if you like them then please do as I do but do not come to me complaining they do not work for you. I am one voice expressing my view my way of doing thing.
I am CLoud not a god. If you want a God go find religion
No not if Apollo had provided something more to the humans then showing he was more advanced. He did not draw the sun behind his chariot every day we know the sun did that all by itself. I had a chat with a former slave the other day and she mentioned a phrase ( I know what you are thinking) Well no Dom does , they might now how some one reacted to similar situations, they might know what they like or not they might see that the slave is pensive after an occurrence and perceive that the slave is thinking about that but they are not Gods. We like good trainers watch for signs and react to them .Sir Stephen in the story of (O) in one of the endings tell O to go and kill herself. Well Gods can kill but so can man. No for me a God must be able to destroy and re-create that what was destroyed that would be Godlike it is the only thing I would put on a pedestal .
I was told recently that I had been on a pedestal. If I am to anyone out there please take me down. My slaves fall in love with me because I give them exactly what they want, the strictness, the constant attention , the punnishments the control , most of all I force out of them what they want but what they themselves cannot admit to. That is not a God it is a human, some have said I am perfect as a Dom no that is not true, I choose the slaves that like what I like and they choose me for the same reasons. I have said this before I do things my way they are right for me if you like them then please do as I do but do not come to me complaining they do not work for you. I am one voice expressing my view my way of doing thing.
I am CLoud not a god. If you want a God go find religion
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Birthdays and fun things.
Birthdays are of some importance and should by all means be set apart from the rest of the year. More so in the lifestyle than vanilla. Why? Well any time or event that can bring bare hands to a bare ass is of considerable importance do you not agree? . Yes the fun practice of birthday spanks.
To make the day special for slaves I do ot give them any sessions that day not tasks except they must be naked all day. After all occasions and dress codes and I think the birthday suit was developed for this purpose. It gives freedom of movement will bringing out the best in a slave.
Birthday spanks for should be the number of years pus one. The question of should all you attend divide the number between them or should each deliver the full amount? A side question should only the Dominants give the spanks or should all in the room including the slaves , subs and other friends be given opportunity to deliver the most desirable of gifts on a birthday by a slave , a red bum.
I personally believe that all in the room should deliver the full number times those in the room with out exception.. So each would deliver the number of years and one to cheeks of the birthday slave. I feel this way the slave will remember happy times of birthday celebrations for days to come. Or at least when they sit.
Other fun things to do that I have heard about . Mudding , yes that is what I said where the birthday slave is covered in slimy yucky things such as mud, honey , cake , what seems to be around. You then l;et them sit for a while not allowing them to touch the dirt or themselves. Usually the number of minutes is the same as the years of the birthday slave. Then the fun of watching them try to clean them selves with some useless piece of clothe or just their fingers. When the goup feels they have humiliated themselves enough with the group can help the slave clean themselves or throw them in a shower.
Now there are several other but this one is a favorite for me. Ice cream. The slave put down on a table or floor has scoops of ice cream place at the crotch arm pits along the legs. For this you have to tie them in place for as the ice cream melts the urge to giggle is just too strong and would ruin the fun for the Dominants in the room if they wiggled too much. Asian remaining in place at least minutes counting as the years but like birthday spank it could be multiplied by the number in the room. What then you say well do not Dominants have tongues!
Oh what happens to Dominants on their birthdays? Well in my case if I have a slave at the time they get to enjoy it twice in the year and if I do not well Happy Birthday Sir would be most acceptable!
To make the day special for slaves I do ot give them any sessions that day not tasks except they must be naked all day. After all occasions and dress codes and I think the birthday suit was developed for this purpose. It gives freedom of movement will bringing out the best in a slave.
Birthday spanks for should be the number of years pus one. The question of should all you attend divide the number between them or should each deliver the full amount? A side question should only the Dominants give the spanks or should all in the room including the slaves , subs and other friends be given opportunity to deliver the most desirable of gifts on a birthday by a slave , a red bum.
I personally believe that all in the room should deliver the full number times those in the room with out exception.. So each would deliver the number of years and one to cheeks of the birthday slave. I feel this way the slave will remember happy times of birthday celebrations for days to come. Or at least when they sit.
