A disturbing image

I will expect to see a lot of blogs today about Dawson. They will picture a dark image of a young man holding a gun and news of a horrific day in the life of young people in Montreal. I am a parent of one of those young people who saw fear in the faces of children running for their lives on TV and could do nothing for them.

Luckily my son who usually goes to Dawson on Wensdays to hang out in the Sci-Club and cajole with friends, decide to work overtime yesterday and was oblivious to horror that was taking part. My worries ended at 4:30 with a call from him asking for a lift home as it was raining. I feel for those that must visit their children today in Hospital and of those that must make plans no parent ever want s to face.

I must say that for me the demands of society not it's freedom is the root cause. The norm is not having a parent at home. Parents, to survive must now both work it is not easy to keep up with a child when you are busy solving the problems of bushiness much easier to throw money at the problem buy a new game get a new computer, give too much freedom with little guidance except to reprimand. Hugs and kisses seem to end When our young males get to a certain age. Suddenly they are suppose to come of age and be able to handle all society throws at them. Without the strong base of a parent always around. Kind understanding and parents that took the time to play and see what their child is doing perhaps might not have stopped what happened but certainly the sign might have been detected. I believe sometimes that tuff love is needed equally so are hugs and time with your children, more than a new PC or the latest large TV. All humans crave affection, the warmth of a mothers hug the approval of a Fathers gaze not bits and bytes or how large the idiot box is.

I feel for his parents of the young man that cold not control his fantasies but I feel that they did not help the situation. There is no school for parents and our parents were not perfect but most of time one of them were there. The one thing I feel that all children need is time with their parents and someone to guide them to the right choices. There is a joke that has come into circles now a days I shall not repeat it here just say it is about what would be the greatest punishment for a parent is to be locked away with their teenagers for an hour. Pretty sad statement for the intellectual society that we are suppose to be. What is the disturbing image that I spoke about , teenagers with credit cards and wads of money in malls without their parents.
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Permenant marks

I was asked a while ago by a sub that if we continued along long enough would I put permenant marks on her. I would not answer her , I felt I would be pestered to do so by her at every chance she could bring it up . Was she trying to gain re-assurance that she was mine , or liked body modificatioon or did she tryuly want to show the world she was owned. I am still thinking on that .
A few months ago another asked that question but she asked me what type of marks I would use and would it be a one time thing or a graduated journey. This sub showed thought in her questions so I answered like this.

At first a collar would be provided one she would be required to wear no matter where she went never taking it off without my permission, when I saw she could do this without exception then I would move to chains. I would pierce her nipples and run a chain through the rings. again she would have to show that she would wear it at all times including anytime she had to remove her clothing in front of another. Then her vaginal lips would have rings placed i them and the chains would continue from nipples to lips.
this would be the first part of the marking and would take place over the first five years of our relation. Any regression such as showimng me she had slipped in her training would result in the removal of the last step such as removal of the rings in her lips and if the poor behavior continues she would loose the nipple rings . They would not be replace until she proved herself and yes the flesh would have to had healed before she woud be allowed to have the piercings done again.

Once this level was maintained I would progress to a tatoo first one that would be seen by most as it would be across the top of her butt cheeks so if the her top moved or her pants were low on her back it would be exposed, it woul d progress from there to parts of her back and arms.. Then a navel ring to allow the chains to be gathered.

Last would be a branding that would occur only many years into the journey when I felt she had become the ideal submissive a slave. The branding would be of a private matter shared only with close friends.

I would not say to anyone , my submissive or others that this is not what must be I would be happy to have a slave with no marks no chains no brandings as I feel a good sub/slave proves that she is owned every day she kneels at my feet and gives of herself to me because she wishes to and not because she feels she has to. I would only place these marks should the slave wish them and I would use each level as a reward to her for her achievements. Just my thoughts on the matter

needed

It is the one feeling that will always perk me up. Someone saying I need you. As a parent I had to decipher long stories from my kids that realy meant they needed me for one thing or another,that always brought warmth to me. It inspire me to make danger rooms, volcanos and to hug. Those days have sort of gone by the wayside now I still get hey Dad can you or how do you do this but it is not the same. I am no long all knowing to them as I once was That warmth has not been felt in a while.