Other fun things to do that I have heard about . Mudding , yes that is what I said where the birthday slave is covered in slimy yucky things such as mud, honey , cake , what seems to be around. You then l;et them sit for a while not allowing them to touch the dirt or themselves. Usually the number of minutes is the same as the years of the birthday slave. Then the fun of watching them try to clean them selves with some useless piece of clothe or just their fingers. When the goup feels they have humiliated themselves enough with the group can help the slave clean themselves or throw them in a shower.
Now there are several other but this one is a favorite for me. Ice cream. The slave put down on a table or floor has scoops of ice cream place at the crotch arm pits along the legs. For this you have to tie them in place for as the ice cream melts the urge to giggle is just too strong and would ruin the fun for the Dominants in the room if they wiggled too much. Asian remaining in place at least minutes counting as the years but like birthday spank it could be multiplied by the number in the room. What then you say well do not Dominants have tongues!
Oh what happens to Dominants on their birthdays? Well in my case if I have a slave at the time they get to enjoy it twice in the year and if I do not well Happy Birthday Sir would be most acceptable!
Friday, January 18, 2008
An interesting subject
On alt I found a thread about punishments. Regular punishments that happen at acertain time on a certain day for slaves. I was interested as I have always done this in the past. Fridays were the day I use for my slaves. I liked it as it started the weekend off on the right note a clean slate you could say. The slave knew that it would happen no matter what and they knew exactly what they would receive as they had to keep note when a punishment was assigned.
Yes I did punish on the spot for offenses but some I wanted them to think on. Th e preparation for the punishment was also important unlike the immediate punishment the slave would have to uncover only their ass and back as that was the area I do reserve for true punishment. I have been told it is uncomfortable to have pants around your knees and sweater and blouses bunched up underneath arms which made the punishment even more yucky for them.
They would have to read out the infraction on what day and how many were assigned, mistakes on these facts doubled the punishment. They gave their reason as to why they error and how they would correct it for the future. Then they put down their punishment book receive the punishment then pick up the book and read the next. This continued until all were taken care of then the slave would kneel in a corner and reflect on their conduct. Now I am all for slapping a slave when ever I feel like and when a error that is small in nature occurs immediate punishment is fine but recurring lateness, rudeness and poor decision making deserves them to think on just how much it will hurt on Friday before they get to have any fun.
Yes I did punish on the spot for offenses but some I wanted them to think on. Th e preparation for the punishment was also important unlike the immediate punishment the slave would have to uncover only their ass and back as that was the area I do reserve for true punishment. I have been told it is uncomfortable to have pants around your knees and sweater and blouses bunched up underneath arms which made the punishment even more yucky for them.
They would have to read out the infraction on what day and how many were assigned, mistakes on these facts doubled the punishment. They gave their reason as to why they error and how they would correct it for the future. Then they put down their punishment book receive the punishment then pick up the book and read the next. This continued until all were taken care of then the slave would kneel in a corner and reflect on their conduct. Now I am all for slapping a slave when ever I feel like and when a error that is small in nature occurs immediate punishment is fine but recurring lateness, rudeness and poor decision making deserves them to think on just how much it will hurt on Friday before they get to have any fun.
Thursday, January 17, 2008
Posting ,blogs and other wishes of subs
Well it seems s if all Doms have not been posting on a regular bases shame on us. Says it right there on page 191 on the bdsm rule book that Doms must post and or blog. Ggees sounds like the first time a women said I had to get in touch with my feminine side and when I did I got slapped for ruining one of her dresses.
My personnel feeling is that when I dom I blog in response to stimulus around me. Questions or events that have cause me to ponder then I feel I must comment on what stimulated the thought. How I would or did handle the situation. So no stimulus then no real need to blog.
How ever when I sub well I can easily turn out several blogs in a day , they may not all be good but the stimulus is there to write. While Domming I have evil thoughts and plans since I am the one doing the work in sessions I guess I am more subdued. As a sub I have evil and wicked thoughts and desires in those the idea that they could happen is wildly exciting. Another difference I guess is as a slave or sub writing is one way you can say to all the Dominants, Look at me pick me. As a Dom I feel you must be far mor reserved and not let the subs know every mminute detail about your thoughts. Should some sub really want to know me well it is easy strip and let me tie you to a cross and see what you can find out from there.
I do think that all Dominant should take notice though that the subs are uniting on this front of wanting Dominants to write more. I used to paint on my slaves and a friend likes to use a marker. I guess this type of writing is not enough. Perhaps thoughts should be given towards branding or scraping I know of this one sub that had 6 scraped onto her breasts. Now would that count as a form of blogging as it was on a blog , pondering again,my my Dominants' work is never done
My personnel feeling is that when I dom I blog in response to stimulus around me. Questions or events that have cause me to ponder then I feel I must comment on what stimulated the thought. How I would or did handle the situation. So no stimulus then no real need to blog.
How ever when I sub well I can easily turn out several blogs in a day , they may not all be good but the stimulus is there to write. While Domming I have evil thoughts and plans since I am the one doing the work in sessions I guess I am more subdued. As a sub I have evil and wicked thoughts and desires in those the idea that they could happen is wildly exciting. Another difference I guess is as a slave or sub writing is one way you can say to all the Dominants, Look at me pick me. As a Dom I feel you must be far mor reserved and not let the subs know every mminute detail about your thoughts. Should some sub really want to know me well it is easy strip and let me tie you to a cross and see what you can find out from there.
I do think that all Dominant should take notice though that the subs are uniting on this front of wanting Dominants to write more. I used to paint on my slaves and a friend likes to use a marker. I guess this type of writing is not enough. Perhaps thoughts should be given towards branding or scraping I know of this one sub that had 6 scraped onto her breasts. Now would that count as a form of blogging as it was on a blog , pondering again,my my Dominants' work is never done
Friday, January 04, 2008
Honesty who has to be honest
A blog written on alt asked what would you do as a submissive if you found out your Dom had lied or not been honest. A surprising number of responses were that they would leave the Dom. I guess the only tool or punishment a sub has is to take away what they had given to the Dom. There is no Dom punishment stick perhaps there should be I do not know Now does that mean honest with their sub or honest with themselves or both.
i believe that out of the two roles it is the Dom that at all times must be honest. I feel that subs and slaves will tend to leave things out deliberately at times. That is okay for some things not for things that affect their health. Such as the slave wants breath play but refrains from telling you they have had a crushed larynx. However not telling me that they pee when excited just gives me an opportunity to humiliate or tease and torture for the offense.
A Dom that does not tell the person, who has put their body and mind in the hands of a Dom, his true intent or feeling as to owning a slave is just looking for disaster and a soon a bad reputation. So I believe that the Dom has to be honest and upfront at all times. As for the sub being dishonest well they have an ass and I have a punishment stick no need to go further on that subject.
i believe that out of the two roles it is the Dom that at all times must be honest. I feel that subs and slaves will tend to leave things out deliberately at times. That is okay for some things not for things that affect their health. Such as the slave wants breath play but refrains from telling you they have had a crushed larynx. However not telling me that they pee when excited just gives me an opportunity to humiliate or tease and torture for the offense.
A Dom that does not tell the person, who has put their body and mind in the hands of a Dom, his true intent or feeling as to owning a slave is just looking for disaster and a soon a bad reputation. So I believe that the Dom has to be honest and upfront at all times. As for the sub being dishonest well they have an ass and I have a punishment stick no need to go further on that subject.
Thursday, January 03, 2008
Yoga
I like all of my slaves to be in shape that does not mean that you have to weight 120 pounds and stand five foot six. Just that you be healthy exercise regularly and take care of your body.
The role of slave is not for the out of shape. This position has been attained by my last two slaves . Minion and amanda. They have enjoy dildos and masturbation while holding this
position . amanda made a foolish statement that the next time she was late she would hold this position for ten strokes of the punishment stick. she was good for two which surprised me as the stick is a five foot piece of bamboo. It is delivered with the same technique as you would deliver a katana. The nice thing about it is that it always marks but the subby usually does not re-offend.
as you can see the position exposes the buttocks and legs stretched so pain is a word I think would describe a punishment delivered in this position amanda used some other term which started with Fuck and involved a horse and a duck in a very strange configuration as well as some natural body functions . any way the picture best describes it .