My health has cause a great down turn of late in what I think I can do . to a point I have become negative to change or just trying things that I once did with out thinking about. My friend have and will always be there for me but thy do not have the need of me they will continue with or with out me.

ling is on a sabatilcal again and I feel has gotten to the point where her needs are changing also . she needs a Dom that can give her the physical side of control. her training that I can do is almost complete.

About ready to clean out the toys and find them homes to place the rocking chair on the porch . Where I could sit and mindlessly rehash the past and what i had done in my life with anyone foolish enough to ask how ae you to day. Perhaps one last battle with the grim reaper sword against sicle , or my favor to slap a polar bear o the nose.

I was told yes terday I need you by a sub, not hey want have some fun, kinky sex slam bam thank who ever that masked stranger was. No a genuine I need you specificely me from a submissive that feels only I can fill her needs . Only I does she trust with her foray into the lifestyle. Damm feels good to be needed again yes I feel a lot of warmth today. It is for one session , might be two but that is not important it is I am needed that has given me energy and drive once again.

Idle hands

As many of the nuns would say to me in my youth idle hands cause minds to get into trouble. A good saying of course not exactly true I was being reprimanded for having my hands up a young woman's skirt so my hands were far from idle.

This has brought back memories of childhood and the games we played , strip poker, chase and strip of course dare.SO much fun but if I go back further what about jacks. That lovely game where you bounced a ball and tried to pick up as many pointy objects as you could. Hmmm an idea I remember reading about a game for subs such as picking up greased marbles between their cheeks and moving it to a bucket several feet away. Of course there is the marble push. On their knees hands tied behind their back and pushing a marble across a floor to specified destination but nothing with jacks.

You would think that jacks lend themselves to the lifestyle, pointy difficult to handle just sounds like a sub game to me. Like ass grab where the sub with out use of thier hands must grab as many as possible from the floor. Or perhaps a rendition of the tooth pick challenge. Now they used to be made of metal if you found those perhaps they could be heated or frozen just so that the sub does not get board. Hmmm what do you think? Oh what should we do with the ball?

First part is almost over

ling is away so she cannot blog . she is almost finished the first part of her punishment . Which was : 10 pussy smacks , masturbate with out cumming at least 3 times a day finishing off with 5 clit smacks. I believe this will have a mortifying effect on ling. More so that she is away and does not have the comfort of her own space. This part o the punishment was to show her that she cannot always have the lifestyle as she desirers. There are rules and they are to be followed even when they do not give her the excitement and thrill.

The second part of the punishment will be to continue the pussy smacks in the morning and the clit smacks at night however the change will be she must cum 5 times inbetween the smacks. This should give ling the understanding that too much of a getting what you want is not a good thing.

Oh what is a pussy smack well first the pussy is shaved every day as close as possible this sometimes produces razor burn but c'est la vie. Then when the pussy is still damp you take a spatula and apply it briskly to the area as rapidly as possible. Afterwards a liberal dose of acohol to dis-infect the area. The clit smack is simple holding her legs open and her pussy lips she must direct the smacks to the clit. I know this is difficult and she will miss. she must hit the clit 5 times misses do not count

I am sure that somethings are becoming quite tender now. Hopefully this will inspire ling to take tasks seriously and certainly to stay in the proper frame of mind

undertanding and communications

Well I am back, a few pounds lighter, a little slower but I am back. Now lets tear into an issue that has presented itself while I was in hospital.

ling a very good sub so far but fell apart during my absence. she fell apart because she was angry with me for well to say it plainly I was not there everyday for her. I found this amusing as I have set tasks for her given her routines to follow and my friends emails to gain reassurance from in case of an unscheduled absence . Yet her tasks were not complete, her routines sort of done and sort of not.