The role of slave is not for the out of shape. This position has been attained by my last two slaves . Minion and amanda. They have enjoy dildos and masturbation while holding this
position . amanda made a foolish statement that the next time she was late she would hold this position for ten strokes of the punishment stick. she was good for two which surprised me as the stick is a five foot piece of bamboo. It is delivered with the same technique as you would deliver a katana. The nice thing about it is that it always marks but the subby usually does not re-offend.as you can see the position exposes the buttocks and legs stretched so pain is a word I think would describe a punishment delivered in this position amanda used some other term which started with Fuck and involved a horse and a duck in a very strange configuration as well as some natural body functions . any way the picture best describes it .
Monday, December 31, 2007
My , My we do rush around
I am sitting with a cup of tea yes I know very old fashion . It is not a mocka coca gino it is just tea. Very hot water pour over leaves of a plant. You have to wait for tea as it is not a science it is taste. The leaves are of the same weight but not every cup of tea is the same. There are recipes for tea but there is always a variation of the taste. Many of the marketed ideas on what we should drink or for that matter have or put as important in our lives. Perfection was once a matter of one's own taste now it is so dependent on what we are told is perfection or as a neighbor has just said to me you gotta get this, every one else has one.
Now as I sit here with my tea , I had a flash back to child hood. On this the seventh day of Christmas I would ask myself you would be the last. No morbid minds now, who would be the last to turn off their Christmas lights. Now if I listen to the advertisements well Christmas ended already Boxing Day was on the 22 of December as that was the day the boxing day sale started at Best Buys. My horticulture group did email, telling me I was late ordering my spring flowers.
So what happened to the rest of Christmas. The song did have 12 days in it did it not? Have we now force all that is Christmas into one or two days? Why do we rush to these periods with such Joy and fear then not allow ourselves to enjoy them. No we must prepare for the next event we must buy what they tell us to we must!!!!!!!! we should just enjoy the preparation and the event not rush through it because there is another behind that one. Imagine if a Marketer was a Dom. It would be untying the bondage knots before the ropes had chance to leave the slightest of marks that they were there. Now where is the fun in that.
Well back to my tea and the hunt for a new slave?
Now as I sit here with my tea , I had a flash back to child hood. On this the seventh day of Christmas I would ask myself you would be the last. No morbid minds now, who would be the last to turn off their Christmas lights. Now if I listen to the advertisements well Christmas ended already Boxing Day was on the 22 of December as that was the day the boxing day sale started at Best Buys. My horticulture group did email, telling me I was late ordering my spring flowers.
So what happened to the rest of Christmas. The song did have 12 days in it did it not? Have we now force all that is Christmas into one or two days? Why do we rush to these periods with such Joy and fear then not allow ourselves to enjoy them. No we must prepare for the next event we must buy what they tell us to we must!!!!!!!! we should just enjoy the preparation and the event not rush through it because there is another behind that one. Imagine if a Marketer was a Dom. It would be untying the bondage knots before the ropes had chance to leave the slightest of marks that they were there. Now where is the fun in that.
Well back to my tea and the hunt for a new slave?
Thursday, December 27, 2007
Murder most foul
Yes I must atone for my sins. Over the past two weeks I am responsible for the demise of five turkeys , four hams, three fish, two trays of deserts and a chocolate fountain. Unlike other years when I refrained from the feast and tried to exercise restraint I went ,pardon the expression , whole hog and ate like a pig!
Now I must atone for my sins and with out a slave to beat and whip I guess I will have to think of the dungeon for my self for a while back to walking, sit ups and rowing and tortures of that nature. SO much easier to be a sub and have some one whip your ass into shape I feel .
So if there is a turkey left standing out there well I can not think of eating another whole turkey, However I do not mind sharing a drumstick with someone as there ae two you know. After all it is Christmas and sharing is what it is all about is it not?
Monday, December 24, 2007
A Merry Christmas
Well the day is almost here again so I wish to say to you all a Merry Christmas and season greetings to you all. As yoo can see we here have donned our gay apparel.
And the belle is hung from our tree.
Every one play safe, well have fun and try to play safe and remember RED is a Christmas colour
And the belle is hung from our tree.
Every one play safe, well have fun and try to play safe and remember RED is a Christmas colour
Wednesday, December 19, 2007
Perfections welcome relief
I am at best a mistake in the life. We all are in my opinion. Some times we were an oops in our parents dreams . Some times we just ducked in time but we are here. When you think of sperm and egg meeting and all the possible ending from then to now we were more of an oops than sure thing. Different we all are how talk walk list . We come i so many shapes and sizes . Yes we follow a plan two eyes two legs hands and body but not all look alike.
So how can we have ideals of perfection when in our own way we are perfect. Yes I like to see naked women. Yes I like the ones that most have lifted to the pedestal of perfection female form. After seeing ten or fifteen of them it is like looking at a blank page.
I love to see and be with real women such as this on in the picture acting silly with her panties on her head, pretty but far more unique and interesting The picture is from a site and there is a link on my page you should check it out give the eyes a little rest from hard bodies and same looks . The site which uses everyday women in nudes very refreshing, well I like it .
Friday, December 14, 2007
What is the role of the Dominant
AN interesting blog from little one has spurred me on to write on my feelings and what I think the role of the Dominant is.
First the gift of servitude is a gift and should be relished and coveted like a fine wine. I give very little to the slave where as they give everything to me .
Well not quite I tend to think of myself as an instrument of pleasure for the slave rather than they are one for me. They are the ones that fly in subspace. They are the ones brought to orgasm by my fingers paddle or whip. It is mostly their fantasies or the proper use of them by me that cause the slave pleasure. The side affects are servitude , obedience and trust. I find the trust is built on well I do my job of torturing them to orgasm in of course the fashion that they have expressed.
Now this is spoken from some one who has been about to keep vanilla life separate from the lifestyle. I tend not to want to know a lot about the slaves vanilla life. I do not like to waste our time dealing with matters that concerns anything but the pleasures of the lifestyle.
Now with all that said it is very hard to keep vanilla issues out of it as they affect the lifestyle greatly so as the relation grows so does the affect of the vanilla issues.
First the gift of servitude is a gift and should be relished and coveted like a fine wine. I give very little to the slave where as they give everything to me .
Well not quite I tend to think of myself as an instrument of pleasure for the slave rather than they are one for me. They are the ones that fly in subspace. They are the ones brought to orgasm by my fingers paddle or whip. It is mostly their fantasies or the proper use of them by me that cause the slave pleasure. The side affects are servitude , obedience and trust. I find the trust is built on well I do my job of torturing them to orgasm in of course the fashion that they have expressed.
Now this is spoken from some one who has been about to keep vanilla life separate from the lifestyle. I tend not to want to know a lot about the slaves vanilla life. I do not like to waste our time dealing with matters that concerns anything but the pleasures of the lifestyle.
Now with all that said it is very hard to keep vanilla issues out of it as they affect the lifestyle greatly so as the relation grows so does the affect of the vanilla issues.
Tuesday, December 11, 2007
My rules
Well they have been simplified over the years they are as follows:
Inside
you are naked at all unless I tell you to put clothes on.
you must ask permission to enter or leave any room I am in.
you ask permission to speak or question.
you must be clean and properly coiffed.
you must wear your collar at all times when in the house.
Outside
no underwear is permit
the clothing you wear must make you easily accessible to me.
you must wear your chain collar.
Simple I would say. All offenses are punishable. So simple rules a simple uniform I do not ask much do I? Of course eye contact , where you stand and how what position you have been given for what times are always in effect.
Inside
you are naked at all unless I tell you to put clothes on.
you must ask permission to enter or leave any room I am in.
you ask permission to speak or question.
you must be clean and properly coiffed.
you must wear your collar at all times when in the house.