When was it okay for a sub to be angry at her Dom when her duties were not performed? Yes I have been harsh in the past when she has had unscheduled absences because of worry but I was not angry with her. I was upset but when it was explained I accepted it.

So miss ling yes you are in trouble and yes I will take great delight in the punishment that I have assigned you and the best my dear is yet to come. In the future I suggest you use your tasks and routines as replacement for my presenses when need be.

So nice to be back

Witchcraft

In day of olde when you were sick, you sought out a sooth sayer or witch doctor or warlock. Some magical person that could cure you. If you could stomach the potion then you might just fall asleep or you might start vomiting and fall into coma and then into the great unknown. Some survived some did not. If you did well they wanted to make sure you were strong enough so they would bleed you in various ways, leeches, knives and needles.


How nice that now adays medicine has changed so much. Now they introduce antibiotics that burn your veins and any tissue it touches, you slip in and out of a canatonic sleep induced by the use of pain killers so you do not feel the antibiotics . When they can no longer find veins they send you home with pills that causes you to sleep eat get sick and sleep.

They did say That I am without infection now but I am waiting for the leeches.

Not quite ready to lay down yet

I am at home I am not perfect but I am home. Thank you to well wishers and the visitors all were appreciated. Health wise I have a while to go but I also have a strong will. You will not see much of my writing for at least a week or two but I will be reading. Yes there is plenty of fight left in Me.

The munch

I have taken a lot of time off from blogging and Domming to relax and recoup, I could not give up my munch though. I was not going to attend yesterday sI was going to sit in the pool and just chill. Two of the organizers of the munch were worried that they would not be there on time and asked if I could help out. These two have stretched their hands out to me in so many different ways and times I could not refuse so off I went

I teased old friends and meet jo aka searabbit that if I had known it was her I would have sat with them for a while longer. I spoke with a couple Dom/Domme new to the group. We talked about what makes a sub sub and all quite interesting , I hope they retuun to the next munch. Then there was Bradon applying massages to various females that look like putty in his hands. Ah Paula wow a lively personallity that beamed with excitement just for being there. Mistress Lisa was as always charming with a hint of devilment in her eyes which is betrayed by that lovely evil laught.
Play parties , camps and workshops are great but ther e is nothing like a munch to allow people to find thier way . exchange ideas and just laugh. It is medicinal at thimes at least for me.

Yes it is time to start writing again and seeking out subs and slaves but the critera will be harder for both them and me. I will take my time and they will have to be what I want . I alos have been lacks with ling far too much I would say. She needs a stronger hand with more caring. A lovely crerature that is just out to please and perhaps she is tryin to please too many people and forgets about her self a lot so that will have to be rectified. I alos have to prioritize my life as I have a new Domme to please for information on that just go to the drakor blog. I will say taht she is new will make mistakes and will grow.Hopefully she will learn from me and I from her. Many times in my life after reaching a certain level I have returned to re-study the basics to make sure the fondation is good , you know how you can develop bad habits.

SO I am refreshed and revitalized mostly by the munch and yes the pool does not hurt either. I think I have my humour back at least the bratish part of it I had my piece of pie yesterday so time to get off the fence as some one said yesterday and decide. Just one questions for littleone if you like pain and you are sitting on a fence why would you get off? Oh one last question how do you know if you have splinters?

where have I been

Well a good question. over the past months a lot has happened/ Submissives came and went actually over the past year they did and questions arose. Not from exterior forces but from me. I had thought I was clear is what and how I said things perhaps I did not they seem to have been mis-inturpeted. I question my training methods and my wants and wishes they may be oo much . Is it that I want truly cannot be fulfilled. I might be a player tah I need rather than a slave. I am still pondering and have sought out a friend to help . I will see if what I demand is possible so my writings might be sporactic at times I do not wish to pass along anything that until I am comfortable with it. ling will stil be here and still under my control on a daily bases for what I have done with her seems to have worked. I will bog about her and other things just not as often and no ling it has nothing to do with my health. It does have to do with emotions, interpetations, understandings and needs . Both of the sub and the Master.