Outside
no underwear is permit
the clothing you wear must make you easily accessible to me.
you must wear your chain collar.
Simple I would say. All offenses are punishable. So simple rules a simple uniform I do not ask much do I? Of course eye contact , where you stand and how what position you have been given for what times are always in effect.
Monday, December 10, 2007
Uniforms for slaves
I had a coffee today with an old friend. Subjects came and went when she said something about how most of the time my slaves are naked. Oh that is so true . I have often thought of uniforms and have made a few drawn a few but really and truly I just like them naked.
When we go they get to wear one of their outfits that they pride themselves in . Bits of fluff or a corset. Body stockings and all have been worn but when they are home with me or at my friends , bare ass naked is the uniform sometimes with a bit of red on the bare ass just to liven up the outfit.
I truly believe that slaves should not have the right to any clothes as all of mine have found out. I enjoy both the female and male forms. I enjoy the embarrassment that they go through being naked in front of me . How vulnerable it makes them feel how easy it is to use them and being naked allows ridicule so easily.
SO when my slaves are dressed it is a reward for them. It is a hindrance for me. Removing pants or a skirt to slap an ass is just not right I prefer to grab hair and slap away. SO for me the best outfit is one they leave in the car before entering bare ass naked. Oh do be nice and keep the house with out too many drafts and at a decent temperature you want the nipples erect not blue and falling off
Wednesday, December 05, 2007
Punishments when and why
All Dominants punish for one reason or another. some use the idea that the slave has done something wrong to give sessions . Others store up wrongs until they have had enough and then explode into a punishment phase where every thing is scrutinized.
I list punishments and why they are given. I have a punishment stick that is only used in punishments. Punishment time is done at a specific time of the week never with a session. they are done coldly after an explanation as to why the slave is being punished. They are given time to explain their actions if they have good reason the punishment can be lessened. The are not allowed any bondage to help them during the punishment nor are they allowed to touch the punished area until it is over.
After the punishment is over they must reflect on it so corner time is allocated for it.
When do I punish.
For being late , breaking of my personal rules , rudeness , lack of proper attire, cleanliness and breaking of house rules or protocols. Mostly not for making the wrong decision but why you made the wrong decision. I never punish a slave in front of others unless they are part of my stable for offenses against me or my rules. Rudeness to my friends or offenses that are directed towards my friends are punished immediately in front of all to witness if I deem it to be right for the offense.
Why simple the slave needs to know there is consequence for actions that I do not approve of. IT is measure as to the offense and the slave knows in advance so there is no second guessing or talk on the subject. The slave must give an explanation on why that holds the key to the severity and quantify of the stroke.
An idea of it would be for lateness one stroke per 5 minutes late. I never have a limit as per quantity so if you are an hour late I promise you will not sit easily afterwards. You will think about it all week long till punishment day though.
I list punishments and why they are given. I have a punishment stick that is only used in punishments. Punishment time is done at a specific time of the week never with a session. they are done coldly after an explanation as to why the slave is being punished. They are given time to explain their actions if they have good reason the punishment can be lessened. The are not allowed any bondage to help them during the punishment nor are they allowed to touch the punished area until it is over.
After the punishment is over they must reflect on it so corner time is allocated for it.
When do I punish.
For being late , breaking of my personal rules , rudeness , lack of proper attire, cleanliness and breaking of house rules or protocols. Mostly not for making the wrong decision but why you made the wrong decision. I never punish a slave in front of others unless they are part of my stable for offenses against me or my rules. Rudeness to my friends or offenses that are directed towards my friends are punished immediately in front of all to witness if I deem it to be right for the offense.
Why simple the slave needs to know there is consequence for actions that I do not approve of. IT is measure as to the offense and the slave knows in advance so there is no second guessing or talk on the subject. The slave must give an explanation on why that holds the key to the severity and quantify of the stroke.
An idea of it would be for lateness one stroke per 5 minutes late. I never have a limit as per quantity so if you are an hour late I promise you will not sit easily afterwards. You will think about it all week long till punishment day though.
Monday, December 03, 2007
A life lesson
First Contact
Words can have a multitude of meanings. Words need the visual also unless one is Agatha Christie and can drone on long enough that no one can mistake what she is saying. I never negotiate with a slave over the internet and any contracts made with them is done in person so that I can see the visual and hear the gasps of reaction from them .
Communication
I never use blogs to tell them anything they have not already discussed with me. More of a reporting of issues and solution at the same time rather than a probing of issues for all to see. SO if I am unhappy my slaves know al ong time before it would ever appear in a blog I demand this of my slaves in return.
SO you will read of situations , play sessions and related items and matters or questions of protocol perhaps before hand but punishments and disagreements are between my slave and my self and will be settled well before they ever appear here .
This is how I handle communications on punishment and problems between Dominant and slave. This is my rule it is not written down for all to follow in the lifestyle . All have different ideas , concepts and protocols so what others do is up to them. All that said breaking this rule with me though is rather serious. It breaks a trust and we base everything we do in this lifestyle on trust.
Next punishments when and why
Words can have a multitude of meanings. Words need the visual also unless one is Agatha Christie and can drone on long enough that no one can mistake what she is saying. I never negotiate with a slave over the internet and any contracts made with them is done in person so that I can see the visual and hear the gasps of reaction from them .
Communication
I never use blogs to tell them anything they have not already discussed with me. More of a reporting of issues and solution at the same time rather than a probing of issues for all to see. SO if I am unhappy my slaves know al ong time before it would ever appear in a blog I demand this of my slaves in return.
SO you will read of situations , play sessions and related items and matters or questions of protocol perhaps before hand but punishments and disagreements are between my slave and my self and will be settled well before they ever appear here .
This is how I handle communications on punishment and problems between Dominant and slave. This is my rule it is not written down for all to follow in the lifestyle . All have different ideas , concepts and protocols so what others do is up to them. All that said breaking this rule with me though is rather serious. It breaks a trust and we base everything we do in this lifestyle on trust.
Next punishments when and why
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
Trust
It is against my nature not to trust. To accept one at their word and not to try to see what they are really like. Yes a Dominant that has the naive idea that every one is honest
I was contacted on Alt by a young women .She said in her country they do not practice bdsm She offered slavery with only one limit it being that I was the only one to use her. I ask for pictures and when she sent them back the next day the hairs stood up on my neck.Her face and two pictures of her nude. She stated she was from Ghana hmmm. I must say very cute nice body but just something was wrong . I asked her to chat and did she have a web cam I thought that way I would see if it was her. She could not .I asked for a small tasks to prove the photos were of her. Write the number 3154 on her right ass cheek and take another picture.
As I did not feel she understood what she was getting into I also explained in the email how I use women that wish to be slaves. I asked her to write to me and tell me how she thinks it would feel to be beaten by the paddle in the picture with me. I also asked her how she expected to get from Ghana to Canada.
I did not think that it was a great request to make of a future slave but she seemed to take offense. I do not know if it was for the questions , the pictures asked of her , my picture or she figured out the paddle would hurt like hell.
So who ever the girl is in the photos may I say nice body and if it was you Maud well, perhaps choose a site for another service might be better for you.
I was contacted on Alt by a young women .She said in her country they do not practice bdsm She offered slavery with only one limit it being that I was the only one to use her. I ask for pictures and when she sent them back the next day the hairs stood up on my neck.Her face and two pictures of her nude. She stated she was from Ghana hmmm. I must say very cute nice body but just something was wrong . I asked her to chat and did she have a web cam I thought that way I would see if it was her. She could not .I asked for a small tasks to prove the photos were of her. Write the number 3154 on her right ass cheek and take another picture.
As I did not feel she understood what she was getting into I also explained in the email how I use women that wish to be slaves. I asked her to write to me and tell me how she thinks it would feel to be beaten by the paddle in the picture with me. I also asked her how she expected to get from Ghana to Canada.
I did not think that it was a great request to make of a future slave but she seemed to take offense. I do not know if it was for the questions , the pictures asked of her , my picture or she figured out the paddle would hurt like hell.
So who ever the girl is in the photos may I say nice body and if it was you Maud well, perhaps choose a site for another service might be better for you.
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