I feel being a good Domm is a lot of work and there should be pay back for the Dom even though it is the needs, wants and desires of the sub that drives the relation. In recent times going back as far as 3 years ago I had done a lot of preliminary training only to see the sub leave and not complete it so that we may move to the next levelt his greatly frustrates a master. that is why the little sabaticle . So I can re-group and re focus thoughts on my needs and training methods and selection process. Time for me to ponder and perhaps re-learn and re-think how to do thinkgs.

What does the word mean

ling has asked many questions non harder then those about love. Though I answered they have caused me to think upon and ponder. The questions about love. It is extremely hard for me to feel or show emotions I tend to think of it as a weakness a tool that can be used to manipulate me. So I hide it as you have seen in my answers. Only those very close tome for a log time would know of my feelings or emotions. So that said perhaps my definitions of the word love might help you.

Again we run into communication problems for we all have different meanings and value for words. There is an old Mashmakan song that explains varying degrees of it . I do not believe in so many but I would say that I have three.

The first is easy the love for your children . Yes monsters like me have children. You will be surprised to hear that my children brought up as free spirits with rules.. They were shown different choices they could make and they were encouraged to make decisions early in life. With that preamble said love of a parent is almost unconditional. You want then to succeed and you overlook things that are not perfect about them. You say you give tuff love yet you check to see if your 20 year old made it home and safely sleeps in his bed. You would never tell him this because you are a Dad. And dads do not do those things. Well we do we just do not tell anyone we did, unlike moms and that is totally another blog.

There is soul mate love. That is bordering on the achievement of your fantasy relation. The perfect slave or submissive for a Master or perfect master for a slave. All those lovely excitable feelings all those deep emotions that come out bliss would be a good word for it . Infatuation does not even come close it is far more than that . It is like living on a desert island and not wanting to be rescued. You know when you are rescued it will disappear and reality will again take over. All that remains is the dreams of what could have been .

Then there is an old type of love. The one you learn. It has been around since the first arranged marriage. It is still here in most of our relations of today. It is based on honour and commitment . This loves is like the tide it ebbs and flows. IT comes from being with a person when they are young and wild and old and cantankerous. IT has to do with compromising ones needs. IT is made of giving ones self to others . Doing what we hate just so we get a smile. It comes from watching our wife suffer through child birth . It comes from suffering the demands of bills, taxes and keeping up with the Jones whoever they may be (they do have quite a high standard of living). It comes from the arguing and the making up; of the deepseeded hurt that never goes away. IT is cause by a women looking through a window at her husbands almost lifeless body hoping for a sign of life for 3 days, it comes from her willingness to give up everything to see a finger move. It comes from a women seeing what her husband so bravely hides from others, his weakness, lost of abilities and his pain.

That is learned love something that not all relations attain when they do it is a relationship of freedoms and of deep compassion and yes love. IT is based on caring ,thinking , hard work and sharing deep emotions that can only come out in time. Arguements still occur, hurt still happens and things are not, nor will they be, perfect. Yet there is joy , comfort and a wish to protect her from harm of any kind. Yes I give up many things so that I can stand and protect her from the dragons of life but so does she to have that protection.

I am a lucky man (yes I have always loved that song) as I have experience all three. All are like works of art in there own right. Some just occurred as with children. Some are inspired and need little work as with a soulmate. Some require thought and work are ongoing and will not end. They are drugeries at time and bliss at others . There are horrific battles and great romance. In a movie( The Agony and the ecstasy) about the painting of Cystene Chapel The pope looks up at Michael Angelo, during the painting and asks "when it is will it end? Michael Angelo answers "when it is finished". I am no better or worse then others and all could call their lives Agony and Ecstasy, after 25 five years of marriage does have a ring to it though.

Well ling I hope this helps you to know me a bit more. Which is the best love? Well they all have a place in life. Time is the measure of all things including love.

Big Brother or is it bother

We have created a society of whinners and blame asessers. Why when I was young did I go play beside a river with out audlt supervision? How did I know that if I was not invited into some ones pool I did ot go? Where are the parents of this generation? Why are they sitting on their asses while their children do not have the sense of what is danger? Do not give me this crap about both having to work because I know of too many single parents who do great jobs with thier children while working to make ends meet so sorry you parents taht are both working that has asses as children you are to blame for the stupidity of your children no one else.

In conversation with a near by principle I found out he is putting forth a suggestion that all cars must come to a full stop when they see a child that might be crossing or thinking of crossing a street. What are we teaching them in school? First I have to put up a fence that I did not want because some child under thier parents supervision might wander off and drown and who's fault would that be? I have to worry that a child does not understand where it is safe to cross or when / I was taught that you make sure the car stops then you cross. Red light Green light did not matter if I put one foot on the street without looking I was yanked back and scolded.

Last year a young women or girl was killed by a speeding driver on a street near by, flowers were placed memorials read and written all very touching. Everyone blamed the driver even though the driver had right of way Did she look, at most at the green light if that. On the very same area I have moving at normal speed had to apply my breaksbecause they step from the curb with thier ear phons in or talking on their cells without a glance to me or the light they just expect me to stop no mattter what.

Now I have a suggestion for the government that any child caught not minding the laws of road have the parent taken down to the station given a good horse whipping and put into jail for a weekend and the child sent to a uunvenile hall with no nintendo, pc, mps or dvds. Then send the whole damm family for training in being a responsible citizens The second offence would be a repeat of the first punishment though I would horse whip the parents on th Frinday and the following monday morning to make sure they retain the pain for a while. I would also dye the whole family to warn us all that they are stupid perhaps a deep purple or maybe stripes. After that a third offence well that is easy lock up the family together in a small room without any form of media for a year.I am sure that if they are forced to communicate with each other for more than five minutes they will kill each other. Correcting the failure of natural selection and soving the many problems of the future of the race.

Rant is over but not forgotten I am tired of being big brother to fools

Well that is over with or is it.

The idea was for ling to find out more aboutme because she needs to be emotionally close to her Master. So I answered all the questions now a real task for my ling . Before we started the questions I told you to write what you know of me. Of course ling whined and complained about it but it was done.

Now my pet you must write what you know of me now what have you learnt from your questions. In the blog you will explain why you might have changed your ideas about me how you feel emotionally and all the diferences you have found in your thoughts on me.

It is Tuesday , I am entering hospital on Thurs morning at 8:30 I would prefer to see your blog by Wed night . Later than that and I do not know how soon I will be able to read it. When your blog is done you are allowed to ask one question. This should be stimulated by the questions you have asked or a burning question that did not fit in but that you deperately need to know. Remember I said ask the question I did not say I will answer it but it will stimulate thought and discussion and then perhaps you will answer it.

TEN Finally!!!

You said, "I do not believe that love sworks you have commitment you have sharing and i can see that you have loyalty and I see that but love all I see is are words written about it but nothing that cannot be described in other words that describe actions, usually under the heading of love, much better."
Okay this answer didn't make much sense to me.....BUT what i think i got from it was that You can't 'see' love, so it doesn't exist or You don't give it much power in Your life.
I believe that humans try desperately to be in love to express love to do everything for love yet truly they have not ever been in love few have. There are great stories and poems about it. Love is something you experience once in a lifetime if you are lucky but only once and not all will. Most relations are based on contentment or infatuation not love. They all start due to needs of individuals that are fulfill by what others want to give. AN emotional payment you could say. There is an old song that says you cannot pay for love. On to the questions now.

Isn't there many ways people express love in an action?

They express a need or want through action if you wish to put these actions under an umbrella word such as love so be it.

Do You feel You have ever really been in love?
Yes

"To say that I am beating someone ass because I love them no it is because I enjoy it." Haven't You ever given a sub something they wanted more than You did?
Yes I have

Why or Why not?
Because U enjoyed the power I had by giving it

Do You feel love hasn't entered Your BDSM life because of vanilla commitments?

No it has entered
What means more from You...Love or Commitment?
Commitment
What means more to You...love or commitment?
commitment if I must use the word

"Again not love but honor relates to it " Isn't there love in honor?
There does not have to be
i mean to truly honor someone don't you need to love them?
No

Did You learn anything about Yourself during this challenge?
Not really my dear except you base a lot of things on this word love I hope it is as strong as a word as you feel it to be for you.

nine

You told me how this came to be but You didn't answer my question. "A cold uncaring individual someone without emotions" How does that make You feel....inside?
My I thought I did it does not affect me what others think of me

"You might well love something else as it fits your needs better." What happens to what You once loved?
That depends on circumstance I do not confuse the word love with commitment
Do You believe it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all?
I do not think that any experience is bad so experience as much as you can.

Where is Your romance?
In fantasies and books

"You might well love something else as it fits your needs better." Do You truly think love works that way?
I do not beleive that love sworks you have commitment you have sharing and i can see that you have loyalty and I see that but love all I see is are words written about it but nothing that cannot be described in other words that describe actions, usually under the heading of love, much better.

Is it really love if You can just turn it on and off?

I think my answer above covers this question

This is cynicism, "why should I if you know the ending of a book and the story line why would you read it ." Do You think it keeps You from opening Yourself to love?

No

For fun...."If You could change that judgment what would it be too?" It is a hypothetical and for fun!!!!
Sorry I do not understand the question

How does love relate to Your BDSM world?

AH that word again. Possesion relates to it ownership, pleasure seeking and pleasure giving relates to it I can think of many words that relate to it. To say that I am beating someone ass because I love them no it is because I enjoy it. Just as I enjoy it when I get a compliment on my subs behavior that make me feel good because I have taught them well. So truly it does not related to it at all. Again not love but honour relates to it

Alarm clocks

Funny how things work now a days. You still have to go through the motion of turning on alarm clocks lets say . Yes! In this day and age the idea of it. Where are our inventors why have they not solved this complicated problem we can go to the moon but not have an alarm clock that sets itself.

Sounds like a task for a sub does it not? well not for ling nope she forgot making her late not sending the morning email not blogging being an hour behind and late for a lunch with another Master . Hmmmm how good does that make me look. I wonder if I should put in a wake up call so that miss ling will set her alarm every night.

Now what type of wake up call should it be. First ling will insert the intruder. Then blog on the steps she needs to take to set her alarm when this is done she will email an apology to the Master she made wait cc to me of course. Is that it noooo then we will practice setting the alarm ling will set it for five minutes and wait till it rings then she will do it again and again until she grasps the idea that subs are not allowed to make Masters wait. ling will do this for half an hour. Then she can take out the intruder. AH but it is not over. ling will masterbate 5 times a day for five minutes each time for 5 days. When during the day is up to miss ling but of course she will have to use her alarm to make sure it is 5 minutes and NO orgasms.

I am sure this will be a wake up call ling will remember ling this might seem sevre but you represent me when you sit with another Master being late is not acceptable. Make sure the Master you made wait has a copy of this punishment.

Do enjoy the week
PS did yo notice the three number 5 s. Wll yes I am close but not quite a devil am I not.

8

You do judge people but You aren't swayed by Your judgements....How is that possible?
Every one judges people everyone is swayed by the actions of others I merely reserve judgement past the initial impression.

"A cold uncaring individual someone without emotions" How does that make You feel....inside?
This judgement as you call it was related to me by a manager that worked for me he said that if I every took over the store he worked in as I came in the front door he would leave by the back. Another said and this is a translation of a Quebecois saying " if he opens his mouth does a light go on" meaning that I did not smile I was like a fridge. As my job was mostly turning companies around I usually had to chop some heads So this allowed me to do my job with out the hassle of emotion.
If You could change that judegement what would it be too?

I would not as it is a useful tool to see reaction of others

"Too much changes over the years to be able to say that one has always loved the other or will." What You once loved You may not love later?

You might well love something else as it fits your needs better.

"Only mothers are capable of not seeing the faults and irks of their children their concept of reality when it comes to their children is often clouded by this emotion." But not a Fathers?
I can speak only for myself but yes it is different Mothers want to hold on as long as possible I tend to want them to be free so that they can have a life there onw life. That cannot be done coddled in mother's arms. They must take their chances like all fledglings must do when they atttempt flight on their own.
Do You think logic and reason should even play a part of love?

Love is not the protecter we all think it is. It does not stop the storms of life nor does it make decisions easier. It clouds judgement so love is part of life so is logic and reason part of life. Love plays a part of reason and logic not the other way.
Do You think Your cynicsm keeps You from enjoying some parts of life?

No honour does.
Are You afraid to open Yourself to real love?
Real what is real love making fairytale decisions or facing the harsh realities of life. I donot open myself as you say why should I if you know the ending of a book and the story line why would you read it .

The 7

Do You really feel You don't judge people?

I do judge people I just take a while to decide on most.

How do You feel about people who judge others?

Too many take their first impression or are swayed by others formulating their opinions based on others whims.
If someone where to judge You at a first meeting what judgments do You think people would place on You?

A cold uncaring individual someone without emotions

"After youth and our riches are gone what else do we have." What about Love?
An emotion best left between mother and child. Too much changes over the years to be able to say that one has always loved the other or will. Only mothers are capable of not seeing the faults and irks of their children their concept of reality when it comes to their children is often clouded by this emotion.

How do You describe the perfect love?

It was once desribed to me as death the end of thought and reason. It is a word needed to express a caring without the cold logic involved. Fulfillment of needs would be the best descrition for it though I think what you look for is flowery description of animal lust and a continuation of the species. So how about this enjoyment of another not directly related to you both mentally and physically.

"just a feeling that it is right to do so" Do You believe in intuition?
Yes I do but it can easily be tainted by circumstance and surronding

How much would You place on an initial feeling or Your intuition?

Depends on the situation and timming. If I must make a decision quickly a lot more then if I can take time to reflect and ponder. At that point I would have to take in surrondings to see what affect or influence they had on me at the time

Perhaps I am late

Sir a Dom friend of mine suggested that ling's lack of blogging was a punishment offence. I don't think so as she has just returned from vacation. How ever ling does need to get back into submissive mode again so a task I think would be good.

I will say that I have no pictures yet of her positions hmmmm well a nasty task then. Since the vacation went so well time to contemplate things again so lets re-introduce the intruder for meditation purposes only. SO insert the intruder then think of why you should get the web cam going and how you can get those pictures and when. Wait make sure you have the right answers for these questions ling so keep the intruder in for half an hour. Then you can blog your answers to the task above. Once the blogging is over then you may remove you friend the intruder.
Now I know it has been a while but do remember that the intruder goes in your ass ling no where else. Just to keep you focused ling no orgasm until the questions have been asked and the tasks above done.

enjoy the day

great laugh at someone expense

I was talking with a switch friend of mine . Right now the person is in Dominant side with a newbie sub. Newbie to the point where all is new to her. The sub saw a movie a few years agao about a Domme and her female sub and expects the hollywood version of a lifestyle relationship. She is demanding a lot of lets say time from my switch friend. My friend just wants to Dom her not be her best friend not get emotional involved with her.


Hmmm that sounds familar. I have had a few subs like that recently and I spoke to a Domme friend of mine and she said men are from mars and women from venus. All women want emotion . Well I have given this a great deal of thought and I do not totally agree with the men from Mars and women from Venus stuff. After hearing from my switch friend and having Dommed her I think that Dominants are from Mars subs are from Venus and switches well since we are pratical perfect in every way must be the only humans in the lifestyle but we commute a lot that could be why we get cranky at newbies sometimes!

Here is smiling at you Switch.